21/02/2022
During my tours to Italy we do visit the major tourist places (Rome, Florence, Venice, etc.), but often I include in the tour itinerary one or two days when we go to the little towns where some people in the group have family roots. It is always an emotional event to see them meet for the first time their relatives. Tears are shed. I have been instrumental of numerous such reunions. Here I want to share this most moving reunion.
In 1912 a young couple, Nazzareno and Giuseppina, left their little town in central Italy and came to America. They planned to work, save and then go back. They left their 3 year old daughter Lucia with the grandparents. The couple worked in Cleveland, Ohio, and had three more children; one of them was Dominic. Now and then they sent a package and money to the parents and Lucia. After World Wars I they decided to go back home, but the parents dissuaded them, because things were not good in Italy; they advised to have Lucia join them in America. But young Lucia, not knowing her parents and feeling safe with grandparents, refused to go. In Cleveland Nazzareno and Giuseppina talked to their children about Italy, grandparents and Lucia, but then both died rather young. After their death, their children knew no Italian language and soon all contacts with Italy faded away.
While I was announcing my tours at an Italian Fest in Cleveland, Dominic, an 80 year old man, told he was interested to join my tour. When he told me the name of his parents’ town, I looked in the phone book of that town (I have phone books of all Italy) and found a few families with Dominic’s same last name. I wrote them and explained about Dominic and his parents. Soon I received a letter from them. The letter said: according to what you described, Dominic does have relatives here and one of them is an 84 year old woman called Lucia; she is Dominic's sister. When I gave the news to Dominic, he seemed to faint: he vaguely remembered his parents talking about a sister Lucia left in Italy.
Dominic came to my Italy tour and I made arrangements for him to go to see Lucia. When he got there the entire town was watching and celebrating. The newspaper had a long story about Dominic and Lucia. The paper’s headline said: “Ci hanno impiegato 81 anni per abbracciarsi” (It took them 81 years to embrace each other). When in the evening Dominic came back to the group we wanted to know how was the meeting with his sister. He was so moved that he could not talk; all he said was “I cried all day” and he kept on crying during the rest of the tour.