DoSo! Coaching & Counseling

DoSo! Coaching & Counseling Coaching international clients to a fulfilling & successful career
How? The objective of DoSo! In my approach I primarily focus on the accompanying partner.

With custom coaching sessions designed from 10+ years of experience, 1000s coaching sessions
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calendly.com/dklopsowinska/45minpowercoaching Coaching & Counseling is to support international women in the following areas: expatriation coaching, life & career coaching, counseling, workshops. My company assist international companies by helping their expat employees and the

ir partners to feel at home during the critical settling in period and stay in the Netherlands (or elsewhere in the world). Stress resulting from a long lasting feeling of dissatisfaction of the partner can have a negative effect on the whole family and on the expat employee in particular leading to less efficiency at work and in some cases to the early termination of the international assignment, or even break-up of the family. How can my company help? Through the program “Making Holland Your Second Home” DoSo! Coaching & Counseling helps to empower expat women to have a fulfilled life during their stay in the Netherlands as well when returning to their home country. As a result of the program they will experience their live in the Netherlands as an exciting adventure full of opportunities rather than a hurdle that one has to overcome. Better understand the cultural differences between the Dutch culture and her own culture and how the Dutch culture works in practice. The company provides support for international women in the following areas: expatriation coaching, life & career coaching, counseling, workshops.

💬 Ever left a conversation feeling like you networked but didn’t connect?Here’s the secret: better questions = deeper co...
26/03/2025

💬 Ever left a conversation feeling like you networked but didn’t connect?

Here’s the secret: better questions = deeper conversations.

Too often, we jump straight into “What do you do?” or “Where do you work?” — and miss the chance to actually connect with the person behind the title.

Instead, try asking questions that spark stories, reflect curiosity, and open space for authentic exchange.

👇 Here are some of my go-to conversation starters that help you move beyond surface-level networking and into real connection.

✨ Save this for your next coffee chat, event, or even a DM on LinkedIn

What’s a question that’s helped you build meaningful relationships?

Share it in the comments!

❌ “Can I pick your brain?”❌ “Hope you're well — can you refer me to a job?”Let’s be honest — most of us were never taugh...
19/03/2025

❌ “Can I pick your brain?”
❌ “Hope you're well — can you refer me to a job?”

Let’s be honest — most of us were never taught how to network well. And especially not with strangers online.

The result? Awkward messages, ghosted chats, transactional small talk.

But networking doesn’t have to feel like something sleasy and transactional.

✅ It can feel human. Curious. Generous. Easy.

A lot of people I talk to struggle with networking and yet this is THE most powerful tool you have when looking for a job, arriving in a new country or developing / changing uour career.

So I turned I developed this Step-by-Step Networking Guide 👇

Slide through if you’ve ever wondered:

❓What should I say when reaching out?
❓How do I network without sounding salesy?
❓What if I’m introverted or neurodivergent?
❓How do I build real connections online?

Save it. Share it. And let me know — which step felt most helpful? 😊

I often tell my clients: If the door doesn’t open, try the window.Career transitions don’t always follow a clear path. S...
14/03/2025

I often tell my clients: If the door doesn’t open, try the window.

Career transitions don’t always follow a clear path. Sometimes, the opportunity you want isn’t available through the usual routes—so you have to find another way in.

I’ve seen this happen time and time again. The ‘perfect’ next step wasn’t always available—so my clients made their own opportunities:

🪟 From Temporary to Permanent
One client took on a maternity cover contract, knowing it wasn’t a long-term role. But instead of treating it as a stopgap, they gave it their all, built strong relationships, and proved their value. By the time the contract ended, the company couldn’t imagine letting them go—and they got hired full-time.

🪟 From Side Projects to a Full-Time Job
Another client moved to the Netherlands before securing a full-time role. Instead of waiting, they took on freelance and side projects to build experience in the local market. Those projects not only helped financially but also expanded their network—soon, a full-time opportunity followed.

🪟 Turning an Internal Move into a Relocation
A client wanted to move to the Netherlands but wasn’t sure how to make it happen. Instead of applying externally, they took the initiative to explore an internal relocation. Their proactive approach paid off, and they transitioned smoothly into a new role and a new country. And later on also to a new company.

Sometimes, the best opportunities don’t come through a job posting. They come from bold moves, creative problem-solving, and being open to other ways in.

