Miss Transgender UK Rachael Bailey

19/07/2023

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29/06/2023

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27/06/2023

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22/06/2023

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22/06/2023

Good morning 🌞
I'm now looking at the 10 year reunion of miss Transgender UK pageantry contest for charity .
I am looking for board member positions for registration of LTD company set up .
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19/06/2023

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17/06/2023

16 days after surgery....

Well pharmacy didn't deliver the antibiotics or painkillers.
I'm at a loss with it all .

I'm up today first day not in bed I'm only on chair but it's so good being up and a short bath it's been hell tbh it is no joke most of the time I kept thinking I would wake up not sure if I was terrified or exited the whole time not wanting to miss a thing lol .
The blood will haunt me for a long time yet an I'm still bleeding here it takes 3 weeks to stop .
Dilation is horrendous 3 times a day it builds up to being a daunting task not nice in any way .

But is have a designer va**na at least 6 months and I will be totally fixed .
Xx

16/06/2023

Day 15 ....
I'm exhausted full of pain still brused but swelling has gone down some stitches came loose so still have bleeding and infection so I'm back on antibiotics and more painkillers.
I've had GP out today put me on list for home care services .

It's been a fight all week just to obtain prescription and be placed on this list that was discussed in April with GP surgery at least now it's done .

This is probably the hardest thing I've done .
I thought I was over prepareing but still it is not gone to plan .

12/06/2023

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12/06/2023

Day 12 I'm in agony and still bleeding broke 2 stitches so not happy GP is only now getting back toe I'm home a week is a not right to self medicate I know but I don't really care what they say never have and not about to start now .
I told them im high as kite have been for weeks now tuff I need more. This what I'm talking to deal with the pain an im blogging response so be careful how you deal with me .

Not in the mood for a fight with GP today

11/06/2023

Morning of day ten ..
I've had a chance to sleep adjust but it's still sinking in I'm still bleeding but it's less nothing fromGP but theni asked a friend or two and I'm no longer in pain ....
Nurse or care team fell on deaf ears I'm lucky to have family with me at the moment most don't have that .
I'm very lucky

11/06/2023

Have you ever seen a menu like this in a hospital I loved it I ate it all lol yummy I didn't stop I just yes please x

09/06/2023

It's day eight ....
I'm totally wiped out emotionally drained feeling numb and in shock it's starting to sink in I've totally different body .

I'm still taking antibiotics with pain relief I've had to ask friends to help for that as can't even get the GP appointment or call I give in for now I have more to deal with .

Yesterday was very hard on me challenged me my stiches broke and dissolved the pain was incredible the bleeding for a few hours was upsetting and extremely worrying pushing bits skin in place making my own suture tapes up the wounds and then silicone bandages and towels pants pressure pants to reduce swelling blood flow I panicked.

But it's worked this morning 🌞 I'm inpain but it not bad enough for hospital I just need to stay in bed flat packed. Up. .

I'm lucky I'm prepared over. Preparedif anything but yesterday if I didn't have medical supplies here and first aid training I would have been in hospital.

My question is if someone I alone and on benefits how do the do this prepareing and after care from home it's cost me thousands just for time off and medical supplies let alone travel and accommodation.

I've Hurd so many of my girls and there experience what went wrong each were different I prepared for all risks x

08/06/2023

It's been a week since surgery I'm home now but in so much pain I was up all night with ice packs on my bits to reduce swelling in agony no help from the GP they just don't want to give me appointment it's so frustrating trying to get home and deal with the GP and medications and the mobility's they have a duty of care but are not interested I have antibiotics I just hope this go well and pains gets better soon it's exhausting x

07/06/2023

I'm home at last my recovery at home can begin x

07/06/2023

So I'm left to fend for my self from this point on there is no help from the GP just a simple no .
I will be looking in to this legally to prevent others being put at risk after surgery it is unfair and dangerous

Dear Ms Coulthard,

The doctor has replied to your request for district nurse support for when you come out of hospital, the GP has advised that the hospital should arrange this for you. If you have any further concerns please call us on 01524 511999.
Thanks,
Bay Medical Group

07/06/2023

End of day 5 ......
Today was amazing....
Scary as hell but also the first day I'm free...

Frist the catheter was taken away and I did scream I've got to say it was a shocker I did even swear but we were both trying to get through it together she made me comfortable and slowly pulled out the tube I was cringing.

The packing was removed it was horrendous lol not plesent at all the Dr slowly pulled out the bandage there was so much of it as it was coming out I could feel everything tugging I felt like I was being gutted an the smell omg not good I had two face masks on and balcony doors open lol but once it was out and over the relief was exhausting.
In the next breath she showed me how to find my va**na and cl****us and then gave me two di**os to dilate this needs to be done three times a day for seven months twenty minutes at a time one d***o was thicker but I did it we were laughing so bad as she was showing me how deep and were to put it she was shocked I just popped it in an burst out laughing.
I've had to do this three times today and wash internal after I feel better now relief I'm mobile not in pain just really sore tender but that will pass in the next four weeks I'm told .

It's my last night here tomorrow morning I check out and make my way home to Morecambe to recover by the beach ⛱️ I'm so looking forward to being home even though this hospital is like a hotel it's stunning I've been in the best place with the UK top surgeon he's done an amazing job I'm just stunned by what he's given me .

DR Bellringer you fixed me I don't know what my life holds for me now but I know I'm happy with me my body are complete.....

Thank you 💕 your my hero with magic hands your team are the most welcoming companionate staff I can't thank you all enough .

Rachael Bailey

06/06/2023

I've just spoke to consultant and she was in shock at the response from the GP and will respond in writing and they will be putting everything on repeat and that's the end of it .

06/06/2023

Dear Ms Coulthard,

Sorry but the Paracetamol, Naproxen have not been issued as we have not received the discharge summary as yet, the lubricant is not on our formulary so we cant issued it on but you can buy it over the counters.
Thanks, medicine managment team
Bay Medical Group

Dear Ms Coulthard, We have not had a discharge letter from the hospital as your still in at the moment, so until we have that we cannot issue any follow on medications. The lubracant is not on are formulary so we are unable to issued but it can be brought over the counter from any chemist

Thanks, MMT
Bay Medical Group

05/06/2023

End day 4 ..
I'm drained tired still attached and stuffed to keep me open it's so uncomfortable and to be honest it don't smell nice 4 days on a bed sweating after major surgery.
So tomorrow is brighter day for me there unpacking my va**na and dispatching me from this bag I'm told it's really unpleasant experience.
That on top of an infection building so I need antibiotics for a week at home as I check out Wednesday morning 🌞.
I've asked the GP to assist me bay medical group morecombe I need after care and prescriptions no joy I planned it out but they can't organise themself let alone read a letter from the hospital or look through my medical notes total waste of time if something happens to me at home infection or worse it's their fault im fuming with there lack of compaction and care they went a year without giving me medication pre surgery and now this they should be ashamed.
I'm in god's hands now .