Designed For Joy

Designed For Joy Moving others into loving and honoring themselves through forgiveness, self-acceptance and joy. One time session or personally designed programs.

Mentoring others in transforming the pain of the past into a powerful future. Offering individual, personalized readings and sessions using Tarot and various methods to transform confusion into clarity. Move into your magnificence NOW! Don't live life ordinary, experience life as extraordinary!

You Are So Powerful!Today I am loving myself for accomplishing the tasks that I have set for myself.  I will love myself...
10/30/2024

You Are So Powerful!

Today I am loving myself for accomplishing the tasks that I have set for myself. I will love myself even if I do not accomplish all on my list. Sometimes we may feel upset or discouraged because we have much to do and everything does not get done. We all know and experience life being overwhelming on some days. It is important to feel love for yourself and to honor your living whether or not you complete whatever you have set out to do.

We can look at what we have done or we can look at what we have not done. Which do you think offers the better feeling? We need to be kind to ourselves; this is how we practice so we can be kind to others. Everything begins within ourselves.

As we allow our hearts to fill with love and gratitude, life has a way of changing for the best! Let go of what causes you discomfort and look around you at the things, the friends, the family that you love and who love you. I am grateful for the living breath that enters into me every day, every moment. This is a gift given with no strings attached. It is solely my choice to be in recognition of the beauty offered me in my life daily. No unfinished business, no disappointment can take that from us. We are given the choice to experience what we wish. Loving oneself is where to begin if you want to have your consciousness in receiving mode. Breathe in the love and breathe out the negative.

Some days may be trying with a thousand things to do and little time to do them all. Different scenarios may take place that have nothing to do with my plan for achieving all I want to do. Even through those changes that we may experience, still the breath of life is flowing through us, supporting us, bringing it's gift of life.

Choose to place your attention on what fills you with love and hope and positivity. Breathe in gratitude and thankfullness. Do the best you can and continue to let go. Power is in the love that you feel for yourself. Power is in your decision to act rather than to react. We are filled with the power to choose. Our lives are created in the moment of our choosing. Acknowledge the gift of living. Acknowledge yourself for the much that you do, for your trying, listen to your heart wanting each moment to be felt, to be enjoyed, to be real. Love as if you are the delight of the world for you are. You were born for this. It is your divine birthright to feel the love that you were made from, the love that keeps you alive.

Look at yourself and all that you are capable of and let those things that do not get accomplished today be of minor consequence for there is always another day to do them.

Today, right NOW, is the most important time of your life. This time will never come again. You are alive NOW. Enjoy yourself in the wholeness of your beautiful being for you are filled with all the love of the Universe, placed within you by the Master's hand. Tomorrow will come. You will do those things you must but first... make sure you acknowledge yourself and the breathof life flowing into you. This sweetness will change your life and it is always there inside of you to be found. Choose peace before all else. This is the true desire of the heart.

Be with the love that has made you.
Love and blessings, Bobbye xox

JUST LET IT GO!Oh my goodness!  My day today has been all about letting go of something important to me.  Just letting g...
10/17/2024

JUST LET IT GO!

Oh my goodness!
My day today has been all about letting go of something important to me. Just letting go and trusting and knowing that everything is fine, ok, just as it is and I can relax and allow my life to unfold. It is so important to be clear about what I want in my life and what I want to do in the moment.

A short time ago, international author and speaker Prem Rawat spoke about knowing the distinction between something pleasurable and something good. I find myself now asking: "Is this just pleasurable or is it good for me? Mr. Rawat's explanation clearly states that all that is pleasurable is not neccessarily good for us. I love this distinction! It truly gives pause to rethink your choices.

Letting go frees us from the stress of thinking that we must be in control. It is so much more powerful to acknowledge that there is something else in control and that something else is directly responsible for my life. This energy and breath of life inside of me I can trust. I can feel when I need to let go. It is always the most natural path to take. It allows our lives to be the best and most fulfilling they can be.

