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War Without Heroes Initiative War Without Heroes vindicates the timeless principles of peace and justice in the world by raising awareness of the selfless courage all Vietnam War vets.

War dominated 30 years of Vietnam's history last century. The struggle that began with communists fighting French colonial power in the 1940’s did not end until they seized Saigon and control of the whole country in 1975. The period that Americans refer to as the "Vietnam War" – and the Vietnamese call the "American War" – was the US military intervention from 1965 to 1973. Communist forces based

in the north and led by the nationalist leader Ho Chi Minh defeated the French in 1954. Accords were negotiated that split the country into communist north and pro-American south, divided by a demilitarized zone (DMZ). Country-wide elections to decide a permanent solution were promised but never happened, and within five years the communists had launched a guerrilla war on the south. Hundreds of thousands of US soldiers were sent to help fight the communists in a costly and ultimately unsuccessful war which brought domestic civil unrest and international embarrassment. The US was driven by Cold War concerns about the spread of communism, particularly "domino theory" – the idea that if one Asian nation fell to the leftist ideology, others would quickly follow. The Vietnam War was protracted and bloody. The Hanoi government estimates that in 21 years of fighting, four million civilians were killed across North and South Vietnam, and 1.1 million communist fighters died. US figures covering the American phase record 200-250,000 South Vietnamese soldiers killed and 58,200 US soldiers dead or missing in action.

(APRIL 01, 2024) FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS: it’s with great sadness we learned the passing of Lou Conter, Last Survivor of U...
01/04/2024

(APRIL 01, 2024) FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS: it’s with great sadness we learned the passing of Lou Conter, Last Survivor of USS Arizona From Pearl Harbor Attack. He was 102.

Of the U.S. Navy warships lost or damaged during the Japanese surprise attack on Pearl Harbor, the hardest hit was by far the USS Arizona, which was struck by four armor-piercing bombs. One of those bombs blew up the ship’s magazine, causing an explosion which sank the Pennsylvania-class battleship and killed 1,177 sailors and Marines, hundreds of whom are still entombed there to this day.

Among the survivors of the explosion was 20-year-old Lou Conter, a quartermaster who was standing on the Arizona’s quarterdeck at 7:55 a.m. when the first wave of 138 Japanese airplanes launched their surprise assault. Conter not only survived the explosion of the ship’s magazine, but he survived the attack on Pearl Harbor and the rest of World War II.

Conter was born Sept. 13, 1921 in Ojibwa, Wisconsin, enlisting in the Navy when he turned 18 in 1939. After three months of boot camp in San Diego, he was sent to the USS Arizona as a regular deckhand on the forward port side of the ship. After making Seaman 2nd Class, he was transferred to the quartermaster division. The attack on Pearl Harbor occurred just over a year later.

After Pearl Harbor, Conter continued serving in the Navy after Pearl Harbor. He became a naval aviator, piloting PBY-1 Flying Boats for Patrol Bombing Squadron 11, a “Black Cat” unit, hunting Japanese submarines at night while painted black. He flew 200 missions in the Pacific Theater where he was shot down twice, both time rowing to safety aboard a raft. After the war, he joined the reserve and went home to California.

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10/09/2020
RETURN TO VIETNAM - THE GREATEST GENERATIONS Our return programs to the battlefields of Vietnam justifies the timeless p...
24/12/2019

RETURN TO VIETNAM - THE GREATEST GENERATIONS
Our return programs to the battlefields of Vietnam justifies the timeless principles of peace and justice by raising awareness of the selfless courage all Vietnam War veterans exercised when they answered the call to help defend the ideals of our nation, in hopes that future generations will never forget their sacrifices or those who were left behind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QK5KeN3kd0&feature=youtu.be

The Battle of Ia Drang was the first major battle between the United States Army and the People's Army of Vietnam (PAVN), also referred to as the North Vietn...

