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02/14/2024

Happy Valentine's Day!

10/25/2023

10 lessons from the book "How to Get Rich" by Felix Dennis

"How to Get Rich" by Felix Dennis is a book that provides valuable insights and lessons on achieving financial success.

1. Embrace the Entrepreneurial Mindset: Dennis emphasizes the importance of adopting an entrepreneurial mindset. This involves taking calculated risks, being proactive, and constantly seeking opportunities.

2. Persistence and Hard Work: According to Dennis, success doesn't come overnight. It requires persistence, dedication, and a willingness to put in the hard work necessary to achieve your goals.

3. Focus on Your Passion: Find something you genuinely enjoy and are passionate about. By pursuing your passion, you'll be more motivated to work hard and overcome obstacles along the way.

4. Learn from Failure: Failure is a part of the journey to success. Dennis encourages readers to embrace failure as a learning opportunity and to not let setbacks discourage them. Learn from your mistakes and keep moving forward.

5. Surround Yourself with the Right People: Building a strong network of like-minded individuals can be instrumental in your success. Surround yourself with people who inspire and challenge you, and who can offer guidance and support.

6. Take Calculated Risks: Dennis emphasizes the importance of taking risks, but not reckless ones. Evaluate the potential rewards and consequences before making decisions, and be willing to step outside your comfort zone.

7. Financial Literacy: Understanding the basics of finance and investing is crucial. Educate yourself on personal finance, budgeting, saving, and investing. Make informed decisions about your money to maximize your wealth-building potential.

8. Avoid Debt: Dennis advises against accumulating unnecessary debt. While some debt may be necessary for investments or business ventures, it's important to manage it wisely and avoid excessive borrowing.

9. Continuously Learn and Adapt: The world is constantly evolving, and so should your knowledge and skills. Stay curious, be open to new ideas, and adapt to changes in your industry or market.

10. Enjoy the Journey: While financial success is the ultimate goal, Dennis emphasizes the importance of enjoying the process. Find fulfilment in the work you do and the progress you make along the way.

09/15/2023

Dear GENTLEMEN,

If you choose A WORKING WOMAN, you must accept that she CANNOT manage house full time.

If you choose A HOUSEWIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY.

If you choose a SUBMISSIVE WOMAN, you should accept that she DEPENDS on you.

If you choose to be with a STRONG BRAVE WOMAN, you need to accept that she is STUBBORN and has her own thoughts and ways.

If you choose a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, you need to accept all the EXPENSES.

If you choose to be with A GREAT/CAREER WOMAN, you must also accept that she is HARD and FIRM.

If you choose A DADDY'S GIRL, get ready to pamper her and treat her like a baby.

NO WOMAN IS PERFECT

A woman has her own "GOOD THING" that defines who she is and makes her unique. Go for what you can tolerate.

05/25/2023

Goodbye Tina Turner.
You are Simply the Best!

04/28/2022
Kumusalaba by Audrey
04/18/2022

Kumusalaba by Audrey

Video Prod by Bruno Bula Audio prod by Trick on da beat

04/14/2022

"Above all powers
Above all kings
Above all nature and all created things
Above all wisdom and all the ways of man
You were here before the world began
Above all kingdoms
Above all thrones
Above all wonders the world has ever known
Above all wealth and treasures of the earth
There's no way to measure what you're worth
Crucified
Laid behind the stone
You lived to die
Rejected and alone
Like a rose trampled on the ground
You took the fall
And thought of me
Above all"

04/14/2022
08/17/2018

Jennifer Lopez
Comments on the movie

'Second Act'

Getting older or being a woman or whatever, all of that stuff all the struggle that we go through, I think people can relate to Society at the time, and right now…. women [are] becoming more empowered and realizing we don’t have an expiration date, there’s not a certain age where all of a sudden you’re just not relevant anymore.
That’s changed. We’re changing that; the women of my generation are changing that. I’m changing that, we’re all changing that. “We refuse to be written off, and I think that resonates in this movie very strongly, where you feel like, ok, there’s more, it’s not over. There’s not just more, the best is yet to come, and I create that, I do that with the knowledge I have now, the wisdom I have now, the age I have now, and with the experience I have now.”

You’re always trying to get ahead, asking yourself: What if I had gone to this school or what if I got that job… what if I hadn’t made that mistake or that choice? Again, as people we all struggle with those choices that we make and we wonder, ‘what if,’ [but] we don’t realize every mistake and everything we go through is leading us exactly where we’re supposed to be. Those are the lessons we need. That’s what I love about my character: it’s her discovering that after thinking her life was kind of done or that her mistakes had led her to a place she wasn’t happy with, but it’s exactly where she was supposed to be….

08/11/2018
06/01/2018

This is the unvarnished truth about how narcissists see themselves, how they will behave, and how they can make you feel. I wish it were a better picture, but survivors of these personalities will tell you that it is that bad, and that toxic. As Stuart C. Yudofsky explains in his book Fatal Flaws, the truly narcissistic personality is “severely flawed of character.”
Narcissists victimize those around them just by just being who they are, and they won’t change. That statement may seem extreme, until you listen to the stories of those who have been victimized by a narcissist. Then you realize just how toxic relationships with these individuals can be.
As you can imagine, it is not easy living with or working with someone who thinks or behaves this way. The experience of those who have done so teaches us the following (and if you remember nothing else from this post, remember this): Narcissists overvalue themselves and devalue others, and that means you. You will never be treated as an equal, you will never be respected, and you will in time be devalued out of necessity, so that they can overvalue themselves.
And there are those who choose to stick it out, because of finances, circumstances, or because they are in a complicated relationship or marriage. To them I say, beware: You will pay a price. I say this from experience and from talking to many victims. Those who choose to live with or work with a narcissistic personality must be prepared to accept the following:
* Have Active Optimism. More than the hope and belief that things will turn out well, active optimism is a virtual mandate to act to make things turn out well. It is the self-confidence that one can and will make a difference. It is the propensity to harness the power of the self-fulfilling prophecy.
Knowing the traits of the narcissistic personality and how narcissists view themselves is useful, but so is knowing what can happen when you associate with them. Some, like children, close relatives, or the elderly, may not have a choice. In those cases, it is up to friends, relatives, teachers, coaches, associates, and co-workers to support them as best we can.

You might be asking, “What can I do?” Conventional wisdom advises seeing a trained professional for guidance. That is wise, but not always available. In my experience, the only one solution that works is to distance yourself from the individual as soon as you recognize them for what they are, and as soon as it is practical. As your psychic wounds heal, you will see your life improve and feel your dignity restored. As painful as distancing yourself may be, it is often the only way to make the hurting stop and to restore your well-being.

04/21/2018
04/21/2018

À vous 😏

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