Have you ever found a career opportunity in an unexpected way? I’d love to hear your story!

Not all career transitions are created equal. Some feel like a smooth escalator ride—effortless and straightforward. Alt...
12/03/2025

Not all career transitions are created equal. Some feel like a smooth escalator ride—effortless and straightforward. Although never seen one myself 🙈. Others? More like climbing a mountain in the dark, wondering if you’re even on the right trail. 🌄

From working with so many career changers, I’ve seen these five factors make all the difference—plus, here’s what you can do to navigate them:

🚀 1. Transferable Skills & Industry Fit

The more your existing skills align with your new role, the smoother the transition.
✅ Quick tip: Identify skills that overlap with your target job. Update your CV and LinkedIn to highlight them, using industry-specific language.

🚀 2. Learning Curve

Some career shifts require upskilling.
✅ Quick tip: Research if you need new qualifications. Can you take an online course? Get a mentor? Gain hands-on experience through volunteering or a side project?

🚀 3. Network & Support System

Knowing the right people can fast-track your move.
✅ Quick tip: Don’t wait until you need a job—start networking now. Join industry groups, connect with professionals on LinkedIn, and attend events.

🚀 4. Market Demand

Some industries are talent-hungry, while others are highly competitive.
✅ Quick tip: Before making a move, research hiring trends in your target field. Are companies struggling to fill roles? Or is it an industry where competition is fierce?

🚀 5. Mindset & Resilience

This is the biggest factor. Career change will test your patience, confidence, and adaptability.
✅ Quick tip: Expect setbacks, but don’t let them define your journey. Keep your vision clear, track small wins, and surround yourself with people who support your goals.

🔥 My advice? If your transition feels overwhelming, break it down. Take smaller steps—side projects, upskilling, networking—before making the full leap.

💬 Thinking about making a career switch? Which of these factors feels like your biggest challenge right now?

Drop a comment below—I’d love to hear your thoughts! ⬇️

Making a career jump? Your support system can make or break it 💥Career transitions can feel lonely. Doubt creeps in, fin...
06/03/2025

Making a career jump? Your support system can make or break it 💥

Career transitions can feel lonely. Doubt creeps in, finances are tight, and imposter syndrome lurks. But here’s the thing—you don’t have to do it alone.

✅ Build a circle of supporters. Find people who uplift you—mentors, friends, or even LinkedIn connections who've made similar leaps.

✅ Be mindful of early-stage critics. Not everyone will understand your move, and that’s okay. Share your plans selectively while you build confidence.

✅ Identify gatekeepers. Whether it’s recruiters, industry insiders, or key decision-makers, knowing who holds the door to your next step is crucial.

✅ Learn to filter feedback. Negative opinions aren’t always insights—they can be reflections of others’ fears. Take what serves you, ignore the rest.

You are the driver of your career, but the right support system ensures you don’t crash along the way.

Who has been your biggest supporter during a career transition? 👇

Thinking about a career transition but feeling overwhelmed by doubts? I’ve been there. And so have so many of my clients...
03/03/2025

Thinking about a career transition but feeling overwhelmed by doubts? I’ve been there. And so have so many of my clients.

From “What if I fail?” to “How do I even explain this to recruiters?”—these fears are completely normal.

But here’s what I’ve learned: every career move starts with the right mindset and a solid strategy.

🚀 I put together a carousel that breaks down the most common career transition FAQs—along with clear answers to help you navigate the uncertainty.

✨ Whether you’re switching industries, going freelance, or starting fresh, the unknown can feel scary. But the right information makes all the difference.

💬 Which question resonates with you the most? Or do you have a different one on your mind?

Drop it below—I’d love to help! 👇

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Feeling stuck in your career transition? I get it—I’ve been there too, and so have many of my clients. Let me share the ...
28/02/2025

Feeling stuck in your career transition? I get it—I’ve been there too, and so have many of my clients. Let me share the mindset shifts that can change everything.

Career moves aren’t just about updating your resume, networking, or learning new skills.

The truth is, the most important part of any career transition is what happens in your mind 🤯and where you choose to focus your energy. 🔎

Let’s be honest: career transitions can get messy. I’ve seen it time and time again—uncertainty, self-doubt, and unexpected twists can easily throw you off track.

