12/18/2024
Another emotional day working at Union Asbury Cemetery... As I've posted recently, I'm now excavating the interments that do not have stones, which include the graves that have collapsed, & the hundreds that have vaults with no marker. VERY tedious work. I'll be posting my findings in the near future, along with a map of the first sections, & I'll be asking for photos of the people in those sections so I can tell their stories a little better - which is, & has been the ultimate objective since I began rescuing UAC in 2017, & telling the stories are my objective with every grave I rescue. I'm a historical researcher & storyteller, not a groundskeeper.
Today I probed at UAC, had 13 possible, dug very carefully, scraping off 1/2" at a time to not destroy the name plates - if they were there. After digging down 6"-8" on all of the 13, there were 4 name plates. Since I began probing back in May I now have close to 40 people that were once lost & now are found.
So... 4 out of 13 isn't really a good day because I've been getting a 50-60% recovery rate. So I'm taking a walk around, pouting to myself about why I started the project lol, & I look down & see the stone for Fonnie Stevenson (shown top left), but everything was covered with pine needles - EXCEPT - for the words "Jesus Cares."
So I decided to do one more, & saw the little infant sized vault (top left) & after 45 minutes I found the name plate for "Fronz Yoban Dirkson" born 1948, died 1949. Another emotional breakdown lol.
Anyhow, this is an odd name for a Black person so I went & researched it right away. Nothing as of yet, but there was a Georgia Dirkson who lived in Crisfield, she was adopted & lived on Jersey Island as a child, certainly a seafood worker. The bottom right pic is an excerpt of a 1930 census showing her living with a Mr. & Mrs. Elisha Whealton (but I'll get into more on that after I ID "Baby Fronz."
SO... Georgia Dirkson had/has(?) a son named Howard Dirkson who graduated from Crisfield High in 1970, & in 1975 was serving in the Navy on the Destroyer USS Shenandoa. There's a man named George Dirkson on FB, & I sent him a friend request, we have mutual friends but if anyone could contact him I'd really appreciate it.
I want to find out who "Baby Fronz" is, & if he was Howard's older brother, maybe he can give me some info. If not, I'll keep doing what I do & I WILL find out the story of Baby Fronz. Why am I so confident? Because Jesus Cares!!!
Also, a TREMENDOUS thank you goes out to Theresa Douglas-abdullah, Florence Nelson Horsey, Jallisa Worthy, Shelly Laird & Nick Brewer for your donations. I can't even begin to express how much appreciated - & NEEDED - your contributions have been.
While I'm going to keep going on rescuing the stories of UAC regardless, if anyone would like to donate too, it would certainly make my Christmas a little more merry. Yes it's my choice to commit to this project knowing I'm doing it at my own expense, but I started it & I'm going to finish it.
If anyone feels so inclined, you can donate via cash app by sending to $arliepaden (put in memo UAC so I can give you credit), or by card by emailing: [email protected]. My daughter handles the internet payments, & if you're in Crisfield & want to donate cash, just send a msg. Trust me, even $5, $10 would be a tremendous help, & if you want to give more God Bless you. I've put $1000s & 1000s of my own $ into this this project, & have sacrificed greatly, but it's worth it because Jesus Cares.
But the ultimate purpose for this post is to ID "Baby Fronz," & the my prime person of interest right now is Howard E. Dirkson, son of Mrs. Georgia L. Dirkson.
Deidre Potter Harris, can you post to your page? (I tried to post last week but it didn't let me[?]).
OH... if ANYONE wants to put flowers for Christmas, or just see the graves of their family members who're buried at UAC, but you're not sure where they're buried, please msg me & I'll try to help. There are over 750 graves down there, & while I don't have the location of EVERY grave memorized, I know where most are. AND... while it's still rough & overgrown in much of the cemetery, there are no thorn bushes & it's just tall grass, & I'll be glad to cut a path if anyone wants to visit a buried family member. And I'll be delighted to do it because those who were once lost are now being found, & I want the families to know where their family members have been laid to rest.
Thanks for reading, & if you can make it, come out to my storytelling show this Sat at 6pm at Ole St. Peter's Church in Hopewell., MD, where I'll be telling the HIS-STORY OF CHRISTMAS. It's going to be very good. Why? Because Jesus Cares.đ
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Joe Paden