Ripening - Birth Doula and Prenatal Educator

Ripening - Birth Doula and Prenatal Educator Welcome to Ripening! I'm Dori Harrison, a birth Doula and prenatal educator. Don't forget to LIKE this page to stay up to date! What is a Birth Doula? A friend.

A Doula is a woman trained in the traditional arts of childbirth wisdom. She accompanies expectant mothers and their partners in their journey to become parents, providing emotional support, physical comforts, and helps with information/resources where needed so parents are able to make informed choices as they are on their journey. A Doula is a trusted companion. If you are interested to learn more, please check out my website or give me a call! I'd love to support you in your birth experience.

Greetings from Dori and Melissa! These two doulas are taking our “off-call” summer pretty serious as we recoup and re-en...
07/26/2021

Greetings from Dori and Melissa! These two doulas are taking our “off-call” summer pretty serious as we recoup and re-energize for the coming fall birth season. Look at this happy camp-life! 🤩😌 ⛺️ 🚐❤️

Hoping to hire a doula for your birth? Give me a call, email or DM if you’d like to set up an interview with us down-to-earth, experienced doulas. 🙂

We have some limited space for late Sept-early Dec, and are now starting interviews for 2022.

Hope you’re having a beautiful summer!

Not what you planned. Big love from your caring doula.
01/16/2021

Not what you planned. Big love from your caring doula.

This is not what you had planned. This is not what you’d envisioned. There are no visits from friends, no loving doula bringing you soup, no “mommy and me” yoga classes, no coffee dates, no stroller walks through the park. There is empty space where you had planned comfort and company. There are long days with no one but your little one to talk to and this big transition to navigate all alone.

I know it’s lonely, mama. I know the walls of your house feel tight and the days feel so long, and you crave a warm hand on your knee and the soft embrace of a friend. You wish for someone by your side to marvel at this beautiful baby of yours and to wrap an arm around you when the feelings get too big and scary.

We were never meant to do this alone. Motherhood has never been a solitary sport. And yet here we are, in this odd chapter of isolation and distance, with no choice but to do it by ourselves.

But mama, know this- We are alone. Together. You are surrounded all the other mothers who are navigating this tender time in isolation. You are held by all of us who have walked the path before you and who know how much you must be hurting. You are wrapped in the warm embrace of mama earth, as she too settles into this time of slowness and healing.

This too shall pass. And when it does, hugs and coffee dates and visits from friends will taste so much sweeter. Soft kisses on your cheek and arms around your waist and gentle laughter in your ear will be the joyful medicine after this trying time.

Until then, hunker down mama. Find the coziest, warmest spot on your couch, sink into the pile of unfolded laundry, and sleep the Spring away, with that sweet babe warm on your chest.

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Hi folks! Well 2020 has been quite the year. Talk about a doula learning-curve!! Whether it’s been adapting to Zoom for ...
12/14/2020

Hi folks! Well 2020 has been quite the year. Talk about a doula learning-curve!!

Whether it’s been adapting to Zoom for interviews and prenatal visits, or juggling the work/family balance, or staying up to date on protocol to support clients for home and hospital during this pandemic, or in the work of figuring out how to transform classes to online formats, or really recognizing and teaching the importance of informed decision making processes (especially during this pandemic!), or so much more!... doulas continue to do our best in helping folks navigate the precious and unpredictable time of pregnancy and postpartum.

Through it all, my partner Melissa and I have had the joy and privilege of supporting many families into parenthood in 2020!!

To all of the families we’ve worked with this past year, it’s been a heck of an honor to walk with you. You’ve taught us so much about navigating pregnancy through all kinds of tests and blessings, with incredible resilience and heart.

For the families hiring us in 2021- thank you for inviting us in! We can’t wait to get to know you and support you.

I know I’m a couple weeks early, but I’m ready for 2021! This is an exciting year ahead Melissa and I, as we are celebrating 5 years of partnership! One of the dearest people I know, Melissa has been a doula for almost 10 years, and she was the inspiration and motivation for me getting into this work over 8 1/2years ago. Best!!