The Battle of Ia Drang was the first major battle between the United States Army and the People's Army of Vietnam, also ...
03/12/2019

The Battle of Ia Drang was the first major battle between the United States Army and the People's Army of Vietnam, also referred to as the North Vietnamese Army, and was part of the Pleiku Campaign conducted early in the Vietnam War.

Our return programs to Vietnam vindicates the timeless principles of peace and justice in the world by raising awareness...
21/03/2018

Our return programs to Vietnam vindicates the timeless principles of peace and justice in the world by raising awareness of the selfless courage all Vietnam War veterans exercised when they were called to duty, in hopes that future generations will never forget their sacrifices or those who were left behind.

For more information, please contact The Greatest GENERATIONS Foundation directly on [email protected]

"Every Day is Memorial Day"
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Our return programs to Vietnam vindicates the timeless principles of peace and justice in the world by raising awareness...
21/03/2018

Our return programs to Vietnam vindicates the timeless principles of peace and justice in the world by raising awareness of the selfless courage all Vietnam War veterans exercised when they were called to duty, in hopes that future generations will never forget their sacrifices or those who were left behind.

For more information, please contact The Greatest GENERATIONS Foundation directly on [email protected]

"Every Day is Memorial Day"
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In case you missed it, here is a link for our Veterans Day ceremony in DaNang, Vietnam with President TRUMP to remember ...
15/11/2017

In case you missed it, here is a link for our Veterans Day ceremony in DaNang, Vietnam with President TRUMP to remember the 58,220 Vietnam veterans that made the ultimate sacrifice for our great nation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wALx4YrHDZA&app=desktop

To learn more about our veterans programs back to Vietnam, please visit The Greatest Generations Foundation for more information.
Web: www.TGGF.org or Email: [email protected]

Da Nang, Vietnam

08/10/2017

Our return programs to Vietnam vindicates the timeless principles of peace and justice in the world by raising awareness of the selfless courage all Vietnam War veterans exercised when they were called to duty, in hopes that future generations will never forget their sacrifices or those who were left behind.

To learn more about our free programs back to Vietnam, please visit The Greatest Generations Foundation for more information. Web: www.tggf.org

AMERICA 'ITS TIME TO REMEMBER VIET NAM"Friends,The Greatest GENERATIONS Foundation is looking for the following Viet Nam...
26/06/2017

AMERICA 'ITS TIME TO REMEMBER VIET NAM"

Friends,

The Greatest GENERATIONS Foundation is looking for the following Viet Nam veterans that are interested in returning back to Viet Nam but cannot financially afford it to commemorate the 50TH Anniversary of the following battles: The Battle of Dak To, Battle of Khe Sanh, The Siege of Con Thien and Operations Swift; Essex; and Union I & II.

Please understand that our programs are 100% for VETERANS ONLY and will be fully underwritten by The Greatest GENERATIONS Foundation.

For more information on our return programs to Viet Nam, please contact The Greatest GENERATIONS Foundation via email (only) with an introduction letter of your service in Viet Nam.

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Remember Those Who Served
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REMEMBER VIETNAM -- On June 22, 1967, The Los Angeles Times headline screamed “Viet Cong Destroy 134-man U.S. Unit” in i...
13/06/2017

REMEMBER VIETNAM -- On June 22, 1967, The Los Angeles Times headline screamed “Viet Cong Destroy 134-man U.S. Unit” in its account of the June 19 battle.

On June 19, 1967, the boys of , Alpha, Bravo and Charlie Companies of 47th Infantry Regiment went into the Mekong Delta, the homeland of the Viet Cong, and entered a foreign land of murderous heat, unforgiving jungle and a new age of guerrilla warfare.

This “band of brothers” journeyed from boot camp to combat and, for the lucky ones, back home — experiencing their horror, their pain, their misery, their happiness and, above all, their camaraderie together.

Now, 50 years later, they’re uniting once again on that very battlefield thanks to The Greatest Generations Foundation to share their stories of courage under fire with the world.

During their one-year deployment, these brave soldiers were confronted with both sides of death. They grieved for fallen comrades and the guilt of killing their enemy.

