20/09/2024
Beware, long testimony. I wasn't planning on it, but it so happened while typing, lol.
I recently had a 7-day booking and the refrigerator broke down midway. Despite feeling stressed, I maintained good customer service and provided a freezer chest until I could replace the old fridge. The guests were understanding and left a 5-star review. While some guests can be pleasant and understanding, the stress of expecting challenging guests continues to haunt me as the new bnb era takes over.
I believe that embracing the new norm of bnb (which runs more like a business vs personal exploration experiences) requires a strong heart and mind to handle unreasonable requests, entitlement, and on top of that, the ever-growing scammers. How am I handling this then? Besides just doing my best, I am just leaving the rest to my omnipresent God. I am grateful for the protection and provision that has been bestowed upon me, but I've resolved in my mind and pray that if He granted me this work, then He shall continue to bless and provide resolutions to all challenges that may arise. If this work is ever taken away, I know that He will bring something even better into my life.
In regards to that last sentence, a business life is a long fluctuating life if you don't have a mentor to help set you up for immediate success. At the same time, the spiritual dependence on God does grow stronger. I truly don't think anyone understand how to maintain humbleness before God until you've really lost so many battles thru your own strength. Many people think my years of different business venture losses is because of my fluctuating marital relationship, and honestly I thought the same, and I built up a lot of resentment against my partner. But I'm not one to go around telling the entire village about my marital issues, just speaking from an angle every married couple can agree and understand that it's a problem and growth of its own because not one single married couple have not at least gone thru hell before. But I personally think it's all God's doing. He's the God that gives and takes away, and looks like He hasn't taken my husband away yet, lol. The point is, now I see that God did that in order to mold my heart in order to have the right kind of relationship with God.
For example, from my observation, it is particularly right after this summer, that sooo many hosts with prestine homes and locations are asking for help because they're hardly getting any bookings (fb group). I've looked at their calendars and in comparison, my humble home have a lot more booking than they do. Perhaps they're in a saturated area, but they have claimed it's particularly just this year that they are struggling the most, and these are long-term Superhosts. It does not feel like a struck of luck either. I can't help but to feel like a child and my Father in Heaven is simply taking care of me. Bigger heights and challenges awaits us in the coming future, but I truly don't think God will provide if I didn't understand how to just be humble and trust Him, and stop relying on my own strength. Easier said than done, but this is probably the Only thing that gives me peace thru this business venture.