But here’s what I’ve learned, both from my own experience and from working with countless clients: the key isn’t trying to control every outcome. It’s about focusing on what you can control—your mindset—and letting that confidence guide your next step.

✅ Your actions and effort: Keep learning, applying, and showing up. Progress isn’t always linear.
✅ Self-compassion: Transitioning takes time, and setbacks are part of the process. Don’t be too hard on yourself.
✅ A positive mindset: Discomfort means growth. If you feel uneasy, you’re probably on the right track.
✅ Creative problem-solving: If doors don’t open, try windows. Explore side projects, freelancing, or alternative paths.
✅ Small steps matter: A full career switch isn’t always necessary. Small shifts—new skills, projects, or roles—can create big changes over time.

Not every career transition has to be a giant leap.

Sometimes, it’s a series of well-placed steps in the right direction. 🚶🏻‍♂️🚶🏻‍♀️🚶🏻

What’s one mindset shift that helped you navigate a career change? Share below! 👇

Feeling stuck between two career paths? 🤔One is exciting but hard to break into. The other is easier but doesn’t spark e...
26/02/2025

Feeling stuck between two career paths? 🤔

One is exciting but hard to break into. The other is easier but doesn’t spark enthusiasm. So, what do you choose?

Every career transition comes with two key factors:
✔ Transition Difficulty – How easy or hard is it to move from your current role to the new one?
✔ Enthusiasm Level – How passionate are you about the new path?

Most career changers fall into one of these categories:
🔹 Easy Transition, Low Enthusiasm – A safe move, but will it keep you engaged long-term?

🔹 Hard Transition, High Enthusiasm – Challenging, but could be the most fulfilling.

🔹 Hard Transition, Low Enthusiasm – A red flag 🚩—if it’s tough and uninspiring, why pursue it?

🔹 Easy Transition, High Enthusiasm – The dream scenario! (But let’s be honest, this happens in

Standing at a crossroads in your career, wondering if it’s too late to make a change?The truth is, your career is not a ...
20/02/2025

Standing at a crossroads in your career, wondering if it’s too late to make a change?

The truth is, your career is not a straight line—it’s a journey of growth, discovery, and reinvention.

Whether you’re:

Feeling stuck in a role that no longer excites you 🙄

Dreaming of a career that aligns with your passions and values, or 😶‍🌫️

Worried that you’ve missed your chance to start over 😓

This quote is your reminder: It’s never too late.

💡 Here’s the thing:
Career transitions aren’t just about changing jobs—they’re about becoming the person you were meant to be. It’s about aligning your work with your purpose, your talents, and your dreams.

In my work helping professionals navigate career changes, I’ve seen:

A senior marketing manager leave corporate life to run a hotel in Egypt.

A scientist pivot from pharma to sustainable food.

A compliance officer transition into program management for the EU.

These stories aren’t just about career changes—they’re about courage, resilience, and the belief that it’s never too late to rewrite your story…

✨ It’s your turn

What’s the career or life you’ve always imagined for yourself? What’s one step you can take today to move closer to that vision?

💬 Let’s start a conversation in the comments

Need a little inspiration for your next career move? Here are some bold career changes my clients have made — proof that...
17/02/2025

Need a little inspiration for your next career move? Here are some bold career changes my clients have made — proof that taking the leap can lead to incredible opportunities! 🚀

A career change can feel overwhelming, but it’s often the key to growth, learning, and truly fulfilling work.

Whether you're switching industries, stepping into leadership, or launching your own business, every transition is a chance to redefine success on your terms.

The real question is: What’s the right next step for you?

🚀 From head of business development in NGO to successful social entrepreneur.

🚀 From project engineer in gas & oil sector to policy advisor in public sector.

🚀 From senior account manager in footwear industry to gender equality professional.

🚀 From strategy and business development manager to managing director in sustainability scale-up.

🚀 From HR director to executive coach and trainer.

🚀 From scientist in pharmaceutical industry to senior manager in sustainable food scale-up.

🚀 From senior marketing manager in energy sector to running hotel in Egypt for kite surfers and divers.

🚀 From project manager in telecom industry to manager in an NGO focused on sustainability.

🚀 From project officer in an NGO to a doctoral researcher in academia.

🚀 From small business owner in wellness sector to interior designer.

🚀 From HR manager in healthcare industry to director of participation in C-suite educational organization.

