05/01/2024
Hello Admin: kindly help me share my trouble on your page :
Kindly advised :
Please note: I am 43 years old and married to a 35-year-old woman. For privacy reasons, I won't mention her name or tribe, but I am Akan. We have been married for 7 years, which means she was 28 when we got married. Initially, everything seemed normal as we lived together as husband and wife. However, I have noticed some changes that have caused my love for her to fade. I apologize for saying this, but I have realized that she is not hygienic has no respect for me as a husband and lived with me like a housemate. it surprises me that I didn't notice this during our dating period. from my gate to my bedroom is consistently messy. She only does the household chores when she feels like it, and what bothers me is how she leaves her underwear scattered everywhere in the house. You can find her worn underwear lying around, not to mention the presence of used menstrual pads. Our bedroom is almost filled with discarded menstrual pad covers and used pant liners. At times, I have to gather them and dispose of them by burning them. I Used to lick her during our days when we were dating but now it hard for me to think of during our intimacy, She can leave her pants in various places, which makes it difficult for me to feel comfortable during our intimate moments. The sight of pants with discharge fluid puts me off and makes me hesitant to engage in activities like oral s*x. Additionally, my wife's lack of responsiveness during lo******ng makes it challenging for me to consider having an affair with her. She seems distant and unresponsive, leaving me feeling unsatisfied. This has ultimately driven me away from home and led me to seek companionship outside of my marriage.
I am not proud of my actions outside of my marriage, but it brings me happiness. Some may refer to the person I am involved with as a "side chick," but I don't view our relationship that way. She fulfils needs and desires that my wife does not, and sometimes I even invite her to my home to help with household tasks when my wife is not around.
I am not comfortable with my actions outside of my marriage, but my wife's behaviour and habits have made it difficult for me to stop. I have expressed my concerns about how she keeps her personal belongings and how she should take care of herself, but nothing has changed. In my upbringing, I witnessed my siblings and another relative discreetly wrapping and storing their used menstrual pads and panties until they were washed. I have shared these practices with my wife, including how to properly wrap and store used items, but it seems like my efforts have been in vain. I am lost and don't know what to do,
Hi guys kindly advise a brother. Your comments are needed pls
