07/07/2023
Salty kisses and sandy toes
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Eva turned 5 months old, two years ago, down the Shore, where I grew up. She got her ears pierced and rode the Ferris wheel, Angel played mini golf for the first time, and we made great memories with the family.
We usually prioritized a really good first nap. We’d walk her in the stroller to sleep or we would leave her in the apartment with my mom and use the time to get out ourselves. After the nap, we would hit the beach and her second nap was often under the umbrella. Stroller fans and a misting water bottle were lifesavers for heat and humidity. She was exclusively breastfeeding, so milk was always ready on demand.
Because we flew standby, we arrived a couple days early to NYC before the rental was available in Ocean City. For the jet lag, we just cut the time difference in half the first day (3 hours instead of 6; so her 8pm bedtime became 5pm, which meant a 5am wake up the next day). The second day, with an early morning, meant one extra nap, and then her regular bedtime at 8ish and we were good to go.
South Jersey (where locations are identified by miles on the Garden State Parkway, not the Turnpike) is a great place for a young family, but it’s hard to get to when traveling internationally (2ish hours bus from NYC to Atlantic City and another half hour to Ocean City or nearly an hour to Stone Harbor, depending on traffic). All summer places rent Saturday to Saturday. Arrive super early to beat the traffic and take yourself out for lunch and order the pork roll (a Philadelphia classic) for your breakfast meat with eggs.
Rent a surrey and eat Johnson’s popcorn in Ocean City. Ride the rides. Just don’t go too deep in the ocean or the lifeguards will blow their whistle. Head further south to Stone Harbor for more space between your beach blankets and safe roads to bicycle like you’d imagine from an old American film. Further south, Wildwood is a must on Mondays to see the Soul Cruisers, a 1970s cover band. The amusement park there is also a thrill for kids and adults (recommended over age 8 to enjoy it fully). And the southernmost point is Cape May (continued in comments)