Team leader in the 1st Platoon, John Sclimenti, explains, “When you’re in battle, your training takes over, your emotions are on auto-pilot. What’s tough for you is when the battle stops. When the battle stops, all of a sudden you start thinking.”

These men’s stories are raw, heartfelt and gut-wrenching. They talk about the horrors they experienced both in the heat of battle and in its bloody aftermath.

Over the next week, we will profile 21 great Americans that have made the journey back to Vietnam to remember and honor the 46 fallen comrades that made the ultimate sacrifice.

We will never forget our Vietnam Veterans.
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United States Government refuses to add sailors' names to Vietnam MemorialThe Pentagon has refused a long-standing reque...
23/05/2017

United States Government refuses to add sailors' names to Vietnam Memorial

The Pentagon has refused a long-standing request to add the names of 74 US sailors who died in a 1969 ship collision to the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The USS Frank E. Evans was participating in a nighttime training exercise in the South China Sea when it turned into the path of an Australian aircraft carrier and was split in half. The World War II-era destroyer's stern section stayed afloat while the bow section sank.

Survivors and relatives of those killed have been pushing the Department of Defense for years to add the 74 names to the wall because the ship had supported ground operations in Vietnam just weeks earlier and likely would've been sent back to the war zone after the exercise.

But Pentagon officials in a decision this month stuck to their position that the Evans victims are precluded from being added to the wall because the accident occurred outside the Vietnam combat zone.

It was a decision that angered retired Navy Master Chief Lawrence Reilly Sr., an Evans survivor whose 20-year-old son, also named Lawrence, was among those killed.

'I'm not happy with the whole thing,' the 92-year-old WWII and Vietnam veteran said from his Syracuse home. 'It's a bad deal.'

Instead of granting an exemption to the war zone rule, the Pentagon has offered to pay tribute to the fallen sailors by listing their names on a memorial plaque to be placed inside the education center to be built near the wall. But with less than half of the $130 million cost of the center raised so far, the offer is being dismissed by some Evans survivors.

'They're throwing us a bone,' said Steve Kraus, a survivor and vice president of the USS Frank E. Evans Association. 'They're thinking, "OK, maybe this will all go away now."'

Kraus, a 70-year-old retired utility supervisor from Carlsbad, California, said some in the Evans association reluctantly accepted the Pentagon's offer of a separate memorial, while others advocate continuing the fight for inclusion on the wall. Randy Henderson, of Mayville, New York, is among the latter faction. He was 13 when his older brother Randy died on the Evans.

The Pentagon's latest rejection came after the Evans survivors pinned their hopes on Navy records that the group said showed the ship had been awarded a Vietnam Service Medal for June 2, 1969, a day before the accident. The medal was only given to ships and sailors who served in the Vietnam combat zone.

But the Navy's review of its records last fall determined there was no documentation to support such a claim.

The Evans sailors 'do not meet the established criteria for the inscription of their names on the wall,' Navy Lt. Cmdr. Courtney Hillson, a Pentagon spokeswoman, said. 'The deputy secretary of defense extensively reviewed information and records to make an informed decision.'

The Evans veterans say the Pentagon has previously granted exceptions to the eligibility criteria for adding names to the memorial, including for dozens of Marines who were killed when the plane carrying them back to Vietnam from leave in Hong Kong crashed during takeoff.

The Evans group's effort has the backing of U.S. Senate Minority Leader Charles Schumer, the New York Democrat who got involved two years ago on behalf of the four sailors from his state who died in the collision.

Also killed in the accident were the three Sage brothers — Gary, Gregory and Kelly — of Niobrara, Nebraska. Their mother, Eunice Sage, wanted to see her sons' names placed on the memorial, Kraus said. She died in 2010.

'She wanted this so bad,' Kraus said. 'That's all she would talk about.'

Remember our Vietnam Veterans
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The Boys of 67 - Mobile River Forces Remember our Vietnam Veterans The War Without Heroes Initiative
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The Boys of 67 - Mobile River Forces

Remember our Vietnam Veterans
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Badass snipers in Vietnam.
20/04/2017

Badass snipers in Vietnam.

