23/03/2024
This is written by a good friend of mine and the words resonate so well to me.
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π€ Honoured to have been asked to write this article for BeKeane Healthy and Fit as we celebrate 2024 Neurodiversity Week.
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These scenarios may not seem a big deal for the typical person, but they can cause unbearable pain for my autistic son. They are not 2-minute reflections that can be forgotten about, and itβs not a matter of moving on with the day like nothing has happened.
They can be extremely debilitating, draining and affect his ability to function and think about anything else.
I talk about them because it does interfere with his everyday life, and not everyone understands the true impact it can have on an autistic person and how they function afterwards.
But as weβve learnt over the years, itβs a matter of changing and adapting to the supports he requires, and always remaining positive and calm for him when those situations arise.
Whilst we navigate the chaos of the world, and confusion inside his precious brain, he sure does continue to amaze us with the incredible way he sees the world. Heβs taught us that the small things in life are actually the big things. Heβs shown us the joy you can find in unexpected places. Heβs proven that kindness costs nothing but can literally change someoneβs entire day, and to of course honour all our feelings, no matter how big or small.
We let him show us his intensely focused passions and love interests, and we use those as a focus for connection and appreciation. From the soothing hum of air conditioners to the click of TV remotes, the thunderous applause of hand dryers, the motion of vacuum cleaners, the rhythm of traffic lights, and now the captivating world of DVD players β each fascination taking us on a unique journey showcasing his incredible and unique way of doing things.
As his mother and biggest supporter, I will always advocate for him and promote kindness, inclusion and acceptance for all. By sharing his brilliant mind, soul and story, my goal is to show others the beauty in being different. Itβs how we break down barriers, create a kinder world and enrich the experiences for everyone, regardless of differences.
And as I continue to share the struggles, the differences, the special interests, the meltdowns and the fight for inclusion and acceptance for my son and the whole neurodivergent communityβ¦. can I ask, will you be willing to do this too?
Will you recognise that being different is simply a difference, but by no means less?
Will you shine a light on the talents and abilities of our neurodivergent children, so people can truly understand how amazing they are?
Will you spark conversations around βout of the boxβ thinking, so their roles in society are valued just like everyone else?
Will you acknowledge that we should all express ourselves freely and unapologetically?
And will you always show kindness, no matter our differences or the paths weβve walked?
With support and unity, we are then able to move towards inclusivity and understanding for all.
We need every voice to be heard, every story to be valued, and every dream to be realised.
Thatβs how we truly make the world a better place.
Julia Ryan
William Ready
Would love you to spread this message.
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