Ferris Jay - Pet Healing & Bereavement Support

13/10/2024

Thought of the week: What did you make that mean?

I ask my clients that a lot in my work, either directly, or in my own mind.

How you respond or react to what happens to you, or your pets , makes a world of difference to how you deal with that situation.

Your limiting beliefs can keep you stuck in negative emotions and thought loops.

Once you've identified them, you can them transform them.

As you transform them, you aren't as triggered by the situations that used to bring you to your knees (because of the feelings of guilt, anger or despair for example).

When your emotions are more balanced, then you're free to respond from a calm, resourceful place - which is a win for both you and your pet.

Watch the video to find out more, see link in the comments.

And if you know that you struggle with negative thoughts and reactions to your pet's issues, take heart.

You can resolve (or as I like to say, evolve) those ways of thinking that bring up the strong emotions and reactions.

With EFT tapping and inner work, your can transform how you see the world and how you live your life.

You don't have to live with constant guilt, fear, frustration or worry.

Please know that.

If you would like my help with that change, message me, I'd love to help you transform your thoughts and feelings for the better - and I can help your pet's issues directly too.

Wishing you a great week ahead,

Ferris.

P.S. My website and the online resources there are temporarily unaviable as I change website hosting.

Please message me here or email me at [email protected] if you need anything, or have been trying to get in touch and I haven't responded over the past few days.

Many thanks,

Ferris.

11/10/2024

I'm currently changing hosting and my website is temporarily unavailable. Message me if you have an urgent query. Thank you.

30/09/2024

EFT tap-along for when 'it doesn't feel fair' (use it for situations with your pets and for yourself).

Some situations with our pets can feel horribly unfair, for example an accident, a bad reaction to medication / treatment, or a relapse.

Such things can really hit us hard when we witness our pets face them.

This can lead to anger and resentment, which if left to fester, can be really destructive for our emotional health (and it's not helpful for your pet's healing either).

This week, I've made a short eft tap-along video, to help you acknowledge and release any anger, upset or resentment for situations that seem unfair or unjust.

You can use it for situations in your own life, and world situations, as well as issues with your pets.

Here's the link if you want to tap along and feel relief https://youtu.be/Z1lOL_POH9s

If you choose to tap along, let me know how you got on.
You can comment here or leave a comment under the video on YouTube.

When a situation feels unfair, for us or our pets, it can lead to a build up of anger or resentment. Such as if our oet has been an accident, had a bad react...

26/08/2024

Happy International Dog Day from my buddies at the park. Give your hounds an extra hug from me. The world is a much better place with them in it 😍

08/08/2024

Happy International Cat Day to all my cat loving friends.

Let's celebrate the wonderful felines in our lives (or felines who have been part of our lives in the past).

Share a picture or a story about your cats.

Pictired below are kitten photos of Miss Baby the cat (below left), still causing mischief in lovely Leitrm, Mr Elvie (below right) , now in spirit, and the semi ferals at my aunt's house (top).

When a cat chooses you as their person (slave) and chooses to spend their time with you, it's ever so special.

Just don't dare move when they're sitting on you!

14/07/2024

I’d go glamping in a flash if those cats were there 😻🐈😍

It's a one-of-a-kind experience.

05/07/2024

Today is Pet Remebrance Day.

For me, it’s a day to celebrate the love with had with our beloved animal companions.

It’s a day to remember the joy that they brought us, the fun adventures we shared with them.

It’s a day to reminiss about their quirky little ways.

I’m thinking of my sweet Sally dog - in the pic - and how she was the most amazing source of unconditional love and joy I have ever encountered in physical form.

She taught me so much about play and joyful presence.

I remember how she’d dance with excitement for her dinner, roll over for endless belly rubs (one lasted 20 minutes, I counted) and her great adventures.

The funniest was her, at a music festival, sauntering into a festiival tent and curling up in the guitar case of one of the performers / tutors, before we got to her (she used to do that in Sam’s guitar case).
Luckily they were a friend of ours - and we found her when we followed the laughter.

Share your stories below, of the memories, quirks and favourite qualities of your pets, that have now passed out of physical.

And of course, they are always with us in spirit, they’re always in our hearts.

I know this can be a bitter sweet remembrance for some, the pain of loss can linger.

My wish is that you can remember them with a smile on your face and your heart warm from their memories.

If there are tears shed and grief present, may your journey through that be as gentle as possible.

Grief is natural, yet deep or ongoing suffering does not have to part of that process.

My mission is to help the love you had for them become greater than the loss of losing them.

If you would like support with that, message me for resources.

25/06/2024

Healing isn‘t always a straight path from A to B.

Sometimes it can be, for example if we, or our pets, break a bone.
It can be set and after a period of time, it usually heals as expected.

Yet often, healing isn‘t that simple.

There can be obstacles or unforseen setbacks.

We might deal with one issue and then another can come up.

The same applies to our ‘inner’ issues – the thought patterns that keep us stuck in stressful or negative thinking.

When doing EFT tapping, I often explain it as peeling the layers of an onion.

We peel back the first layer of the surface issue or dominant emotion, and then there’s a different one underneath, like underneath anger there might be fear.

The same is true of energy patterns.

Why is this important?
Read more over at the blog post
https://ferrisjay.com/healing-isnt-always-linear-matters/

23/06/2024

It’s tomorrow 🤩🐈🐶🦴 Reminder: The 2024 Animal Communicator and Healer Summit starts tomorrow.