Easter Service in Vietnam.
20/04/2017

Easter Service in Vietnam.

WE REMEMBER - 04 Apr 1968, Near Khe Sanh, South Vietnam --- 4/4/1968-Near Khe Sanh, South Vietnam- First cavalry men, ma...
04/04/2017

WE REMEMBER - 04 Apr 1968, Near Khe Sanh, South Vietnam --- 4/4/1968-Near Khe Sanh, South Vietnam- First cavalry men, many with head wounds, wait to be evacuated from a hilltop along route #9, during their advance toward Khe Sanh. They are shown close-up, smoking.



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VIETNAM VETERANS TO BE RECOGNIZED.War Without Heroes Initiative would like to recognize our esteemed Vietnam Veterans fo...
27/03/2017

VIETNAM VETERANS TO BE RECOGNIZED.
War Without Heroes Initiative would like to recognize our esteemed Vietnam Veterans for an upcoming veterans project to pay homage to all who served in the Vietnam War.

If you'd like to take part, email both a current photo and a photo from your time in service and short biography to [email protected] by Friday March, 31 along with the your name, contact information, branch and years of service. You name an photo will be featured in various publications commemorating your service to our freedom.



“We Will Never Forget You”
War Without Heroes Initiative - Vietnam War (1955-1975)

We Gotta Get Out Of This Place - Vietnam War Veterans' Music VideoThis version of the "We Gotta Get Out of This Place" m...
05/03/2017

We Gotta Get Out Of This Place - Vietnam War Veterans' Music Video

This version of the "We Gotta Get Out of This Place" music video was created by Patriots Point Naval & Maritime Museum as part of its ongoing effort to commemorate the 50th anniversary of the Vietnam War. The men who are featured in the video are all Vietnam Veterans who have helped to build the exhibit. "We Gotta Get Out of This Place" was one of the most requested songs by United States Armed Forces members stationed in South Vietnam during the war.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aFU9_dICQtk

This version of the "We Gotta Get Out of This Place" music video was created by Patriots Point Naval & Maritime Museum as part of its ongoing effort to comme...

AMERICA REMEMBERS: Lt. Gen. Hal Moore dies at 94; depicted in film 'We Were Soldiers'Friends,Retired Lt. Gen. Harold G. ...
12/02/2017

AMERICA REMEMBERS: Lt. Gen. Hal Moore dies at 94; depicted in film 'We Were Soldiers'

Friends,

Retired Lt. Gen. Harold G. "Hal" Moore, the American hero known for saving most of his men in the first major battle between the U.S. and North Vietnamese armies, has died. He was 94.

Joseph Galloway, who with Moore co-authored the book "We Were Soldiers Once ... and Young," confirmed that Moore died late Friday in his sleep at his home in Auburn, Alabama.

Galloway said Moore, his friend of 51 years, died two days shy of his 95th birthday.

"There's something missing on this earth now. We've lost a great warrior, a great soldier, a great human being and my best friend. They don't make them like him anymore," Galloway said.

Moore was best known for his actions at the 1965 Battle of Ia Drang, where he was a lieutenant colonel in command of the 1st Battalion, 7th Cavalry Regiment. His actions were later reflected in the movie "We Were Soldiers" in which actor Mel Gibson portrayed Moore. The book tells what happened to virtually every trooper involved in the 34-day campaign and the climactic four-day battle in which 234 Americans died at landing zones X-Ray and Albany in November 1965.

Galloway, a former war correspondent for United Press International, said Moore was "without question, one of the finest commanders I ever saw in action."

"Those of us who survived Landing Zone X-Ray survived because of his brilliance of command. I think every one of us thought we were going to die at that place except Hal Moore. He was certain we were going to win that fight and he was right," Galloway recalled.

Galloway and Moore wrote a second book, "We Are Soldiers Still," which he said grew out of a journey back to the battlefields of Vietnam 25 years later. "We went back and walked those old battlefields. At the end of the day, Hal Moore and Col. Nguyen Huu An, the North Vietnamese commander, stood in a circle in the clearing and prayed for the souls of every man who died on both sides."