Staying in the moment is the only way to be fully present to your life. In this moment only, we can see and feel what to do with no distraction of before or after. We are alive now and this is the most perfect focus to be practicing. When we cannot change our circumstances, we can change our reaction to them. Being focused in the clarity of the moment allows for the best choice to be made. We can create circumstances purely from the consciousness of clarity of intention and focused desire/imagination. We can feel in our hearts the perfect path/actions to take in any given moment. This is the gift and the grace of being given a human body. This is freedom.
Letting go allows me to feel the totality of my living in this moment called NOW. Living in the Now is the only way to live!

Excited for all of us to be here Now!
Love, Bobbye xox

Oh my goodness again!!! Now all my posts are back and I could not get them back earlier.  Oh well.  Happy they are all h...
10/14/2024

Oh my goodness again!!! Now all my posts are back and I could not get them back earlier. Oh well. Happy they are all here.

Take a little break and go do something beautiful and loving for yourself that your heart wants to do. NOW! GO!

Love, love, love, Bobbye xox

10/14/2024

JUST LET IT GO!

Oh my goodness! Came onto FB to discover ALL my posts have disappeared! Don't know exactly what to think of that. Well, just like everything else in my life I will just let go and then I will write a new post.

My day today has been all about letting go of something important to me. Just letting go and trusting and knowing that everything is fine, ok, just as it is and I can relax and allow my life to unfold. It is so important to be clear about what I want in my life and what I want to do in the moment.

A short time ago, international author and speaker Prem Rawat spoke about knowing the distinction between something pleasurable and something good. I find myself now asking: "Is this just pleasurable or is it good for me? Mr. Rawat's explanation clearly states that all that is pleasurable is not neccessarily good for us. I love this distinction! It truly gives pause to rethink your choices.

Letting go frees us from the stress of thinking that we must be in control. It is so much more powerful to acknowledge that there is something else in control and that something else is directly responsible for my life. This energy and breath of life inside of me I can trust. I can feel when I need to let go. It is always the most natural path to take. It allows our lives to be the best and most fulfilling they can be.

Staying in the moment is the only way to be fully present to your life. In this moment only, we can see and feel what to do with no distraction of before or after. We are alive now and this is the most perfect focus to be practicing. When we cannot change our circumstances, we can change our reaction to them. Being focused in the clarity of the moment allows for the best choice to be made. We can create circumstances purely from the consciousness of clarity of intention and focused desire/imagination. We can feel in our hearts the perfect path/actions to take in any given moment. This is the gift and the grace of being given a human body. This is freedom.

Letting go allows me to feel the totality of my living in this moment called NOW. Living in the Now is the only way to live!

Excited for all of us to be here Now!
Love, Bobbye xox

It's A Beautiful Relationship...It is the most beautiful experience in the world to feel, truly feel your heart.  To vis...
09/23/2024

It's A Beautiful Relationship...

It is the most beautiful experience in the world to feel, truly feel your heart. To visit within, the core of your being, to enter into that chamber inside, to sit with yourself, to be in gratitude, to acknowledge.

It doesn't matter the situation, the asking and the thirst is the same, always the same. We thirst to know ourselves, to identify with the most real and most simple of ourselves. As humans, we have been created with an inner thirst that becomes known to us over time. Those who have felt this thirst deeply desire to find fulfillment, the kind that doesn't get all used up and leave you feeling empty.

The inner longing to know oneself is our beautiful pathway to peace. When we know who we are and why we are here, a divine, magical, mesmerizing relationship begins. It is such a feeling of coming home, coming home to yourself.

We begin to take our focus from worldly experiences. We become filled with a love from the inner of us and what is felt on the inner is expressed on the outer. This is an amazing awareness for us. We know clearly we are drawn to love and clarity. It is from this all-inclusive loving clarity that we can make decisions that are powerful and good for us, decisions that energetically send out the most unbounded love into the world and all we meet or see.

It is joyful to find yourself and to live life's journey learning to know yourself. So perfectly made are we, that light has been placed inside of us, that peace is waiting inside of every human being, to be found. Our own personal inner peace.

Be delighted by who you are just as you are.
To your perfect inner peace,
Love, Bobbye xox

Searching, Searching...So graciously we have been filled with love.  So gracious, this breath of life we breathe.  So pr...
09/03/2024

Searching, Searching...

