10/29/2024
Last week, my mother sent the fam a picture of her voting sticker with a quote: “History is made by those who show up.”
I feel very fortunate to belong to a family with a long history of showing up: community volunteers, poll workers, service men and women, nurses, teachers, telephone operators, farmers, entrepreneurs, and the like. They instilled in me a responsibility to take care of my community.
I think of the women who came before me every time I vote. The 19th amendment giving women the right to vote came in 1920. My great grandmothers were in adulthood when it passed.
Imagine being a grown woman and being told you didn’t have the mental capacity nor emotional clarity to cast a vote.
My vote is for Mary Leola, a middle class mama who was smart as a whip, commanded respect, and raised her own kiddos plus many foster children.
My vote is for Zenovia, who being half Cherokee—seen as such an undesirable by society that her wealthy father abandoned her at the insistence of his east coast family. She was an adult when she discovered her last name was Drane and not Dream as she was told. She was taken in by a family who took care of her, but also used her as house labor.
My vote is for Eva Marie who lived on a cattle ranch in Clayton, NM. She fell in love with a professional baseball player and left her family for a new start in Arkansas. She was a horsewoman, and drove a car in the 1920s. Her grit got them through the depression.
My vote is for Millie who was known as a hard working, wiry, country woman. Her father died when she was 3, and at 16, she secured a job keeping the house for a nearby family. She hitched the mules to plow the fields, traded crops (including to***co) for material to make and sell quilts.
Each of these women’s legacies made me who I am today. Resilient, determined, entrepreneurial—and who loved their families—kiddos, grandchildren, and great grandchildren like the dickens. They had no voice in the selection of our country’s leaders in their lifetime.
Proud to vote. I have a voice and because of their legacies, I will use it.