My Wish and Blessings to all: whatever the hard work that we are navigating- I hope that we turn to each other with kindness and compassion, and that we challenge ourselves to connect to the pain of life, and that we ask ourselves what it means to dig deep, deeper still, and to give birth to that which is growing inside of each of us.

Happy Hanukkah, Merry Christmas, and Blessed Solstice in the days ahead.

Stay safe. I’m rooting for you. ❤️❤️

Hi folks! I’m so excited to talk with Michelle Tyliakos from Transforming Birth about a big passion of mine- true holist...
07/24/2020

Hi folks! I’m so excited to talk with Michelle Tyliakos from Transforming Birth about a big passion of mine- true holistic care in childbirth. I’ll be sharing my work about spirituality and childbirth, and specifically the role Doulas can play in supporting and protecting qualities of spirituality during childbirth. Join us next Wednesday at 1pm PST!

Dori Luthy-Harrison has been supporting families in Vancouver area as a birth doula for over 8 years, and teaching prenatal classes for 5 1/2 years as a trained instructor. In that time she has witnessed the importance of spiritual care in this powerful life transformation, leading her to a path dedicated more centrally to the spiritual nature of human experiences. In 2018, Dori began a Masters Degree in Spiritual Care at the Vancouver School of Theology, to become a Chaplain/Spiritual Care Practitioner. The link in her life between these two kinds of work, Spiritual Care and Birth-work, has more than anything revealed the significant gap in spiritual care during the powerful event of Childbirth. Dori is pursuing this topic further both in her birth-work, and in research/writing, and hopes to bring greater awareness and urgency to the protection of the spirituality of childbirth, and the critical role doulas can play in this care.

Join Dori Harrison and I as we explore questions about spiritual care.

🔹️What do we understand about current gaps in care?
🔹️With evidence supporting the positive outcomes doulas offer, how does this kind of research and connection to Spiritual Care potentially help establish doulas as a cohesive and valued role in the birth care team?
🔹️What about the spiritual nature of birth should birthing families be aware of?

See you all on Wednesday July 29 over in Transforming Birth!

05/07/2020

Hey peeps! This is my first major (& awkward, & long) attempt at documenting a bit about what is in my heart as I move through this world: Artist and doula meet spiritual care.

The questions for me: what do I want to be witness to in this time? What do I think is important about the work of being human?

Sorry the video is so long. (Wine.)

(Inspired by pushing me to lighten up in perfectionist tendencies and take a risk.)

This is a shout out of love and respect to some of the hardest working people I know- MIDWIVES! And a bit of education a...
05/07/2020

This is a shout out of love and respect to some of the hardest working people I know- MIDWIVES! And a bit of education about their skills, commitment, and conscientious role in births. Amazing to see one of Pomegranate Midwives in this film! It’s an honour to work along side midwives!

https://vimeo.com/358126471?ref=fb-share

This is "Canadian Association of Midwives: Vancouver" by Tessa Giffen on Vimeo, the home for high quality videos and the people who love them.

05/01/2020

To our Vancouver birthing families. An article of reassurance and encouragement from the PHSA newsletter. ❤

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The COVID-19 pandemic is changing the way people live their lives and for women who are pregnant, it can mean a whole new level of worry.

At BC Women's Hospital + Health Centre we hear questions like, "Could the virus harm my baby?" "Could it harm me?"

"Can my partner or doula even be there for the birth?"

"That last question is the number one question I get in my office," says BC Women's Infectious Disease Specialist Dr. Chelsea Elwood. "We're very patient and family centred. We support having one support person in the labour room, plus a doula in their care team, because we think that's a hugely important part of the birth process."

COVID-19 is a viral disease, but so far, research shows pregnant women are not more susceptible than the rest of the public.

"Pregnant women are not shown to be more infected with the virus," says Elwood. "They seem to be actually, potentially, less infected with the virus or the same as the general population."