So graciously we have been filled with love. So gracious, this breath of life we breathe. So profound the connection to the Giver of Life, as we breathe in and breathe out. This connection will be with us for all of the time we are alive in our bodies. Have you felt this connection, paid attention to this connection within you? NOW is the time you have to feel your union with your Maker.

Have you felt peace in your life, a real inner peace that emanates from inside of you? A peace that lives in you awaiting your discovery, your longing, your desire, your thirst. Not peace that seems to come from an external source. That kind of "peace" dissipates in no time, leaving you searching again and again, hoping to find the genuine feeling of true peace, a personal living peace that has been placed in you and every human being alive. This peace is yours to discover, to delight in. It is never found from the external world which promises you everything and delivers nothing.

When you know the wonder in you, the contentment, the fulfillment that awaits you, your entire life changes. Peace will flood through you and gratitude will fill your cup until your cup runneth over! This is a reality for all of us alive.

Have you searched in your heart for your peace? Did you even know that peace is possible? There is a way to focus your attention inside to enjoy the truest inner peace that exists in you. Ask and it shall be given. Become aware of what you are feeling in your heart. Have you found your thirst? Thirst is the gift given by the Creator of all that you might become aware of the longing that lives in you. This thirst is your direction to home.

In your life, be aware of what fills your heart. Listen to your longing. Become filled with humility. Feel gratitude for this life you have been gifted and ask and search until you find inner contentment and fulfillment. Let your lovely breath fill you and lead you to your own personal inner peace, your own refuge from the noise of the world's chaos. Peace is your birthright.

Peace is possible and peace is why you are here, alive. Find yours.

Peace, love and big hugs,
Bobbye xox

The Preciousness Of...What is precious to you?  What can you not live without?  What one thing must you have, love, ador...
08/25/2024

The Preciousness Of...

What is precious to you? What can you not live without? What one thing must you have, love, adore, be with to the end of all your days? What do you have that is yours alone, that no one can take from you? Do you have a gift like this? Do you revere this gift and hold it in your heart? Does it bring you contentment, fulfillment, joy? Do you take care of this gift and pay it attention? Does it take care of you, is it always present, always supporting you? Do you feel the preciousness of this gift in your life every day? Do you?

If you don't, you can. The blessing has already been granted you.

Read on with your heart wide open.
With love unmeasured, Bobbye xox

Peace is more than just an idea.  Peace is a presence.  It is found inside of every human being, deep in the heart.  To ...
08/25/2024

Peace is more than just an idea. Peace is a presence. It is found inside of every human being, deep in the heart. To visit your heart, to find your home in your heart, you must come to know yourself, your REAL self. Who are you; do you know who you are? This is the most important question you can ask. Unless and until we know ourselves, we will be without true direction for it does not matter where we are going if we don't know who we are!

Peace is a feeling, a deep and reverant feeling that fills you with the sweetest joy that can be known. Peace is in the very moment we are alive... this moment called NOW. Inside of your breath is a secret. Man searches the world in his entire lifetime searching, looking to find the one thing, the only thing that will fulfill him. Thinking it is in this or that, he traverses his lifetime accumulating all that he can while the promises of fulfillment continue to be broken. There is no "outer" thing or circumstance or person who will ever be able to impart fulfillment of the heart. This must be learned and understood. Always it comes back to yourself.

Search the world, go here and there and experience all that you can. Your heart will tell you when you have found what you are looking for. Sometimes we need someone to help us, to show us.

The longing we have inside, the thirst for the heart to be quenched, is the most beautiful thirst of your life, placed there by the infinite love of your Creator. It is your thirst for the truth of your being that will lead you inside of yourself. Once this truth is revealed, then truly your life begins. Your longing to know is your friend.

Peace is a river flowing within your breath. Be with your thirst to find it. Ask and it will be given to you. Knock and the door shall be opened. When the desire to know oneself, the desire for personal inner peace is felt, the journey has begun.

Peace is searching for you. Love, joy, beauty, compassion, fulfillment all reside within the peace inside of you. It is a grace in this lifetime to search and to find that which you are looking for.

Feel what is in your heart and be open to the possibility of inner peace, for you. Ask with humility and find your peace.

