The Loft NC

11/20/2022

It’s been a crazy year and I suck at keeping up with social media but trying to get better. So enjoy our little ninja flogger dude and a huge squishmallow “Bunny” donated to the LoftNC Littles events.

12/24/2021

It's hard to believe the holidays are already here and it will be 2022 just around the corner. While 2021 was certainly better than 2020 in many ways, it was still challenging at the best of times. We miss seeing everyone on a regular basis. The LoftNC began as a home providing the community with education and a safe environment to play and explore kink. As we move into the new year, we are moving back to our roots with plans to offer regular educational demos and discussions both in-person and virtually. Our calendar is evolving and all suggestions for classes are always welcome. As usual, all in-person demos will be followed by open play and all are always welcome.

To all our friends, members, family (including chosen family), and those we have yet to meet, we wish you the warmest of holidays. No matter how you celebrate, be safe, eat too much and enjoy those who support you during the year. Reach out to those you haven't talked to and extend a virtual hug, it may make all the difference in their day.

Our love to all. We wish you a Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and a Joyous New Year!!!

Hugs and more hugs,
Lady_Leigh

07/27/2020

Can't believe summer is half over. We miss seeing everyone and getting our weekly hugs. Hoping everyone is safe and healthy and looking forward to better times when we can get together safely again.

Our current plans are to reopen when the weather starts to cool and have bonfire parties and allow couples/play partners to go play, followed by clean up and then the next ones signed up to play can go.

More details to come later but for now, it's the best plan we can think of to get some play started again.

07/05/2020

While we are still closed for social events for the foreseeable future, MSquared- and I gave the Loft a facelift - new paint, signage and more to make the LoftNC even better for you when we are able to open again.

Other news -

YES we are very in support of Black Lives Matter and are working diligently to make sure that our policies (while they have always stated that everyone is welcome and we don't do drama of any sort) will be updated to more specifically reflect our alignment and support of PoC.
YES we are still CLOSED for Socials at this time. With the rise of COVID cases across the country this may not change for some time. Our plan was to be open for small (10 or less) events at the end of August but we will have to see how the conditions are at that time.
YES we are open for private sessions and rentals only at this time. (leather house toys are not available for use)
YES we are meticulously cleaning even more than we already did.
YES we are producing as many Zoom demos/discussions as we can and our plans are to continue to do so even after we open as we feel that these have the potential to reach around the world and education in all forms is invaluable.

If you have any questions or comments please don't hesitate to contact me.

Virtual hugs to all

03/21/2020

As we continue to watch what is happening in our world each week, we have made the decision to cancel all events through the month of April. As we get closer to May we will re-evaluate the upcoming schedule and determine what is best for our community and if events are possible.

During this time we are still offering private sessions or rentals, however, rentals will no longer include access to house toys or aftercare blankets.

As always the safety and well being of our kinky friends is utmost on our minds and hearts.

03/14/2020

CLOSED DUE TO CORONAVIRUS

As we are all watching events across the country being canceled due to situations beyond all control, we feel its prudent and for the safety of our members and guests, to cancel all events this weekend. We will get these events rescheduled as soon as possible. Health & safety are always first.

While we never want to feed the panic, it remains a judicious precaution to close events especially in light of our lifestyle. We can clean everything constantly and urge people who have been traveling or are not feeling well to stay home, but there is always that outside chance that a germ will sneak through. We have been told that if an illness can trace back to our event we would be forced to reveal personal information about guests for quarantine purposes and this is something we aren't willing to do. Your privacy and trust in us as a venue is vital to our well being and your safety.

We will continue to monitor the situation and adjust the calendar accordingly. We will miss everyone this weekend but will hopefully see you soon.

Hugs (even virtual one) are missed :(

03/12/2020

As with everyone world-wide we are also keeping an eye on what's going on with the coronavirus/COVID-19. We are fully stocked with Lysol, Sanitizing wipes, hand soap and so forth. We will have stations set up in the kitchen and downstairs so you can use frequently.

At this time we are not canceling any scheduled events. If this changes, the schedule will be updated and if you have RSVP'd to an event that is canceled or postponed, you will be notified.

As with any illness, if you are sick, please stay home. We in kink love to share our knowledge and our love of kink but not the flu, head cold, or corona (unless its in a bottle with a lime for after play time). No this doesn't include seasonal allergies as I think we all have those at this point in the season.

From the CDC, wash hands frequently for at least 20 seconds, avoid touching, if you are feeling ill stay home.

If you've been here before you also know we love our hugs but for now, virtual hugs may have to suffice if you are in any way hesitant about touching in that way. Hugs needs to be consented to as well "may I?" is the name of that game.

07/02/2019

Come join us Sunday July 7th at 1 pm for:

Toys, Tools & Basics to get you started!

This B**M 101 class is all about toys and tools! It is geared toward those interested in, or are new to, the B**M community and kinky play. We will cover the basic vocabulary of what is what. Crops, canes, whips, chains, floggers, etc. Also we will cover basic items you can use from around your house: wooden spoon, broom stick, garden hose, chair, forks, knives, even the kitchen sink (okay, maybe the kitchen sink is for an advanced class)! Starting kinky play does not need to break the bank! Pervertables are fun! And you will never look at Lowe’s or WalMart the same again!

We will also briefly discuss negotiations, colors, safety and answer any questions you may have. Don't be shy because I guarantee someone else has the same question.
As an added bonus we will show you how to use sensations to up your game and show what's possible.

RSVP here: https://fetlife.com/events/810834

07/02/2019

Happy July! Have you been to the LoftNC lately? If not, what are you waiting for?

