01/10/2024
This legend and father-of-four is Mark. 🙌
He was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer.
“In 2021, I was having a lot of urinary problems, and I was having to stay close to the toilet,” he says. 😔
“Back then, my PSA was 5.8, and I was referred to a urologist through public health. They did an MRI, and there was a 7mm diameter lesion on my prostate. They put me on medication to reduce the prostate being enlarged, which worked so I did not have to frequently run to the toilet. 👍
“After that, I didn’t worry about it, but at the start of 2024, I was having a few niggling pains, which I put down to urinary problems. 😟
“I usually get checked every year around April when I get my PSA test done because my dad died from prostate cancer. I started getting checked when I was 45 years old. 💉
“My PSA had doubled from 8 to 16 in the space of 12 months, so my GP said we had better get you to a specialist, which at that time I couldn’t afford, so he put me on the public system, and I waited for three months. ⏰
“It doesn't do your mental health much good when you just want some answers. I returned to my GP, who referred me to a private urologist. An MRI revealed the lesion had grown to 10mm. I had my biopsy in August, and that's when it came back with a Gleason score of 3+4=7. Bone scans and CT revealed it was still contained in the prostate. 😞
“The biopsy cost me $4,000, but at least I got the answers. The urologist was keen on doing surgery ASAP; his estimate was shy of $15,000, but I couldn’t afford it, so he referred me back to the public system. 💰
“I’m still waiting. On 8 October, I have an appointment with a public urologist. 🤞
“I remember coming home when the doctor told me I had prostate cancer. I was just so emotionally upset about it. 😥
“I didn’t talk to anyone for a few days. I was angry. I only retired 12 months ago, and we were touring around Australia and only got to do half of it. 😡
“Because we live out in the bush, I was thankful to be able to ring a prostate cancer nurse at PCFA and have a chat with her. I felt a lot better after talking to her because I didn’t have a clue about what other treatments there were besides surgery. ☎️
“She directed me to all the materials on PCFA’s website, which was very helpful. It was a comfort talking to her. She also suggested some support I could find in Rockhampton. ☺️
“Because you’re sitting around and waiting, you become depressed. I manage it and know how to pull myself out of it, but waiting around is frustrating. 😟
“If you know you have a family history of prostate cancer, please get yourself checked. Please do your PSA test now. I know my grandad had it but didn’t die of it. My dad definitely died of it, and now I have it. I am married and have three sons and a daughter, and now I constantly talk to them about it. 🧑🤝🧑
“To all the dads out there, please talk to your sons about prostate cancer.” 👨👦👦
You’re among friends here, Mark. Cheers for being a champion. 💙