Breathing in peace and loving you always,
Bobbye xox

Your Powerful Truth!Honor your beautiful self!  You are what the Universe has created.  You are who has been made by the...
08/21/2024

Your Powerful Truth!

Honor your beautiful self! You are what the Universe has created. You are who has been made by the one Perfect Power of all worlds. There is no other that exists like you. You are one of a kind! You are blessed with love and kindness, more than enough to give away, and when you smile you light up the Universe; you have the power to make people happy... this is truly amazing! You are gracious and filled with a joy that spreads in you and from you so that others can feel what you feel.

Today is the perfect day, NOW is the perfect time to love and cherish yourself and all your unlimited goodness. When you are kind to a stranger, he or she is a stranger no more! You have just blessed them with your friendship and caring. Acknowledge the greatness of your soul, it is there to encourage you, support you and lift you into the experience of heaven. Heaven is when we are so love-filled that we cannot but help to give love away. You are here to bless and be blessed.

Every time you feel a breath enter into you, you are being loved magnificently, in a way that is beyond imagination. Each time you release that breath you are existing in pure faith and trust that another breath will be given you! Such a miracle occurs and so often goes unnoticed. The Creator lives within you. You are home to the Infinite. The Infinite has made itself to breathe in you and to feel through you. Each time you do good in the world, for yourself or another, your Maker loves you in an even deeper way. So perfect you are that you cannot comprehend.

Your smile can change lives. Your smile HAS changed lives. The love and laughter you offer or share with another is more valuable thatn gold or any sparkling jewel and it lives on forever in a memory of the kindness offered. Your beauty is in your eyes when they shine with love. Your preciousness is in the way you touch someone's shoulder or take their hand in solace and understanding. There are not enough words in the entire Universe to express your beauty, your divinity.

You are loved by your beloved Creator who lives within you and breathes the precious breath of life in you. Be conscious of the breath of life as it rises in your chest. Be conscious of the great and magnificent gift given you. Breathe in gratitude, breathe in thankfullness.

Dance and make merry in your lifetime and invite others to share in your delight that they may enjoy their living as well. In this way you do the bidding of the Highest Power and great delight does that Power find in you. Yes, honor who you truly are and know you are never less than beautiful, kind, perfect and loving. This is your true and natural essence. And so it is.

I am honored to know and feel your love,
Bobbye xox

How To Prepare For Life!Expect the unexpected!!  Some days will be like heaven and some days will be like the "other" pl...
08/15/2024

How To Prepare For Life!

Expect the unexpected!! Some days will be like heaven and some days will be like the "other" place, the one nobody wants to go to! Moment to moment we never know what will happen; we never know what events will take place in our lives. Your day and even your life can change in a matter of moments.

Just like the Girl Scouts or is it the Boy Scouts motto: Be Prepared, there is one thing that anyone can do... go with the flow. To go with the flow is to go with the flow of the breath coming into you right now in this very moment. There is a distinct rhythm to the incoming and outgoing of your breath. It is ceaseless and always available. If you are familiar with it's cadence, it's rise and fall, then it becomes your closest friend. As each breath enters into you, it's movement calms and regulates your internal experience. You become conscious of the moment you are living in and not the situation that your physical body may be reacting to. You are able to slow down, move within your breathing and once again reclaim your clarity. Such a natural gift of composure is available to all.

A quieting of the mind is a beautiful release of the angst you may feel when a situation occurs that throws us a curveball. Without clamness there is no clarity and without clarity there can be no resolution. Trust in your breath, it is there as your best friend, to love you and guide you, to fulfill you and to soothe you. It asks nothing of you but your focus and attention. This is the way to adjust yourself to your living, regardless of outer conditions. You may not be able to change your circumstances, but you can gather yourself and compose yourself and become powerfully clear inside of you. "Things" may change in an instant but the life in you is a constant and never is it interrupted, distorted or changed in any way by any condition or situation or experience. What can you count on in this life to always be there for you? What can the world promise you that will always and forever be fulfilled? Only your breath is able to do that.

When the complexities of life befall you, breath is right there, in it's own rhythm, awaiting your attention so you amy be quietly guided as to the best path to take. In your breath is a great discernment. Learn to depend upon your divinely given breath for always shall it be there for you until you are no more.