He said the two shared an "instant brotherhood that grew out of combat."

"When we were discussing the book contract with a lawyer/agent, he asked to see the contract between me and Hal Moore, and Hal Moore said 'I don't think you understand. This isn't just a matter of money. We have trusted each other with our lives in battle and we have no contract before that.' I absolutely agreed."

On a page managed by Moore's family, relatives said he died on the birthday of his wife, Julia, who died in 2004 after 55 years of marriage.

"Mom called Dad home on her day," the statement said. "After having a stroke last week, Dad was more lethargic and had difficulty speaking, but he had always fought his way back."

Before serving in Vietnam, Moore graduated from the United States Military Academy at West Point and then commanded a battalion in the newly formed air mobile 11th Air Assault Division at Fort Benning.

Born in Bardstown, Kentucky, he served in the U.S. military for 32 years.

Galloway said the family has tentatively scheduled a religious service Friday in Auburn and a memorial service at the National Infantry Museum at Fort Benning Army Base in Columbus, Georgia.



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War Without Heroes Initiative - Vietnam War (1955-1975)

For this week’s Veterans page, I chose to interview a very interesting and delightful fellow. Meet Chaplain Amos E. Clem...
20/01/2017

For this week’s Veterans page, I chose to interview a very interesting and delightful fellow. Meet Chaplain Amos E. Clemmons, retired Colonel – US Army. We must have talked for over 5 hours exchanging life’s experiences hence we managed only part of his interview. This will be Chapter I.

Along Came Ernestene
Amos was born on September 25, 1939 in Great Falls, Montana, but his Father landed a job in Seattle, Washington, after WWII began so Amos spent his early years there. After the war, his family returned to Montana settling in Polson adjacent to Flathead Lake and he graduated from Polson Public High School in 1957. Afterwards, Amos moved to Los Angeles to pursue his theology career hence he attended LA’s Baptist Theological Seminary. While attending college he worked for Bullock’s Department Store and Sears, Roebuck and Company, but more importantly, he met the love of his life, Ernestene James.

Short Sheeted
A dorm housemother assigned Ernestene and several young ladies to make beds and prepare college dorm rooms for newly arriving male students, so they decided it was prudent to short sheet one bed. Turns out, that bed would be Amos’ bed so on his very first night he became the brunt of their monkey business. Everyone laughed about the prank but who exactly committed this caper was kept under wraps. Later, when Amos and Ernestene met in the dining hall he was instantly attracted to her and they began dating which led her to confessing that she was the short sheet ring leader. As their relationship blossomed, Amos proposed to Ernestene leading him to seek her Father’s permission for her hand in marriage. Ernestene said yes but with one caveat, she did not want a wedding ring, which did not deter Amos. They planned to announce their engagement as a surprise during a Friday the 13th Party and Amos surprised her with a ring. I reckon that was a short sheet payback. Amos said, “I purchased your ring at Sears on a time loan and figuring the cost at four dollars per year, so if we stay married 50 years that will cover it”.

Really Quiet Neighbors
On December 17, 1960, Amos and Ernestene were married at Pasadena’s Chapel of the Roses and they promptly moved into a $45 per month furnished apartment in Glendale right next to Forrest Lawn Memorial Park. Amos said, “Our neighbors were really quiet”. They lived there eight months but when LA Baptist Theological Seminary moved to Newhall, they moved to 27206 Marchland Avenue in Saugus (now Canyon Country). Amos made a down payment of $295 towards their $12,995 brand new home. Life was wonderful for Amos and Ernestene, especially when Amos graduated with his Masters of Divinity Degree in June 1964.