For 5 days, from Monday 24th June to Friday 28th June, professional Animal Communicator Dr. Cara Gubbins will be bringing you interviews with 20 inspiring experts (including me) who have tons of valuable advice to share with you all about Animal Communication and Healing.

I’ll be talking tomorrow about using EFT tapping to help your animal companions.

Other experts will be talking all about communicating with pets, rescuing wild animals, learning how to talk to animals or holistic healing for pets, and much, much more. DM me to get your free ticket 🎫

15/06/2024

I’m really excited to be speaking at the

2024 Animal Communicator and Healer Summit.

For 5 days, from Monday 24th June to Friday 28th June, professional Animal Communicator Dr. Cara Gubbins will be bringing you interviews with 20 inspiring experts (including me) who have tons of valuable advice to share with you all about Animal Communication and Healing.

I’ll be talking about using EFT tapping to help your animal companions. Other experts will be talking all about communicating with pets, rescuing wild animals, learning how to talk to animals or holistic healing for pets, and much, much more.

This Summit features some pretty big names in the Animal Communicator and Healer worlds, including:
-Nancy Windheart
-Kara Daniels
- Annika Passmann
- and many more.

The 2024 Animal Communicator and Healer Summit is a FREE, VIRTUAL online conference!

You don’t have to travel - we bring the interviews to you.

They’ll be broadcast over the web, so you can watch from the comfort of home.

To join us, DM me and I’ll DM you your free ticket.

I’d love to see you there.

01/06/2024

So happy to have a night out with a fix of two of my favourite things - dancing and dogs.

Thanks to and for a wonderful evening of Forrò 💃🏻✨🕺🏻 and thanks to lovely Lilly the gorgeous spaniel for giving me a bit of puppy time - she’s just so friendly and adorable that I had to have several ‘cuddle breaks’ from dancing to play with her 🥰

The evening was just the tonic I needed ☺️

07/04/2024

Can the eclipse affect your pets?

Hear my thoughts in the video below.

If your pet is stressed or anxious in the time leading up to, or during, the eclipse I’ve posted some resources in the comments 👇

30/03/2024

Aim for honesty, not perfection. Article in the comments. Written for pet guardians but applicable to anyone trying to ‘put on a brave face’ when struggling .

10/02/2024

The loss of a pet can completely upend our lives and leave us struggling to cope, overwhelmed with emotions and unsure how to keep going.

It doesn’t have to be that way.

I teach people how to work through the intensity of the thoughts and emotions they’re experiencing, so they can ‘come back home’ to themselves and experience inner peace again.

It’s so lovely to see that my new client, Niamh (see her feedback below) has experienced such tangible improvement in just one zoom session with me and now has tools to use for herself in future.

I’m so grateful to be able to help Niamh, and others like her, find their way forwards into a new chapter of their lives.

If you’d like my help with pet loss grief, just send me a message and we’ll see what’s possible.

24/01/2024

I love Facebook memories, like this one.
7 years ago today I got to hold this amazing book I co-authored 🤩
I’m so happy I got to share about using EFT tapping for pets with so many people through this wonderful book.

Thanks to Gillian Morris for bringing this wonderful book to the world and for inviting me to be part of the magic of it ✨

And it’s still available from good bookshops and on kindle. In it you can find out how to use EFT tapping for many challenging life situations. Give it a read if you haven’t already.

22/01/2024

This is such a great example of why it’s so good to have written / recorded ‘memories’ of life, of loved ones and of joyful moments.
2017 was Sally’s final year in physical.
Now, 7 years later, the details can at times be hazy.
I know that last year of her life had both it’s gifts and it’s challenges.
I still remember middle of the night wake ups to get her out the door ‘in time’ for loo trips - and often failing.
I also still remember that she danced for her dinner, pretty much right up until the end.
Seeing that r memory comes up gives me a little window back, to what a joyful presence she was and reminds me how lucky I was to have that in my life.
Cherish those memories everyone.
Write them, post them, even set reminders, so you can re live those beautiful little ‘every day’ but oh so special moments - cos each one of them was such a gift 😍

31/12/2023

For all my pet people, thank you all for being part of my world this year 💜

It’s my honour to have helped so many of you, through my 1-2-1 work, tapping groups and videos in 2023.
And I’m excited for another year helping your pets to better health and wellness.

If you would like me to help your pet through their health challenges, or to have more ease in their Golden years, including transitioning peacefully I’m here for you.
And if you need help working through your stress, grief or worry about their health, I’m here for that too. And to show you how to tap effectively for your pet’s conditions.

Please give yourself the option of that support if you need it.
I work with clients worldwide via zoom.
Message me to find out how I can help.

06/12/2023

☺️ this memory popped up on Facebook this morning.
It takes me right back to those sweet moments with my beloved fur companions of yesteryear.

Our furry friends give us such unconditional love.
My heart is still warm from that connection all these years later.

The love never fades ❤️

I know for many, seeing pictures of their departed animal companions can bring up grief.

We loved them so deeply it can hurt hard when they leave physical form and are no longer present with us.

And grief can be a way to stay connected with them.

Yet staying connected through joy and appreciation, seems so much more fitting.

What better way to honour the love they brought by remembering them with that same level of love?