12/02/2024
MONDAY MUSINGS - Blind Leading The Blonde
The thing about success is one can never have enough of it - a bit like money. Or even He**in (not that I'd know!). The more you have, the more you crave and it all serves to increase the levels of dissatisfaction, rather than reduce it. We just want more and when something goes wrong, which it will as not everything can go right 100% of the time, that only seems to somehow increase the feeling of 'failure', because we'd programmed ourselves to expect 'success'.
It's actually ridiculous. And I'm no different; when, say, as a promoter, my first 8 shows sell out, rather than feel happy and satisfied about the fact, I just feel anxious about whether the remaining shows will go the same way. And if they don't, rather than step back and go 'wow, 80% of our programme sold out' I'd fall into catastrophic thinking going 'oh, it's collapsed, it's over, what are we gonna do now?' and so on.
Similarly if you said to us at the start of Jo Harman's career, when we met at a virtual 'open mic', she'd have 'duetted' with Michael McDonald, have played the O2 Arena, made X amount of money touring internationally as an originals artist under her own name, on her own terms, etc etc etc surely we would have been ecstatic at the prospect. Instead we're going - or at least I'm going - why isn't she as famous as Joss Stone?, or why haven't we won a Grammy? or whatever. Like I say, success doesn't bring satisfaction, it just creates a Jones for something more.
Which, like I say, is ridiculous because however high you get, the craving for more never goes away, in fact it simply increases. Just ask members of the 27 club.
It's also ridiculous because the most fun artists tend to have is at the very start of their career when everything is new and fresh and raw and innocent and untarnished by 'industry' and business pressures that inevitably come with 'progress'. I swear to God, the most fun had by Jo, Mike Mayfield, Stevie Watts, Magic Johnson, Carl Hudson, Terry Lewis, Andy Tolman and the gang - all now top pro musicians in their own right with amazing careers - was at the very start of their musical journeys. When we were playing bars and clubs, getting back at 4am in the morning and all that stuff, when they were really discovering their skills, playing the music they loved and finding out just what a great noise they all made together. At least, that's my analysis of things, but, of course, one should ask them, perhaps, but that's how I recall it.
Social media is evil. Georgia van Etten's incredible song 'Painted People' sums it all up far better than any words I could conjure up here. Check it out on You Tube
It also builds mediocrity where social media skills become more important than the quality of the music, as any glance at Award nominations will evidence.
We're chasing pleasure. We're not chasing happiness. We don't recognise the damage we are doing to ourselves, and society, by constantly chasing dragons. Until we embrace gratitude we will all continue to run a very dangerous path indeed.