22/03/2024
I don't share thing on social media often. Or let me say - I haven't done so because I had a misperception about FB and a lot of other things in my life the past few years.
I would like to take the opportunity to share a few things with people because I want MEN to know and realize the following:
So to anyone who has come to know me in the past or present, listen up:
1) It does NOT mean you are weak or pathetic if you are a MAN and you sometimes don't know how to be a man. MEN are allowed to struggle with making decisions and not always being the strong individuals society EXPECTS them to be.
2) Do not ever choose or stay with a partner that does not encourage you to do the RIGHT things in life, weather its the nice or convenient thing to do or not. A partner that is honest, will by default do honest things and encourage honest behavior. Do not only raise eyebrows when a partner (or anyone that claims to care for you) encourages lies, ill talk and condemning - WALK AWAY from people like that. They will consume your livelihood and you will end up being someone you are not proud of.
3) DO NOT apologize or feel guilty in ANY way, for falling in love with the person that fills your heart, mind, body and soul.
4) DO NOT allow anyone to make you believe that you are lesser than what you know you are worth, just because they THINK they know you and need validation themselves.
5) Speak your mind. Weather people disagree with you or not. You don't have to be rude in doing so, but you do not have to keep to yourself in the fear that people might not like what you say/feel.
6) You can spend a lifetime with a person, but 5 minutes with the RIGHT person, can change your whole perspective of life. Listen, observe and choose wisely.
7) Be PROUD of who you are, where you come from, your culture, your nationality, your heritage and how you were raised.
8) Give credit to those people who support you through all walks of life
9) DISTANCE yourself from anyone who keeps you from your family and friends
10) And last but not least: When you've met the person who's DEEDS show that they're a good hearted soul - Cherish her. Because some woman might come disguised as good people, but their actions, morals and values speak differently. Like they say in MY PROUD AFRIKAANS TAAL: `n Goeie vrou bly `n goeie vrou. `n sleg vrou maak jou sleg totdat jy glo wat sleg is, is goed.
