23/03/2018
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As all golfers will agree, our game can be a frustrating sport with occasional highs but all-too-frequent, frustrating lows. It sometimes seems the enjoyment part is all too short lived. Then, of course, one needs to have a level of athletic ability plus the right level of mental focus. And just to make things even more challenging, there’s hardly any room for error! But we keep coming back!
And us weekend warriors are all too familiar with this. We climb onto the first tee hoping not to make a complete mess of things in front of the starter, friends and Mr. Captain. We clear our mind (as if!), say a little prayer and let rip.
Unfortunately, on the occasions when the miracle happens and we do belt one right down the middle, we all know what’s coming next. The next one is hit fat, the third one thinned and we three putt the green. The perfect start to the round! This is the average golfing hacker in a nutshell.
OK, so with that in mind, other than giving up the game or selling our soul for a better swing, is there anything we can do to fix this? Of course there is. We take a lesson; we spend hours on the driving range; buy the new equipment and in desperation even lash out a few quid on the latest swing gadget or gizmo. All great (or not so great) ideas that could help trim a few points from the (seemingly ever increasing) handicap (or millstone if you prefer).
But here’s the rub. All of those things take time, effort and money. Most of us have other demands on our time and (most certainly) any spare cash. For most of us, golf is what we do when we are able to escape our normal lives to spend a few precious hours on the course.
So, with that in mind and having managed to get the time, the cash and golfing mates together, the issues are just about to start. As we agree, it’s so difficult to even get onto the first tee, just to have some fun, that to expect to play – not like a pro, but maybe at a level to beat our own handicap, seems a bit over ambitious , don’t you think?
And now despite us knowing it, it seem even more ridiculous that we’re actually out there getting more and more frustrated, doesn’t it? What sort of masochists are we weekend golfers anyway?
Shouldn’t we be enjoying golf to its fullest, regardless of how we play? Not getting frustrated that we didn’t hit a green in regulation or pull off that near impossible recovery shot/bunker shot/chip etc. And therein lies our tip for today. It’s perhaps the most cost-effective and time-conscious thing you can do to enjoy yourself more out on the course and it’s something we were advised to do some years ago.
It is to simply forget about your scorecard.
Now although it was claimed to be cost-effective and time-conscious, it wasn’t claimed to be easy. But if you try, it can really change your attitude out there.
Play a few rounds without keeping score (no keeping score in your head either). Go out to play and simply have fun. Don’t bet on your round. Just go and enjoy being outdoors on a beautiful day with good friends playing the game you love. Appreciate the exercise; take-in the scenery; embrace the friendship. Bad shots will still happen, but that’s normal – after all, you’re a recreational golfer, not a scratch golfer. And isn’t it why you took up golf in the first place?
Simply relax and enjoy.
Now while it’s quite possible this attitude will actually help you cut a few strokes off your game, that’s not the point. The point is just getting out and playing golf should always be the focus. Your score is a by-product. Until you stop working and dedicate 6 hours a day on the driving range, just being out on the course will be all that really matters.
Golf is not our job. It’s our hobby; our passion; our release. It’s why we set-aside those few precious hours to play once a week (if we’re lucky).
We’ve all said it over and over: Golf is a game; you should have fun playing it. We need to remember it. Write it on your glove; your ball; your club-head cover; where ever it takes to remember why you play.
And finally, once we’ve learned that enjoying ourselves is all that really matters for weekend warriors like us, our scorecards can become relevant again. And hopefully by then, writing down that double-bogey – while still disappointing – won’t be nearly as devastating as it used to be.
Come back soon for more golf related chatter.