12/06/2017

FIRE!!!

For millennia, mankind has been awed and mesmerized with fire. Whether it be for cooking, warmth, protection, etc, safely capturing the power of a flame has long been a human endeavor.

Fire is a powerful force, and in unskilled hands can result in serious harm. In skilled hands, a controlled flame can impart a sense of blissful warmth and meditation. Darth Table will discuss the safety aspects of Fire Play, including the types of materials to use and the type of fuel to use (and not to use). After all, it is the fuel that will be burning, not skin! Equally important, he will show you what safety equipment needs to be on hand in the rare instance that something does go wrong. Darth will demonstrate various techniques on his partner that will get them into that “blissful meditative state” and the types of aftercare that may be needed.
After his demo, he welcomes those who may have an interest in learning more, practicing their technique, or experiencing Fire Play themselves.
”If you are planning to do any type of fire play, don't put on lotions, perfumes, body sprays, glitter, make-up and other things that might contain oils, melt, or ignite on the parts of the body you plan to use in your fire play.”
Fire Cupping

Fire Cupping has a long history in China (used as a way to remove toxins from the body) and this therapeutic technique is now also used as a form of B**M play. Glass cups, and the flame introduced into each one before being applied to the skin, can create a warm and soothing massage feeling. Intensity can also be increased in the hands of a skilled practitioner.
“Who is Darth Table?”

Darth Table can frequently be seen at 1763, always in his trademark sports jacket or suit. Bow ties are just one of his fetishes! He also frequently assists with vending for B**M Waxplay, as hot wax play is also one of his favorite activities.

”My name is some what of a joke, but its mostly so people remember it. I'm also the person that make some blush. I enjoy almost all of the aspects of the lifestyle and what goes into it.

”Who am I, though? People use words like aloof, intimidating, and sometimes a goof. Honestly I don't know where that last word came from, but it's a thing apparently. I love music too. Oh, I may also be some what of a bratty top.”
Doors open at 1pm. Door fee is $20 for members, $30 for guests.
Demo starts 2pm - Please arrive on time so there will be plenty of time for open play following the demo/presentation

Membership: Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we allow. Membership for the year is $20 and renews on your anniversary of joining.

If you have any questions or to RSVP, please email [email protected].

11/24/2017

Soaring Eagle Creations (http://www.soaringeaglecreations.com) is having a fabulous Black Friday, Small Business Saturday and Cyber Monday sale all weekend from now until Tuesday! Yep that's right through Tuesday.

Save 50% on all floggers, bats and dragontails
Save $20 on all cuffs and restraints
and
Save 20% on all Bullmoose Paddles

Shop the website - all prices clearly marked with discounts!

11/24/2017

Happy Thanksgiving to all our friends, family and members. We are truly blessed to have you all.

07/01/2017

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07/01/2017

In the Facebook world of wisdom, the LoftNC no longer has a profile, only a page. If you had been a friend on the profile, please like our page and follow us here..

01/07/2017

CANCELED After New Years Bash due to weather conditions!

As I sit home today and enjoy the snow and watch the kids play, I'm also looking at the roads which will be melted and icy. Snow is still falling here in Gastonia and we have 4-5" already. Combine that with the gravel driveway at the LoftNC and I think it prudent that we cancel tomorrow's After New Year's Bash.

We will miss everyone tomorrow but your safety is our primary concern.

Please join us next week for Using Whips in a Scene presented by NCMaster (https://fetlife.com/events/511914).

Let the snowballs fly! Stay warm and safe.

12/31/2016

Welcome 2017! Happy New Year to all and may you have a kink good time.

12/25/2016

We wish everyone a happy and merry Christmas and holiday! However you celebrate, be happy with family, friends and loved ones. Thank you all for being a fabulous part of our LoftNC family.

11/27/2016

Today is TK Basics with Pepper_Pots - come on out, you don't want to miss all the rope fun

11/24/2016

From our house to yours, we want to wish everyone a very happy and safe Thanksgiving. We have been so fortunate this year in so many ways. Yes we've had hard times and struggles but the friends we've made, hugs we've had and laughter shared always outweighs anything else. I feel so very lucky to be able to spend today with my chosen family.

Hugs and more hugs

11/09/2016

Check out our new products!

We are excited to show you these new products. Come on in to check them out, we think you’ll love them as much as we do.

Click here for an update from LoftNC LLC!

11/01/2016

Soaring Eagle Creations the new restraints are wonderful. Come get yours - $100 pair

11/01/2016

We had an amazing Fire, food and fun party yesterday - Halloween party and bonfire! Thank you to everyone who came out and shared kinky times with us

10/15/2016

At the Carolina Coastal Fe**sh Fair this weekend, come check it out. Awesome vendors and presenters on hand, should be a great weekend.

09/08/2016

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08/31/2016

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07/29/2016

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05/31/2016

Upsetting news last night as we found out our Charlotte location is no longer available to us. We are actively looking for a new place and will be in our Gastonia location for all events for the foreseeable future.

05/10/2016

May is looking awesome for the LoftNC. This weekend we have Rope Bite with Artemis and next week on the 22nd we are proud to be hosting Phoenix-Eddy. It's a rope packed month so come out and join us. And yes if you don't get into rope, come out and hang with friends, meet new ones, enjoy the energy and maybe learn a new skill.

04/16/2016

Tomorrow we have an awesome rope bite demo at the LoftNC Charlotte. I'm looking forward to seeing everyone, will be my first big outing since my accident. Leigh

02/14/2016

Happy Valentine's Day, come join us today for a social just because we love to Party!!!