17/01/2021
You’re not alone, I experience escapism too!
The harsh reality of my experiences abroad, is that most of my travel has motivated by a desire to escape reality. When something stressful happens in my life, I immediately look at Skyscanner & Ryanair to find the cheapest place I can go. - and it doesn’t help that I live 1hr away from the cheapest airport in London 🤦🏾♀️
So yes, feeling vulnerable at this time is completely normal! The long periods of isolation and with the U.K. being in a 3rd lockdown it’s possibly directly impacting my mental health in ways I am unprepared for- My favourite coping mechanism unavailable for now 😩
But even though it may feel like my adventurous identity is on pause due to COVID-19, the truth is that it’s really not🤔
🛬🙅🏾♀️: I’ve realised that not being able to travel (escape) can be a blessing in disguise-Not only by saving money 💸
By using this period to self-reflect and solve problems that I might have been avoiding in the past. It’s helped me to stop avoiding unpleasant problems and deal with them directly, so that things can get better before my next departure🛫
And☝🏾
📞 For the days that I’m not feeling as motivated, I call my host home, friends & families to catch-up on the highlights. I look back at old photos of past trips, immerse myself into the happy memories and I enjoy being grateful for my opportunities!🌍
Sometimes we must lose ourselves to find ourselves in the right direction!