21/11/2024
In the wake of an election won by candidates who have plans to bring down democracy (but not the price of eggs), I’m one of millions of contrarians who are trying to get clear about the most responsible way forward.
This much I’m clear about: of those who cast votes, a majority of my fellow citizens voted for this outcome, so unless I want to flee from them or duke it out—which I don’t—“forward” means (among other things) trying to find creative ways to relate to at least some of them.
Relating well to those I disagree with means listening with care to the stories they tell about who and how they are, in hopes that they might be open to hearing my story, too. Learning each other’s stories makes it harder to demonize or dismiss one another, and sometimes makes the inexplicable at least understandable.
Here’s a poem full of good counsel about the two sides of that street: speaking your truth and listening to the truth of another. As the fallout from this election continues, I have a sense that a lot of stories will be changing over the next couple of years, which means there will be a lot of interesting listening to do.
Memo to Self: Speak up and listen up!
P.S. The latest counts from 2024 show the (R) candidate received 76,537,938 votes, while the (D) candidate received 73,922,971 votes. But about 36% of the voting-eligible population did not vote, which means that about 89,000,000 people sat this one out. Sad, but par for the course. These figures are from The Associated Press, which reputable journalists regard as the gold standard in such matters.
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