With other viruses like influenza, pregnant women can get sicker than non-pregnant women so our teams are watching closely for this with COVID-19, but so far no studies have confirmed this.

"The vast majority of pregnant women experience very mild disease," says Elwood. "There will be a portion, like any part of the population, where they have more severe disease, but for the most part, it's actually quite mild."

Pregnant women in their first or second trimester and have flu or COVID-19 symptoms, are encouraged to get tested for COVID-19. Women in their third trimester should be tested for the virus. Public COVID-19 testing sites can be found here.

If you are pregnant and waiting for COVID-19 test results, seek urgent care if you experience one of the following changes in your health:

• If it becomes harder to breathe

• If you can't drink anything

• If you feel very unwell

• If you show signs of going into labour

If you have suspected or confirmed COVID-19, you and your support person will be in isolation and care will be based on your symptoms. Anticipate continuous electronic fetal monitoring during labour to assess your baby's well-being. Our aim will be to keep you and baby together, if at all possible, after birth. Skin-to-skin contact, delayed cord clamping and breastfeeding are considered safe at this time. If you need to go to the operating room, further measures may be taken to prevent the spread of COVID-19. Your baby will be tested for COVID-19, but the chances of the virus transmitting from mother to baby are slim.

"Right now, we have no evidence that the virus is vertically transmitted to the baby," says Elwood. "This virus is similar to other respiratory viruses, which do not transmit to the fetus."

Patients who come to the hospital will find the entrances to BC Women's are limited to facilitate active screening. Women in labour can enter through Entrance 97, listed on this campus map. People will be met by a greeter at the entrance, who will remind them to wash their hands and wear a mask if they have any possible COVID-19 symptoms. The greeter will also advise people about the current visitor restrictions at BC Women's, which include no child visitors for labour and delivery patients. There will be extra precautionary measures visible, for instance, health-care workers are often wearing more personal protective equipment. Physical distancing measures are also in effect.

To protect yourself and your baby while in hospital and after you go home, the most important thing you can do to prevent COVID-19 and other illnesses is to clean your hands regularly and avoid touching your face. If you feel sick, wear a mask, especially while breastfeeding. Stay home as much as possible and if you must go out in public, keep yourself and your baby two metres from others.

"Those physical distancing measures that are in place, are actually quite beneficial for newborns," says Elwood. "Those are similar practices we recommended pre-COVID, including frequent hand-washing and not going to large gatherings with newborns."

Hello out there! I thought I’d take a few moments to let you all know that I am still attending births (joyfully, carefu...
04/11/2020

Hello out there!

I thought I’d take a few moments to let you all know that I am still attending births (joyfully, carefully) during this strange time. I was at a birth this week, and following all recommended protocol for mask/hand washing to keep everyone safe. And I’ll tell you- everyone on the birth team did the best we could to help make it beautiful and joyful, even considering the unusual times, and even behind protective gear!

Resilience and finding ways to cope with the unknown- this is STILL the theme of birth, and more so in this world of unknown we are all waking through (distanced!).

If anyone is looking for doula support right now, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’d be happy to talk about what that might look like for you. (One note, I am only attending births at BCW Hospital and home births.)

Also! All my prenatal classes are now being taught online. Live and lively! Check out the class offerings at Dancing Star Birth’s website.

Blessings to you all! Stay safe!

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A little birthy bit of history!
02/02/2020

A little birthy bit of history!

Have you ever wondered why embroidery scissors are shaped like storks? Well, these scissors didn't actually start out as scissors, but as umbilical clamps. Sometimes, the clamps would be used with a set of forceps shaped like snakes. Why snakes? To symbolise the Rod of Asclepius, the Greek god of healing and medicine.

Between the 19th century and now, these little stork scissors have gone through some really big changes. In the past, most of them were between four and a half to six inches long, with their heads mounted at almost a 45-degree angle. The beaks were heavy clamps not meant to cut, but to restrict the blood flow before the umbilical was cut. Some even had little babies hidden inside the stork's beak that would appear when the clamps were opened.