🚀 From project manager in chemical industry to part-time project manager & small business owner in creative industry.

🚀 From chief marketing officer in an NGO to PR freelancer in venture capital & private equity.

Have you made (or are you considering) a big or small career move?

Drop your experience in the comments—I’d love to hear your story! 👇🔥

🤔 Are you truly happy in your career? Or do you feel stuck, unfulfilled, or just… meh?Career satisfaction isn’t just abo...
13/02/2025

🤔 Are you truly happy in your career? Or do you feel stuck, unfulfilled, or just… meh?

Career satisfaction isn’t just about job titles or paychecks—it’s about alignment—with your values, skills, purpose, and the right environment. But how do you pinpoint what’s missing?

I once worked with a client who was convinced he needed a whole new career. He felt drained, unmotivated, and dreaded Mondays. But when we dug deeper, it turned out his job wasn’t the problem—the organization was.

❌ An unsupportive boss who dismissed his ideas and growth.
❌ No room for creativity or career development.
❌ A work environment that drained his energy instead of fueling it.

Once he recognized this, everything shifted. Instead of starting from scratch in a new field, he found a company that aligned with his values, leadership style, and way of working. Same expertise—entirely different level of fulfillment.

Enter the Career Satisfaction Circle, a simple framework to reflect on two key layers:

1️⃣ Individual Layer:
✔️ Do your skills and values align with your role?
✔️ Do you feel passion and purpose in your work?

2️⃣ Organizational Layer:
✔️ Are there growth opportunities, fair compensation, and cultural alignment?

💡 Why it matters:
Identifying disconnects is the first step to change. Maybe it’s not the job—it’s the environment, leadership, or lack of growth. Or perhaps it is time for a new path.

📌 Ask yourself:
✔️ What’s working in my career?
✔️ What’s not, and why?
✔️ What’s one small step toward greater satisfaction?

✨ Your turn: Look at the Career Satisfaction Circle. Which part resonates most? Let’s chat in the comments!

👉 Save this post as a reminder—your career should work for you, not the other way around.

Need help figuring it out? DM me—I’d love to help you gain clarity.

A few years ago, I hit a career wall.✔️ On paper? Everything looked great.❌ In reality? I felt stuck, unfulfilled, and a...
10/02/2025

A few years ago, I hit a career wall.

✔️ On paper? Everything looked great.
❌ In reality? I felt stuck, unfulfilled, and asking myself, Is this really it?

If you’re thinking about a career change, I get it.

It’s exciting.
It’s terrifying.
And if you’re an expat? Even more complicated.

❌ Work permits.
❌ Cultural differences.
❌ The fear of starting over.

After 15 years of coaching professionals, I’ve seen one thing clearly:

👉 Sometimes, a job change isn’t just a want—it’s a need.

But here’s the mistake most people make:
They focus only on landing a job instead of landing the right job.

Before you take the leap, pause and reflect.

Why?

Because career success isn’t about chasing titles.
It’s about alignment—with your values, skills, and long-term goals.

Resilience and mindset are everything.

To help you navigate this journey, I’ve put together 8 key questions to ask yourself before making the move.

These questions will help you:

🔎 Identify your motivations – Are you running toward something or away from something?
🤔 Assess the practicalities – Do you have the resources, time, and support to make this happen?
💪🏻 Build resilience – Are you prepared for the challenges and setbacks that may come your way?

Thinking about a career change? DM me directly—I’d love to hear your story and help you take the next step.

Like many of my clients, I fell into my (first) career because of study choices, circumstances, and expectations—some mi...
07/02/2025

Like many of my clients, I fell into my (first) career because of study choices, circumstances, and expectations—some mine, some from others. And for a while, it worked. Until one day, it didn’t.

I see this all the time. Smart, driven professionals who wake up one morning and think:
“How did I get here?”
“Is this really what I want to do for the rest of my life?”

We all want more than just a paycheck—we want to work with purpose and make conscious career decisions.

That’s why I wrote Career Jump!—to give you the tools, insights, and real-life stories of people who’ve successfully navigated career transitions and found meaningful work.

🚀 This book is like having a career coach by your side—guiding you through practical exercises, breaking through fears, and helping you take control of your professional future.

It’s time to switch off autopilot and take the driver’s seat in your career. Because the most important person in this journey? YOU.

✨ Career Jump! is available on my website and Amazon.

