24/08/2023
How To Know If A Relationship Is From God.
1. You have peace about it.
For some reason in my dating days, I didn't put much emphasis on what was important the most - good qualities and attributes. For me, the pursuit of a relationship was driven by beauty, big b***s, the sexy body and the perfect curves in the right places and not forgetting the hair. I had a thing for hair, I still do. I prefer a woman who shares my shaving blade.
But now that I'm much wiser, what I look for in a woman, is self love, self assurance, a depth in how she sees life in general. I look for a woman who is in peace with herself and the world around her. I look for a woman who is in peace with her God. I have come to value laughter more than the perfect curves in the right places. There's nothing sexier than a woman who can crack a joke. A woman who knows who to laugh with you will be your soldier in the long run.
You see this woman, is not embroiled in inner conflict, therefore she will live from peace. She has dealt with her insecurities. This is a woman who will not question my love for her because she has grown to love herself. She will not find validation in our relationship but through her strength, she will validate our love for each other.
I have come to realize that God rarely puts a thousand thoughts on the things we think are a must, but He puts much value on peace. If couples are at peace, they can achieve a great deal together. You see, a relationship that God approves of, will be driven by peace, not egos, but peace. Where peace rules, purpose can be achieved.
I regret being hypnotized by society into believing that beauty, big b***s, the sexy body and the right curves in the right places and not forgetting the hair are what make a woman to partner with.
A woman to partner with is a woman who lives from peace. When looking for a woman, look for peace.
Love God and love your partner.