The midwives began to use the scissors for needlework that they carried with them to work on during long waiting times when babies were being born.

Who knew these scissors had such a long history that started with delivering babies? The Smithsonian has a medical bag on display with a pair of stork scissors, in their American History Collection.
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12/14/2019

Oh my heart!!

I just finished teaching an evening prenatal class- the first couple hours starting off a weekend intensive workshop. A room full of pregnant families, trusting me to help prepare them for the unknown? What an honour!!

We had an evening of honest, thoughtful sharing about what it might be like to navigate the pain and coping of childbirth. I love it when classes start off with laughter and maybe even a tear or two (and I promise it’s not all just me laughing or crying!). I’m really looking forward to spending Saturday and Sunday with these folks!

Birth humor:
11/24/2019

Birth humor:

Delayed cord clamping! Always worth chatting about this with your care provider. Waiting to cut the cord until the place...
11/23/2019

Delayed cord clamping! Always worth chatting about this with your care provider. Waiting to cut the cord until the placenta is born? That’s another way to guarantee baby’s gotten all their placental blood!

Have you or do you plan to delay cord clamping at birth?

See link for more details https://newbornbaby.com.au/birth-category-page/delayed-cord-clamping/

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I love this! Experiencing labour, going deep within, the birthing body will demonstrate its progress!
10/25/2019

I love this! Experiencing labour, going deep within, the birthing body will demonstrate its progress!

How Do I know if its real birth?

This is a powerful and empowering alternative to current approaches currently being used... by holding birthers and babi...
09/26/2019

This is a powerful and empowering alternative to current approaches currently being used... by holding birthers and babies in their fullness, what an incredible healing for both.

When babies are born dependent on opioids, typically they are whisked away from their mothers, put into the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU), dosed with morphine to get them through withdrawal, and gradually weaned off the drug—a process that can take weeks. Research now suggests that this long...

09/21/2019

The hardest thing is asking for help! These gals talk real about postpartum struggles, what a gift to us all to have this conversation coming into the open more and more.

09/11/2019

What a great visual of the changing states of being!

Happy Breastfeeding Week, celebrating our black sisters- these beautiful mamas!
08/31/2019

Happy Breastfeeding Week, celebrating our black sisters- these beautiful mamas!

07/30/2019

The American College of Obstetricians & Gynecologists is now recommending delayed cord clamping for all babies, premature or full term.

The low-down on the down-low!
07/18/2019

The low-down on the down-low!

Kegels have long been the most prescribed exercise for the pelvic floor and women often hear about them for the first time when they are pregnant. There are ...

So true... still working on this kind of bravery, how about you?
06/25/2019

So true... still working on this kind of bravery, how about you?

By: Charlie Mackesy.

The magic of science! The science of magic! Love it both ways.
06/14/2019

The magic of science! The science of magic! Love it both ways.

“Inside of your baby’s umbilical cord are two arteries and one vein. The vein allows nutrients and oxygen to flow from the placenta into the baby. The two arteries allow waste to flow away from baby and back through the placenta for excretion through the maternal body system. When conducting a placental exam after birth, we always check the cord to make sure it has two arteries and one vein. If the baby only has a two-vessel cord, also known as a single umbilical artery, they are sometimes at an increased risk for certain issues. It’s not that common, though - only about 1% of babies have a single umbilical artery!” -

LEARN MORE: https://www.motherboardbirth.com/vaginal-birth/delayed-cord-clamping

GORGEOUS photo via: DiGXIS 📸

Amazing twin home birth- such a gorgeous journey!(And check out the cords for these two babes. 😍)
06/12/2019

Amazing twin home birth- such a gorgeous journey!(And check out the cords for these two babes. 😍)

I have been meaning to post this birth story for a while now and just haven't had time - lots going on around here lately!