This is the truest nature of being prepared. Remain within in the contentment of the rise and fall of your breathing and you will be led to the perfect antidote for any and all of the world's most difficult and absurd conditions. When you are friends with your breath, the world has no control over you and neither can it dictate your experience. Those who practice being one with their breath experience freedom from the vise of worldly containment. Such a gift lives within all.

Practice, practice, practice.

So much do I love you, Bobbye xox

Antidote To The World...Peace. Peace. Peace.  How valuable to find peace in this ever changing, constant cacophony of no...
08/13/2024

Antidote To The World...

Peace. Peace. Peace. How valuable to find peace in this ever changing, constant cacophony of noise; a world gone crazy chasing after money and the things you can purchase... all to find fulfillment of self. Whoa... put the brakes on! Fulfillment is an inside job and only you and you alone can find it within yourself. If you are very humble and ask and find someone to help you, you can be shown how to access your own inner personal peace. You only have to connect with your thirst to know. A very wise man, Prem Rawat, has said "The world will promise you everything and give you nothing." This is exactly why people run after this and that believing the next thing, the next lover, the newer car, the nicer home will all be the perfect fix for the longing heart. But wait... it never works for when the newness dissipates, the search must resume. This is life in a nutshell!

How beautiful to find the place of perfect silence within. To hear the sound of total silence, a song unlike any other, soothing and carrying you far inside of yourself where the true inner peace is found. To turn your focus inside is a gift that brings with it total clarity, peace of mind. Connecting with yourself is knowing yourself, who you are and why you are here. Knowing yourself is the most enjoyable experience to be had. Inside of you is so much love and boundless joy and endless gratitude for this life you are given. So many are racing to find success, the pinnacle of the mountain they are ever climbing. Success my friends, is nought but a job well done. Fulfillment is another story, one where the heart simply says "Ahhh, I am home at last."

Your breath can lead you to home if you know the way to focus, where to look, what to feel. If you have thirst to know, then you are one of the fortunate ones, for your thirst will lead you to the ultimate answer in this lifetime you are living. The longing heart cannot help but want to know itself. You are far more than you know. The pure graciousness of the Creator of all has placed the answer within you, literally right under your very nose. The Master himself has created the gift of thirst so that you may search and ask for the gift to be shown, the gift of knowing and loving your truest self. Peace is when you have found yourself and the search on the outer, trying this and that, only to find disapointment again and again, has finally ended.

This is not a pipe dream dear ones, no, it is a reality for those who have found inner peace, those whose hearts brought them to their answer through means of their longing and thirst to know the truth of their being. Ask and you shall receive is no joke. Knock on heaven's door within yourself, feel your heart's desire to know. Find the hidden treasure that beckons you day and night, calling you to search. Be open, become humble. Ask.

Seek and you shall find. Don't you know that you deserve inner peace? Don't you know that inner peace is looking for you? Yes, it is and your life will be filled with joy as you find it.

Loving you from the peace in my own heart, Bobbye xox

A Recipe You Will Love~Fall in love.  Fall in love with your faith.  Fall in love with your faith in yourself!  Know tha...
08/08/2024

A Recipe You Will Love~

Fall in love. Fall in love with your faith. Fall in love with your faith in yourself! Know that you can overcome any obstacle. You were born with the courage of a lion and the boldness of a conqueror.

Find the belief behind your situation and slay it! Take your energy out of what you do not want; dismiss fear and doubt, anger, unworthiness. Replace them with how you would feel if your problem was resolved in the most wonderful way. This you can do; this is what you must do to change the experience of what you do not want into one that you are thriving and flourishing in.

Sometimes all you will require is the courage to move within your issue. As you gain movement, and fear and struggle release their death-grip, forward motion can occur and your experience will transform in ways you have never before imagined. Let go of angst. Find your faith in letting go. Know that you are never ever alone. The entire Universe is supporting you.