Garage Church
Realizing that they relocated to a bedroom community with young families being so prominent and believing a new church was required, they began conducting Sunday services in their very own garage with about twenty parishioners. The First Baptist Church of Saugus began on November 19, 1961 under the leadership of Amos Clemmons. Soon, they outgrew their garage so they began using a school for Sunday services on Soledad, where Edwards Theater now sits. Meanwhile, they purchased 5 acres in Sand Canyon intending to build their new church however building requirements rendered that option far too expensive. This led to pursuing a property swap, of which Ernestene participated and helped consummate a fine deal on Luther Drive in Saugus. She participated with other Church members in the ground breaking ceremony because Amos had received word on May 4, 1966 from a United States Army recruiter informing him that he was enlisted.

Silent Treatment
Amos had spent much time and effort for several months applying with the Army to become a Chaplain. Never-the-less when Amos informed Ernestene that he would soon leave for the Army, she was so outraged that she refused to speak to him for four days. You see, their second daughter would be born just days later on May 12th, so Ernestene had much on her mind raising a three year old and now a new born baby. Amos was dedicated to his family and to ensure that he could adequately provide for them was his premise for beginning the arduous process of becoming an Army Chaplain. Once Ernestene wrapped her mind around this momentous decision, she embraced it fully. On July 5, 1966, Amos reported to Fort Hamilton in Brooklyn, New York for Chaplain Officer Basic Training. Training included military orientation, physical training, field training and bivouac, live fire drills (crawling under machine gun fire), and night navigation.

Stockade Chaplain
Following Basic Training, Amos came home for a two week leave absence when he drove his family in their 1963 Volkswagon to Fort Bliss, Texas, where he became Stockade Chaplain. Soon, Amos began serving the prisoners and he listened intently to their pleas for him to get them out of there because they were wrongly accused. As a rookie Chaplain he felt sorry for them and he sought justice, until he read their files and learned of their transgressions. Most of these men would do anything to evade military service. Later, Amos was ordered to McGregor Guided Missile Range, New Mexico where he served until August 1967 at which time he was ordered to South Vietnam.

On August 18, 1967, Amos flew aboard a Boeing 707 to Oahu, then Guam, then Clarke Air Force Base, Manila before landing at Saigon’s Tan Son Nhat Airport. However, there was one unnerving hiccup in route. Soon after lift off out of Oahu, due to mechanical issues the pilot returned to Oahu where they were delayed for several hours.

Big Red One
Once in-country, Amos was assigned to the 1st Infantry Division nicknamed The Big Red One and he reported to Lai Khe Base Camp near Bien Hoa.

Part II Coming Next Week
Bill Reynolds is one of the “Boys of ‘67,” Charlie Company, 4th/47th, 9th Infantry Division and writer of veterans affairs for War Without Heroes.



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What I Learned About Patriotism From My Dad, A Vietnam War Draftee.When my father was 22 years old, he was drafted into ...
12/11/2016

What I Learned About Patriotism From My Dad, A Vietnam War Draftee.

When my father was 22 years old, he was drafted into the United States military. The year was 1968, the Vietnam War was in full swing, and he was a recent college graduate with a wife and newborn baby.

My dad did not want to go to Vietnam for many reasons, which were obvious at the time but may be less apparent to people my age.

Vietnam was one of the longest and most unpopular wars in American history. The death toll reached over 58,000 U.S. military casualties by the conflict’s end. Servicemen were reportedly committing senseless acts of violence against civilians. Anti-war protests were rampant, and anti-war sentiment was not limited to fringe left-wing communities.

But this was the era of the draft, so how a soldier felt about participating in the war didn’t really matter.

“I didn’t have a choice,” my dad told me this week when I asked about his military experience. “I was just another draftee. It was something I had to do. Something a lot of us had to do.”

On Veterans Day, we honor soldiers who pledged to give their lives in the service of their country. But I think living in this age of military worship, my generation can’t fathom the experience of being a veteran who didn’t want anything to do with the fight and received nothing but disdain from the public. These are the veterans for whom the notions of patriotism and service are a very complicated.

But they are veterans nonetheless, and their stories deserve to be told.