👉 Who do you know that needs this book right now? Tag them in the comments or grab your copy today!

Ever feel like you're not good enough despite evidence to the contrary?You're not alone—that's the frustrating grip of I...
05/02/2025

Ever feel like you're not good enough despite evidence to the contrary?

You're not alone—that's the frustrating grip of Imposter Syndrome.

But the good news? You can break free!

Swipe through this carousel for actionable strategies to overcome Imposter Syndrome, one step at a time

Let’s shift the narrative from self-doubt to self-belief 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

🎭 Ever feel like you're playing a role you don’t quite deserve?Imposter Syndrome doesn’t come in just one shape or size—...
31/01/2025

🎭 Ever feel like you're playing a role you don’t quite deserve?

Imposter Syndrome doesn’t come in just one shape or size—it’s a master of disguise.

Behind every self-doubt, there’s often a unique “type” of imposter whispering in our ear.

Each of these “imposter types” brings its own brand of self-doubt. Whether you see yourself as “The Perfectionist” who struggles to celebrate wins or “The Expert” who feels they never know enough, the truth is simple: these feelings are common, but they’re not reality.

Recognizing your imposter type isn’t about labeling yourself—it’s about seeing through the facade and challenging those thoughts.

Understanding these types is the first step to quieting them.

Which type do you resonate with?

Let’s talk in the comments—I’d love to hear your perspective!

"Why do I feel like a fraud even though I’ve worked so hard to get here?"If this thought has ever crossed your mind, you...
24/01/2025

"Why do I feel like a fraud even though I’ve worked so hard to get here?"
If this thought has ever crossed your mind, you’re not alone.

🌟 This paradox is beautifully illustrated by the Dunning-Kruger Effect, a cognitive bias where:

👉 At first, you feel unstoppable. You know just enough to believe you’ve got it all figured out—hello, “Peak of Mount Stupid.”
👉 Then reality hits. The more you learn, the more you realize how much you don’t know. Confidence plummets, and you’re stuck in the “Valley of Despair.”
👉 With time, practice, and persistence, you start climbing the “Slope of Enlightenment” toward true expertise.

Here’s the twist: Even while climbing, many of us feel like we’re falling short.

💡 Why?
The more skilled and experienced you become, the more you’re aware of your limitations. It’s this self-awareness that often fuels Imposter Syndrome.

But here’s the good news:

Feeling like an imposter means you’re thinking critically about your work.

You’re likely holding yourself to high standards—something worth celebrating!

🎯 Remember this: Growth isn’t a straight line. It’s full of highs and lows, doubts and breakthroughs.

Next time you feel like a fraud, take a step back and remind yourself: You’re not at the bottom—you’re climbing higher every day.

✨ Have you ever felt like this? How do you work through it?

Ever feel like you're one step away from being "found out"?You’re not alone. Imposter Syndrome can creep into the minds ...
20/01/2025

Ever feel like you're one step away from being "found out"?

You’re not alone. Imposter Syndrome can creep into the minds of even the most accomplished professionals, convincing us that we don’t truly deserve our success

Here’s the thing: acknowledging the signs is the first step to breaking free from its grip.

💬 If any of these hit close to home, pause for a moment.

Reflect on the evidence of your success—the hard work, the late nights, the skills you’ve honed. These are yours, not luck’s

💡 A reframe to try: What if you stopped asking, "Am I good enough?" and started asking, "What can I learn from this moment?"

✨ Imposter Syndrome doesn’t define you. Your growth, resilience, and willingness to show up do.

How do you tackle self-doubt when it creeps in?

Share your thoughts below ⬇️

New year is the perfect time to reflect, reset, and retool for the challenges ahead!Whether you're an entrepreneur start...
17/01/2025

New year is the perfect time to reflect, reset, and retool for the challenges ahead!

Whether you're an entrepreneur starting fresh or scaling up, your mindset, strategy, and skills will define your 2025 journey. 📈✨

To help you build a stronger foundation, I’ve curated a list of 6 must-read books that every entrepreneur should dive into. 📚

From mastering influence to creating uncontested market spaces, these books are packed with insights to help you thrive

Which one’s already on your reading list, and which one will you add? Drop a comment below! 👇

Here’s to making 2025 the year of bold decisions, creative strategies, and unstoppable growth. 🌟

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