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12/03/2017

Dealing with doubts about your current date?
If you have been dating someone for two or three months who is everything you ever wanted but you still not sure if he (or she) is the right one, because you do not feel as excited as you should, or as happy as you should, the best way to deal with it is to stay together for now. Keep going out and don’t break up until you have more information and clarity. Most often, the best way to deal with this kind of a relationship is to give it time. In time, your true feelings will surface and you will make a good decision, and not one based out of fear or doubts because of friends or parents influence. If you comparing the relationship to a previous
relations, its better not to compare. Memories are powerful but not exactly accurate. Right now you are still in a place of indecision, do not rush to decide yes or no. Simply keep going out. Over period of time you will have more clarity. And in the meantime, you'll have an opportunity to continue to get to know someone and build a connection.
Be inspired to build the relationship you desire and take your time in dating and allow clarity to rise.

03/14/2017

How to make your Long Distance Dating thrive
Long-distance relationships have their ups and downs.
It require some serious work and consideration of each other.
Ask yourself if you are up for the challenge and if you really want to pursue that relationship so you can give it your best efforts.
Your heart may be happy but your day-to-day relationship can be challenging.
Here are some ideas to keep stress and anxiety at bay and to help you move your relationship forward.
How often do you pack up and how long do you stay? Of course there are many factors, like how much time can you get off from work. If you are the girl in this relationship – is the man has to be the one to pay for your airline ticket or car expenses? The ethical thing is YES.
If you are the man going to visit your new date, what kind of travel budget do you have? How long will these back and forth trips should be continued? And the final question is – once you move to the new location to be with your new friend, should you live by yourself or move with her (or him) ?
At the beginning, it would be ideal to see each other every 3 weeks for 2 to 4 days at a time. With budget concerns and work schedules you may have to adjust the visits. Try not to let more than 4 to 5 weeks go by without a meeting in person. When you are marriage-minded person it’s vital to date someone in person, as a relationship can change drastically once you spend time together. By the time you finally get the hang of dating long-distance it will be time to learn how to live and date in the same city. One of you will need to make the transition to a new and unfamiliar location. If you’re the one moving, give yourself extra time to adjust to a new city and new life. Moving is a big challenge, and even more so when in a serious relationship. If you are the one who got to stay in your city, be extra forgiving of your partner in the first few months after the move The decision to live together will depend on the two of you and a lot of consideration has to come in place depending on mutual interests, faith, family and upbringing. Many “live together” couples finding that living together is a great thing but on the other hand, many couples finding after a short time that it was a mistake and things turning to the worst. In this case, family, friends and self efficiency will be the answer to change your life again. Try to talk to each other ahead of the move to sort out the stress, expectation and fears of moving in together, or living separately in the new location. Make sure you both know that expectations and fears are a normal part of all relationships, especially a long-distance relationships. Also, try to meet his/her family and friends. Seeing someone in a different context is important before taking the next step. Like any relationship, remember to infuse it with fun as well as some serious moments. Keep your sense of humor when you are miles apart and especially when you spend time together.

11/21/2016

Relationship Tips for Super Independent Single People -----
Many of you who have been single for a long time, either because of a job that takes away your attention to other things in life, or you just got used to the fact that you can’t find a relationship that will fit your needs, so you accepted singleness and got a dog or a cat instead. The reasons for being single are many, but once you did find a relationship that you want to keep, you need to let go of some behaviors that could prove challenging when you need to operate as one.
Independent people don’t mind spending time alone, but this can create issues during the beginning stages of a new relationship as it could feel that you’re pulling away. Think about how spending time with another loving person, as opposed to spending too much time alone will turn your life around and help you to be happier.
Be honest with your new date, and admit that you’ve been independent so long and you need to adjust to the new situation of spending part of your time together. Communication can be an issue with super independent people as they are so used to doing things when they want to do it. Make an effort to communicate on where you coming from so your date will understand you better.
Finding balance will help as well. Understanding that we all have our own identities and friends is important, and it will take time to switch attention to the new person in your life. Try to make the other person feel needed because everyone needs to feel wanted. Make an effort to let them know you love and need them in your life.
And finally, try to change your attitude from not needing anyone to a positive look at what a new person can bring into your life if you both are attracted to each other.
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07/12/2015

Love is endless !!

01/14/2015

Some times you click immediately with the person you meet at first. It also can be love at first sight or you might pass up a diamond hidden in someone you least expect to find. Be open to exploring to find your diamond which is very unique especially if it's well hidden!

10/23/2014

Seek And you shall find ! This is where you will find the love of your life!