13/03/2025
Note from Amanda: I don’t post much on social media about social and political issues. Not because I don’t care (I’m plenty involved in the real world), but because it isn’t the best space for thoughtful, nuanced, and compassionate discourse. I’m either preaching to the choir or inviting ego and ignorance to dance.
I’ve spent my entire life striving to understand different points of view. Of course, this is a huge part of my professional work and something I enjoy in all areas of life. I’ve always been very curious and genuinely interested in others because I value learning and love connecting with different people. This has given me a strong knowledge base, beliefs, and ideas that I think are becoming more important to share. And, flawed as it is, social media and the Internet as a whole are the best we have to reach more people (if the algorithm allows it).
Diversity is vital for life to thrive (biologically and socially). If someone respectfully shares differing ideas that are thoughtful and backed by legit, observable evidence, I take them into consideration. Unfortunately, as our society becomes less informed and more divided, I find many are not as willing to be curious, thoughtful, and open, so connection and communication become nearly impossible. I know I’m not the only one left unheard, misunderstood, and disrespected. It’s becoming increasingly difficult to interact with those who are unwilling to listen, pause and reflect, learn, grow, and connect with others.
Yet, it’s necessary because whether we like it or not, we’re all in this together. And things certainly don’t seem to be going so well at the moment. Sure, some people have zero empathy (unfortunately, many of them are in power, which is par for the course based on the overly individualistic and consumerist values our society currently embodies), but I still believe most people are doing the best they can, given their life experiences, and deep down, mean well, even when uninformed and misguided.
The truth is, we could all benefit from slowing down, pausing, growing our ability to be present, aware, and curious, and connect with others thoughtfully and compassionately. I realize this is difficult to do with so much fear and anger swirling about, but, while fear and anger might start a revolution, they don’t sustain change for the long haul. So, we have to try something different.
We have to become more aware in the present moment, more mindful. Being more present has been incredibly valuable to my life, and is central to connecting us and increasing the wisdom our society so desperately needs. It’s by no means easy to practice, especially with so many distractions and the “move fast and break things” mentality in our modern society. But that’s why it’s called practice!
In an attempt to do what I can with what I have, I’m sharing more about my experience and what I know about incorporating mindfulness, nature, movement, and creativity into real life. In particular, at the beginning of the year, I started writing a weekly email reminder to be more present, called “A Mindful Minute.” If you think you could benefit from such a reminder, please sign up for it at https://fundamentalgrowth.com/ (or send me your email and I can add you myself) and share it with others. I’ll send it out nearly every Sunday and take up only one minute of your time with a thought, practice, or resource to try out for the next week. My website also has more resources that might be useful, including a blog and links to YouTube and other social media, which I’m aiming to update more often, as well as opportunities to connect and be present in real life. Mindfulness may not solve everything in and of itself, but it’s a great foundation and it can’t hurt to give it a shot.
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