To change the physical requires exchanging the you that is living in and believing in your current situation. You must take on the identity of the you who has now realized the perfect solution and success and attainment of your desired outcome. You must embody this new you in your current reality. Think and absolutely FEEL this outcome in every part of you and give thanks that it is so! Repeat and repeat and repeat until you KNOW not believe, but KNOW, that all is taken care of. You must do this religiously, but without stress or strain. Be the person whose problem is solved, whose health is returned, whose situation is transformed. Be that person filled with joy that all is now well in your life! Embody that which you wish to achieve in your current reality. Be that person NOW!

This is the true way of manifesting. Do not allow yourself to be dismayed. This is just wrongful thinking from a mind filled with the phantom of doubt. Give it no credence. It is not your truth. Your truth exists only in this moment in the breath that you are breathing right now. The undeniable truth of your living is in the present moment called NOW. Be in this moment called NOW. This is where all possibility exists.

Stay in your faith... in God and his Universe and in that faith that has been placed in you. Expect great things, let go and open to receive.

Celebrating your gift received!
Love in huge heaps, Bobbye xox

The Best Medicine!Every day, find some joy.  Look into your own life and find what you can be joyful about.  What makes ...
08/06/2024

The Best Medicine!

Every day, find some joy. Look into your own life and find what you can be joyful about. What makes you feel joy? You can give help or love or attention or even a little gift to someone and joy will give you it's gift. There is joy contained in every breath that enters into you.

Saying thank you to yourself or another brings forth joy. Looking at the much you have is very joy-filled! Thanking your Creator for your life, your health, your wealth, your everything, will fill you with a joyful feeling. It is in your nature to be filled with joy and happiness. Give thanks for those you love and for those who love you and you will feel such a feeling of joy rising from within you.

Joy lives inside of you. Gratitude is a beautiful way to awaken the most wonderful feelings that live in you. These feelings are awaiting your invitation into your life. Memories help you to be filled with good feelings. Just as some people keep a gratitude journal, you can make it a point in your every day to allow joy to come into your heart and flood you with it's exhilarating feeling!

Joy is family, friends, your home, your living. You are made to feel joy, you are meant to feel joy. You are designed for joy!

When you feel blessed you are in the experience of joy and when you bless another you are also then filled with joy. Joy begets more joy! You deserve to feel light-hearted, elated, exuberant, blissful even.

Ask yourself... what can you do to find joy, where in your life is joy waiting for you? Search and you will find more joy than you ever thought possible!

Breathe in joy and your every breath will be filled with thanksgiving.

Remember also, that you yourself are a joy, a wonderful, beautiful and amazing joy!

Loving you and joyful to share with you,
Love, Bobbye xox

Words To Live By~It is very important to listen to what you are thinking and saying.  All of your words impact your qual...
08/05/2024

Words To Live By~

It is very important to listen to what you are thinking and saying. All of your words impact your quality of living. You experience what you think and speak. If you hold a thought of fear, you will feel that fear and you are setting up the perfect conditions to bring that fear from imagination into your reality in the physical. Fear lowers your vibration and allows access to your reality, especially if repeated over and over.

Do you think you do not have the power or ability to stop such thoughts? Do you believe you are at the mercy of mind running rampant? Think again! It is you who is in control! Take back your power and turn those negatives into positives. Speak words of courage, strength and success over yourself every day. Quell harmful thinking at it's first onset. Never linger where there is no positive and uplifting experience, internally or externally.

Worry is a fertile ground for scenarios fostered by fear and doubt. You can just as easily replace worry with thoughts and beliefs that strengthen and lift your consciousness up into a beautiful, joyful, expansive experience. Do this over and over and establish a new way of thinking, a new productive habit, a way to manifest a new and wonderful reality.

Never ever use the word against yourself in any way. Never speak words of disempowerment or negativity over yourself ever. Speak words of love to yourself every day. Look in your mirror and tell yourself how much you love yourself. Be kind to yourself. Notice every single positive thing and quality about who you are.

Your heart is a seed, always wanting to grow. Fertilize it with your love and sweet acknowledgement. Embrace who you are. Feel the love and power of the Giver with each breath you breathe. Be with every breath and be in love and gratitude for this life you have been given. Gratitude will foster kindness and loving thoughts for yourself and others and your experience of life will become magnificent. This is your birthright; yes, this is what you were born for. Love your beautiful self fully, completely and with no restraint. Why? Because you are truly and deeply beautiful, that's why.

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