29/04/2021
Here I propose to you some ideas about France and the French that I've received living here. Theyâre based on daily observations, valuable personal experiences, reading, interacting. Besides, for me as a personal guide in Paris, it is a professional duty (and pleasure) to stay up to date, to explore, to look behind the curtains, to shed light on things, and share after. It can be subjective, I know. Thatâs why I encourage you for your own experience đ
In the meanwhile, I invite you to find out about mine.
When we go for a visit or when we immigrate to another country, we already carry a certain idea of it. Which is a bargain full of stereotypes, prejudices, and sometimes even expectations.
Some of them turn out to be true, the others, false. Does anything appear in your head? Like that the Italians canât live without coffee 10 times a day. That they take theâfoodâ thing too seriously (especially spaghetti) and are real champions when it comes to gesticulations â all seems to be true! But that all men there are heartbreakers, is false!) In Germany, they drink a lot of beer (the October fest wouldnât exist)- true! But that they're reserved, even cold sometimes - false! I assure you they are friendly! (I lived there for some time too). The Brazilians are all amazing footballers⌠Ummm, not all of course. So it is false! The Americans are loud - true. Definitely. Often smiling, - true again. Eat only in McDonald's â false. The English people talk a lot about the weather. It is true, indeed. But many of them dream to live in London â false. Ukrainians are kindhearted and generous. Although they need time to let you in. In their hearts, I mean. Yeah, this is certainly subjective)
The French. What is true and what is false about them?
Well, they are producers of excellent champagne, wine, and cheese, - true. Are to some extent snobs and chauvinists â true again.
And here I propose to you to go furtherâŚ
Idea 1. Do the French kiss each other all the time?
True.
I'm talking about the way they say hello to each other when they meet (no erotic meaning here) This so âfrenchâ habit does not pose the slightest problem to the French themselves. But to the foreigner, sometimes, it does. Touching the cheek of the almost unknown person at any time can put you in the right mess, I assure you! The social code of the âla biseâ was not always evident to me; whom should I kiss? The family, friends? Do I have to kiss a superior as well? How many times? What was sure is that I donât have to kiss my dentist or the employer, with whom I just had a job interview (unless I meet him at a friends' house after))
The kiss can even be a diplomatic issue. For example, Angela Merkel, a fine diplomat, has never refused hers to Nikolas Sarkozy. Who was also entitled to the diplomatic âbiseâ from Michelle Obama, who in her turn refused it to Silvio Berlusconi? Oops.
Where it comes from? No one can give a rational explanation for this ritual. Maybe because there is none. Or maybe it is just in human nature to love rituals.
Dominique Picard, the french psycho-sociologist explains :
"The kiss is an important gesture of greeting because it marks the opening and the closing of a meeting", "such a greeting is like a recognition of identity, a way of telling someone that he is not a stranger, that he is part of us. It is a recognition that you need to feel to know that you exist in the eyes of otherâ
Well said. I have nothing else to add.
Idea 2. France is the number 1 in tourism
True, but...
France, thanks to its natural, artistic, and culinary treasures, is considered to be the world leader in tourism.
France has the reputation of dominating the world of tourism.
In terms of entries, it comes first: no less than 75 million people cross its borders each year (before the Covid epidemic) It is more than in the United States, China, Spain, or Italy!
Most of them are its northern neighbors; Germans, English, Dutch, Belgians, and its neighbors to the south: Italians, Spaniards, Portuguese. Americans represent less than 5% of the total.
In terms of revenue, the situation is less optimistic. According to the classification established by the World Tourism Office, France is third behind the United States and Spain. Why is such a drastic difference? It is because more than 14 million visitors have France just as a transit country.
It is indisputable that tourism is an extraordinary resource for France. The receipts are between 30, and 40 billion euros every year! But is it really enough to occupy the first place?
Idea 3. French cinema does not export
False
The current cinema world is dominated by the USA. Among national ones, the French cinema resists best to it.
In addition, it has allowed many artists from Europe and around the world to express themselves. Famous directors, such as Krzysztof KieĹlowski, Andrzej ĹťuĹawski, Gaspar NoĂŠ, Edgardo Cozarinsky, , Anatole Litvak, Michael Haneke, Paul Verhoeven, Otar Losseliani, John Berry, Roman Polanski are counted French. Conversely, directors of French cinema, such as Jean Renoir, Jacques Tourneur, Jean-Jacques Annaud, Jean-Pierre Jeunet, Olivier Dahan, Luc Besson, Francis Veber or Agnès Varda, Julie Delpy, Claire Denis have led fruitful careers abroad.
Every year, more than 300 French films are released abroad. Among the most famous ones is the Fabulous Destiny of AmĂŠlie Poulain, The Emperor's March, Two Asterix-Missions, Cleopatre and The Olympic Games, La Mome, Coco before Chanel.
So, what is the secret of the really good French cinema that is being exported?
It must be the question of the quality. Be it the mainstream films, documentaries, cartoons, auteur films: anything can work, if the quality is there.
Important to say that the French cinema is also sufficiently sustained by the policy of the state. It is largely promoted on TV, by international organizations, and film festivals (Viva the Cannes!)
And even if the French cinema will not rise to the level of American, it is already in a decent place among her European neighbors.
Do you like the French cinema yourself?
Idea 4. French people are good enough at foreign languages
False
According to a recent survey, 30% of French people believe they can speak English. It is much less than in northern Europe, but more than in the south. The French have the reputation of being particularly resistant to the languages of others. The other confirmation is the 3rd place in Europe in TOEIC results.
If the situation is delicate with German, Italian, and Spanish too. Having all this linguistic diversity on its territory and taking no advantage of it, itâs a real pity.
So, where does it come from?
Probably due to the fact that the French language has long been used abroad. The Italians, Spanish, Portuguese spoke it. But also in the west-eastern countries and former colonies.
As a result, the French who traveled thought they could spare learning. Another version is the absence of the "musical/linguistic ear". The fact that can be caused by the poor varying sonorities of the French language. Which makes it difficult for the person to learn and practice a new language.
Will do for now with the ideas about France and the French. Hope you found some interesting ones for you! To be continued.