This is a REAL birth story. I am not including ALL images simply because it is a twin surrogate birth, so there are more images than would normally be included for a typical birth story. That said, this is still a RAW depiction of birth, and as such there are some uncensored images included. If you can't handle it, keep scrolling. I am a birth photographer, and my clients' privacy is always paramount. Most of my clients prefer to keep much of their stories private, but this amazing couple & their surrogate have opted to allow sharing of their story as I see fit.

I first met Jessica & the McGuires when Jessica was carrying their second little girl. While I wasn't there for their first journey together, I fell in love with all of them and their families. I was beyond excited when they started talking about a third journey. At first it was only to be one embryo. Jessica had carried surro twins before and swore she'd never do twins again... but as time progressed, and everyone agreed that they'd rather not involve a second surrogate for their 4th baby, Jessica suggested she carry both of their remaining embryos. They agreed that they'd be willing to parent twin boys, and it was decided... the rest is history! I hope you will enjoy this beautiful birth story of twins born at home. If you like these image, you might check out their birth film posted here on the page!

06/04/2019

Largest Waterbirth Study Proves it is Safe In 2017, the Midwives of New Jersey hosted the New Jersey Symposium for Physiologic Birth: 2017 The Evidence

05/29/2019

By Michelle MacLean A positive pregnancy test result. All the emotions arise. Excitement, shock, fear, doubt, and the most intense bliss flood you. There is a light inside of you. Every thought you have has a new emotion attached to it, your mind is spinning with what’s to come. Your body starts t...

Love this!
05/24/2019

Love this!

05/23/2019

In July 2018 the BC government repealed the law that mandated universal newborn eye prophylaxis.
(Yes it was a law 😯)
⁉️Why is it offered?
👁For Chlamydia and Gonorrhoeae acquired eye infections at birth.
⁉️What if I don’t have Chlamydia or Gonorrhoeae?
👁Then your baby doesn’t need it. Your health care provider should offer you screening for these STI’s during your pregnancy so they can be treated before baby is born.
⁉️What are the outcomes of these eye infections if my baby does catch it?
👁Chlamydia: mild to moderate conjunctivitis (pink eye type infection)
👁Gonorrhoeae: more severe infection leading to corneal scarring, ocular perforation, and blindness.
⁉️Why isn’t it a law anymore?
👁mandating this treatment infringes on the autonomy of the parent.
👁this treatment does not seem to improve public health.
👁the Canadian Paediatric Society argues against universal eye prophylaxis.
👁the ability of Erythromycin (the drug used) to prevent Chlamydia acquired eye infection is questionable.
👁There is a 32% failure rate when treating Gonorrhoeae with Erythromycin.
⁉️Are there downsides to giving this to my baby?
👁overuse of Erythromycin is causing GBS and Staph bacteria to become resistant to it.
👁chemical conjunctivitis can occur from the treatment
⁉️What are they doing elsewhere?
👁Other western countries favour monitoring,swabbing suspicious discharge and treating appropriately (with other drugs)
⁉️What is the bottom line?
👁This treatment is your choice as a parent. You should be offered screening for Chlamydia and Gonorrhoeae in pregnancy. If not you should ask for it!
*All data taken from Perinatal services BC and Evidence Based Birth

05/22/2019

A little fun from the other side. So true!!!!

Breech! Great read, and well timed- I was having a similar conversation last night in my prenatal class. If we consider ...
04/25/2019

Breech! Great read, and well timed- I was having a similar conversation last night in my prenatal class. If we consider breech baby positions a “variation of normal”, how do we hope the medical system can support the birth of this version of normal?

Research on outcomes of out-of-hospital breech birth is scarce. A new study in BMC Pregnancy and Childbirth evaluates the outcomes of singleton term breech and cephalic births in a home or birth center setting. In this blog post, the authors discuss the study, the background to their involvement, an...

04/22/2019

What does it mean to claim 5 minutes as a mother? So much more than you might think... January Harshe gives it to us real:

Using the tools of the space! Love it!
04/21/2019

Using the tools of the space! Love it!

Here are a few ways to use hospital beds to help your baby progress during labor. What a great visual! Be encouraged and use the room in whatever way suits you...transform that bed ☺️

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