09/11/2024
Vacation Package Report Day 1: BE BOLD!!!
Hi all!!!
At first, our client ("John" for these post, as he chooses to remain anonymous) was unsure how to act around girls. He hadn't had a serious relationship in his life really, and not much, if any, experience flirting and playing with a woman in person...especially at one of the most beautiful beaches in the world (Manuel Antonio).
The first lady (Sara is the fake name I'll use for her) tried several times to engage with John, but got frustrated and sad that her attempts didn't work. Mary Morton told her to not take it personal...it's just that John as inexperienced...and to stay patient.
To be fair, he was almost completely ignoring her because he normally is alone. He didn't know what to say to open her up and, even though the ride to the beach was fun, it was Mary Morton and I who were bringing most of the energy...which is what we do :-)
Anyway, I knew what the problem was and how to fix it, so I took John for a walk on the beach. I explained to him that, whether this was HIS girl or not, it was an excellent opportunity to practice GAME.
Don't be deferential! (He was "yes ma'am", "do you mind if I...", "can I get you a"...respecting her like you would someone's mother...)
Respect her, of course, but if she's trying to flirt with you, and you don't respond with any sexual energy, she will take that as a rejection and will feel self-conscious.
"Why isn't he looking at my body...I'm wearing a THONG! Am I ugly"?
In other words, and I promise this is exactly what I told him..."PULL YOUR JUNK OUT!"
In other words...Your lust when she's trying to seduce you is a REWARD for her, and makes her feel comfortable showing off for you. Ignoring her, even though you're just trying to be polite, is a rejection to her.
To his enormous credit, he took my advice and changed immediately. He paid her more attention and, when I saw an opportunity for him to make her feel good, I told him what to do and he did it.
For example, she asked John "Do I lo0ok good in this bikini?". At first, he said "You look beautiful", which is a low impact response. I told him "Tell her to show you how she looks in the bikini".
He did, and she stood up, slowly turned around to give him the 360 degree view, and started dancing in front of him.
(I mean...she asked the question. How can he be sure if she doesn't shake that thing in front of him? It's for scientific purposes...LMAO!)
Now, he was too shy to look at her the way I would, but the smile on his face said it all!
Next thing I know, I'm going to the store for drinks and, as I'm walking back, I see John and the lady laying down in the ocean...rolling around in the surf...playing with each other...laughing!
He was finally IN THE MOMENT instead of in his head figuring out how to be, what to say, and what to do!
At the end of the day, they walked the beach together holding hands and talking. Perfect first day, and he learned a lttle bit about how to make a girl feel good when she's being being sexy and flirty with him.
At the end of the first day, I asked John what his thoughts were about "Sara", and whether or not he wanted to continue seeing her or switch to a diferent woman.
(I always record the end of day conversation I have with clients so they can review it after I'm gone, and so I can show you guys what his thoughts were.)
Once I edit the video to hide his identity, that video is coming out tonight, so stay tuned!
