17/02/2024
While in 📍Pretoria, South Africa, I met a woman from 📍Mafeteng, Lesotho. Things were looking great until there was a party in my apartment...
I packed my bags and go look for a flat or an apartment (to better understand), to stay at in Pretoria. before this, I was staying with my friend at his flat...
I'm a bit excited as I want a little bigger space so I could also do my work. I went to a cheaper place and a more vibey place called Sunnyside in Pretoria.
I got to a street called Esselen, which is a street that I believe is the most busiest in the area, people do "not" sleep here. There is a mall on the street, clubs, restuarants and residential flats around...
Perfect, me being a handsome single man who is looking to be in a relationship, I already see very attractive women around, for every 2 women that pass, 1 looks like a potential girlfriend, 😀, I'm optimistic, okay...
Finally, I find a place, just 3 minutes walk from the mall on the corner of some street and Esselen street. This is perfect because of the mall, gym, restuarant and entertainment nearby, I won't get bored easily when I need a break from work, you know?
I forgot the name of the building I found a flat to stay at, but the flat number was 402 on the second floor. On the following Sunday, as I go sit on the balcony, I noticed on top floor, 403 there are 4 women on the balcony having drinks and laughing, probably they stay there. "I must be God's favorite, because things are looking great", as I think to myself and pour wine and seat alone, reading my book.
While sipping on my wine, I hear a name "Yellowbone" most often from the girls talking. The following day, the Universe worked in my favour. It was later afternoon, as I'm from the mall from the gym, I meet this light skinned beautiful woman by the gate of my flat. I greet her and immediately another lady comes and screams, "Yellowbone wait for me". Oh! this is theeee "Yellowbone".
I hop on the opportunity, " You know, yesterday on my balcony, I heard your name a lot when you guys were on your balcony having drinks, it was you right? you must be a lovely person", me saying to her. She laughs a little and says, "ahg! ba phapha bao, ba nhoeletse every second" (this translates to: agh! they are forward those girls, they call my name every second)". "O Mosotho?", me asking her if she is Sotho as she was speaking sesotho in an accent of Basotho, "yes", she says. I'm like, " nice, I'm also Mosotho from Qwaqwa". I see her face glowing as she says, "wow! thats awesome, I'm Mosotho from Lesotho, Mafeteng"
We became so happy and immediately connected, leveraging our common ethnicity. Many people around us were from other Provinces of South Africa and Africa as a whole.
We became friends to a point where we were calling each other "Mosotho waka" meaning "My Mosotho".
She was the life of the party. Every Saturday and Sunday she would come and ask we go to a club or an event. We liked each other a lot.
What I didn't mention was I was sharing the flat with another guy, the flat was 1 bedroom, kitchen, living area and balcony. Living room was huge so I was staying in the living area, I had put a bed and sofas, so it was one huge bedroom with sofas and an office table at the corner, I'm sure you get the picture...
One Friday as I am from gym around 7pm, I get to the house, its full of women and other guys, oh! Its a party, my flat mate threw a surprise party. On my bed some ladies are chilling and lying down. It was just beautiful women...
By the time I am now enjoying the party and blending in, Yellowbone comes in. I don't mind, my Mosotho is here, its about to get fun, funner, funnest, 😀. No, instead things turned out to be bad...
The first thing, Yellowbone calls me outside, "is that your girlfriend, on the bed", she asks me about the woman lying on my bed, on my pillows. "No, I don't know her, i just met them now, they are sitting on the bed as sofas are full", as I reply.
"Okay then", she replies to me as she goes back in the house and head straight to bed. "Ausi, I'm the only one who sleeps here, please move, all of you move", Yellowbone removes those ladies on my bed
Now, I am surprised because, she never slept there, we never slept together, we were more of buddies. To make matters worse, I already asked one lady to be my girlfriend, I thought I'm single.
I confront Yellowbone outside, and we have an argument. sadly, our friendship broke up just like that, because I could not see her beyond just being a friend. At the time, the reason I had not asked her to be my woman was because she already had 3 kids and me none, so I did not want to deal with that situation at the time, s*x make babies you know, I felt like it might go there, so I played safe.
She was so hurt when we broke up to the point where she went out drinking and came to my flat at 2am, knocked and cried on me. I tried my best to explain why we cannot be intimate lovers.
Sometimes, our past will prevent us having some things we want in the future, however, that does not mean you will not get some things you want. Focus on those things and people who take you with your past. Today, yellowbone is happy and in a good relationship and we remain friends. I am glad we are cool. Guess what? She even uses hk top2 shopping to still create fun times, she is the life of a party, very fun person indeed, the reason she uses top2 shopping, she always says, " I'm old now, I party healthy..." 😀
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