My dad generally doesn’t like to talk about his time in the military, though I’ve managed to glean a fair amount of details from the occasional long conversation, sometimes prompted by a few Pimm’s cups. His reflections are extremely matter of fact. There’s no fanfare, no sense of nostalgia, no evocations of glory.

“I think I made the best of it,” he says.

His service took him to Fort Polk in Louisiana, Fort Leonard Wood in Missouri, Fort Belvoir in Virginia, Fort Benjamin Harrison in Indiana, Fort Hamilton in New York and Cam Ranh Bay in Vietnam. After basic training and advanced individual training, he qualified for Officer Candidate School, where he learned to “square” his meals and engineer roads and bridges.

He ultimately accepted a post as a personnel officer and rose the to the rank of a first lieutenant. The job involved lots and lots of paperwork, a responsibility that would prepare him well for his future career as an attorney.

“I had no desire to be involved in the military at its core level: People with guns shooting each other,” he told me.

As an army HR guy, my dad had to meet with soldiers reporting they were gay and seeking a general discharge. They shared letters from alleged lovers with intimate descriptions of their romantic encounters. “I was the butch, and he was the fluff,” read one letter which has always stayed in his mind.

Some claims were probably bogus, others were probably true. It was hard to tell, and it ultimately wasn’t up to him to make the call.

My dad was also responsible for signing endless honorable discharge papers ― the DD Form 214. While serving at Fort Polk, he signed hundreds if not thousands of those forms over the course of six months, officially granting soldiers the opportunity to go home to their families.

“It’s actually kind of a nice thing to think about,” he said. “That this paper which brought so much happiness to people had my signature on it.”

But there were sobering parts, too. While working stateside, he had to issue death notices. He would accompany the chaplain to the homes of deceased soldiers’ families ― to deliver the devastating news, help them obtain their meager life insurance benefits and offer to facilitate a military funeral. Most families he met didn’t want military funerals, especially not If the soldier had been drafted.

When I ask my dad if his veteran status makes him proud, he has a complicated answer. He said he’s never been able to say he was “proud” of his military service. But he doesn’t feel shame either. I think he just never really had the option to feel anything about it.

“I’m a Vietnam-era veteran. I was there because my country ordered me to be there, and I didn’t have any real choices,” he says. “That’s it.”

It’s hard for young people today to understand the way soldiers were treated at home at that time. In direct contrast to the words of honor and praise from strangers, acts of kindness and emotional homecoming videos that are part of the military experience today, soldiers during the Vietnam War were treated with disdain.

There were never any parades, never any “welcome home” parties, never any words of gratitude. The country had turned against the war, and by extension, against the people who had served in the military ― even those who didn’t want to be there.

“Back then, being in the military was tantamount to being considered a murderer,” my dad explained. “People treated you like you were some kind of killer. You were not respected. Nobody liked you. This was frustrating because you weren’t in the military voluntarily but on top of that, you were considered a bad person for being there.”

When his draft day arrived, my dad’s wife suggested they move to Canada, but he said he didn’t want to have to explain that decision to his children. Something about that has always felt both honorable and heartbreaking to me.

But if you call my dad a hero, he’ll probably chuckle a bit. Because no one ever made him feel like one. And he’s not even sure he would have wanted them to.

My father never speaks ill of the United States military. He says his time serving instilled in him a strong work ethic and sense of discipline. He respects and admires people who choose to dedicate their entire careers to the notion of serving their country.

And though he does not look fondly on his time in the military, he is more proud to be an American than anyone I know. But it’s a quiet, simple pride. His knowledge and love for U.S. history and the principles of freedom upon which our nation was founded is unmatched by anyone I know.

As we honor Veterans Day, we shouldn’t forget the other veterans ― the ones who didn’t have the choice, who were made to feel nothing and still feel nothing.

“No one ever told me ‘thank you for your service’ while I was in the military,” my dad said. “And I don’t blame them. Why would they say, ‘Thank you for your service in one of worst wars ever thought of.’ If someone had said it to me then, I think I would have fainted,” he joked.

“Still,” he added. “In spite of everything, I guess it might have been nice to hear.”



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