25/06/2025
OMG my head is spinning, and I need to record and share what happened in a session today!
Horses really do respond in the moment to what clients are holding energetically. I know this, but I admit, I am always amazed when I see it happen!
Last week, my client worked on feelings of rejection. During that session Bambi, our newest addition was not accepted into the herd and stood alone and away from the herd – looking like rejection.
This week, the client recalled a time when he didn’t feel safe. He was at a party where he didn’t know people, and they were intimidating him. As we revisited that event from a place of safety, he put a different ending on that story – driven by his body’s impulse to create safety and acceptance. Bambi was smack in the middle of the herd standing peacefully –all huddled together in a corner for weather protection! (This was a first!)
Then we addressed the client’s core wound – according to him: his father’s brutal treatment of him that left him – to this day, feeling undeserving, unworthy. As he felt into the pain of his father’s harsh treatment, a strong feeling of injustice and anger emerged, and he was able to restore a boundary through movement and saying what had been bottled up for decades. Just as we were debriefing, Bambi and another horse, Opal took each other on in a full, aggressive kick-fest. Neither was backing down. (I broke up the fight – with a pool noodle) and chased the herd out of the arena (so they could have more space). Bambi left with them (rather than staying behind like she has done all week).
The client recognized that Bambi was him! Last week she showed rejection, then today acceptance and safety, finishing with standing up to a bully.
Decades of compressed energy patterns of unworthiness, rejection, anger, and feeling unsafe unraveled in the space of 2 sessions. Working with clients and horses this way often leaves me sitting in a feeling of WTF just happened – in a good way! LOL!