Social Paws

Social Paws Helen Motteram BSc (Hons) pet behaviourist and Tristan Motteram IMDT accredited dog trainer and coach. Dogs ๐Ÿถ Cats ๐Ÿฑ Birds ๐Ÿฆโ€โฌ› Training for excitable dogs!

Specialising with anxious/shy or rescue dogs.

1-2-1 training and behavioural support in Cheltenham & Gloucestershire. Behavioural support specialising in anxious, nervous dogs. Puppy training and socialisation (1-2-1). Free discovery call on request

Manager and founder: Helen Motteram
Contact: [email protected]
Website: www.socialpawscheltenham.co.uk

Today I did some training and behavioural therapy with Teasel & Willow โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿพ๐ŸพTeasel was all about introducing her to the...
21/01/2025

Today I did some training and behavioural therapy with Teasel & Willow โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

Teasel was all about introducing her to the big wide world.

Willow helping her be less frustrated and anxious around other dogs. Since losing Bramble she appears more anxious on lead, Bramble was her 'wingdog'.

Teasel did amazingly well with a bounce in her step and Willow was great too.

Check the comments for our brand new website and how you can get the best support!

What we do to help you and your dog (plus we love our bird and cat friends too ๐Ÿฑ๐Ÿฆ)I'm Helen, my partner in crime is Tris...
19/01/2025

What we do to help you and your dog (plus we love our bird and cat friends too ๐Ÿฑ๐Ÿฆ)

I'm Helen, my partner in crime is Tristan ๐Ÿ˜ We help your anxious or frustrated dog become calm or confident.

Your rescue pet settle into their new home.

Help your feline friend feel comfortable around Fido.

That is a WIN, WIN as you can enjoy your walks more or invite visitors around again and have a stress free multi pet household!

We give you a 'helping hand' with a second pair of eyes, coaching and support.

We are both kind, ethical dog trainers. Yours truly (yes me Helen!) is a Pet Behaviourist.

This means we always look for consent from your dog, train with no force or fear (known as force free in our industry) and use a hands off approach until your dog is also confident around us.

We also get results, overtime. Real results.

We are honest. Open. Trustworthy.

We look at the underlying emotions.

We take in all factors - that includes most importantly any potential pain issues.

We don't judge you as a dog guardian.

We work at your own pace.

We don't force you or your dog to do something you feel uncomfortable with.

We help you with some simple accountability...

A soundboard when your having a hard day or need a few extra pointers.

Need support, just ping us an email on: [email protected]

'A family business, where kindness speaks volumes'

FUN FACT - we appeared on This Morning with our rescue bird Russell Crow and run our own bird Russell's Rescue.

Our most popular services:

Solo walks in Charlton Kings and Leckhampton
Behavioural support
Coaching and training walks

See comments โค๏ธ

On Fridays I always enjoy a nice cup of coffee in our local dog friendly cafe MooshCo ๐ŸพHighly recommend!
18/01/2025

On Fridays I always enjoy a nice cup of coffee in our local dog friendly cafe MooshCo ๐Ÿพ

Highly recommend!

"I'm NOT deliberately being naughty" ๐ŸพAnd it's sad to see so many of our Dog Guardians being judged or told they have a ...
16/01/2025

"I'm NOT deliberately being naughty" ๐Ÿพ

And it's sad to see so many of our Dog Guardians being judged or told they have a naughty or bad dog.

Fido's words...

I am not a bad dog; it is not my intention to make life difficult for others.

My barking and my lunging is a cry for help, but often I'm greatly misunderstood.

Help me to feel BETTER about the thing that scares me.

I'm desperate for a little more space, a little more time.

Shouting at me will only make me feel worse.

Shouting at my Guardian will only make them feel worse.

Remember - if you get too close, I probably will already be too anxious.

Going closer to the scary thing will only make me feel worse.

Can you give enough distance.

Watch my body language.

Am I tense?

Fixated?

Trying to avoid you or your dog?

This means you are too close.

Time, distance and lots of positive associations are the key to success.

It takes time, commitment and a special Dog Guardian...they are trying really hard!

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Help for the humans too...

Perhaps you are reading this and are struggling with the judgement and need an extra hand or two.

If you do need extra support - call on a professional; they will help you to get the right set ups and work out the distance needed. They will be your extra pair of eyes, your wingman.

If you need help or are based in Gloucestershire do get in touch:

[email protected]

'A family business, where kindness speaks volumes'

Helen and Tristan

As a pet behaviourist and dog trainer you'd think I have all the answers...You'd think I have the 'perfect pets'.Some ev...
14/01/2025

As a pet behaviourist and dog trainer you'd think I have all the answers...

You'd think I have the 'perfect pets'.

Some even call me a magician, but that's really not the case.

Growing up, my dog Sally was anxious with other dogs.

Joseph my rescue dog had canine compulsive disorder (like the dog equivalent to OCD in humans).

Sally...

We worked hard with Sally to improve her confidence and whilst some days were good, there were some days we really struggled to walk her.

Joseph...

He was a real sweetheart and an amazing companion, but the pacing broke my heart at times. His quality of life improved (especially for an older dog) but it did not come without challenges.

These amazing companions reminded me that sometimes they have a relapse.

Things can go backwards instead of forwards.

But the important thing to remember is sometimes we are too close to the issue.

We need a fresh pair of eyes.

But some days are a real struggle.

But please try to remain patient, which I know how hard it can be when you feel deflated.
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So if you are reading this, feeling alone, want to give up there is always hope.

And I hope it gives you some reassurance that even us professionals pets aren't perfect.

We aren't here to judge you, we have some similar experiences. But we know each case is individual. We know your companions are individuals too.

Thanks for reading,
Helen

Today Bramble, one of the first dogs we walked and became friends with passed over the rainbow bridge ๐ŸŒˆBramble was alway...
10/01/2025

Today Bramble, one of the first dogs we walked and became friends with passed over the rainbow bridge ๐ŸŒˆ

Bramble was always part of the Social Paws family, helping dogs become more confident and teaching us so much.

10 years of spending our lives with such an amazing dog.

We went on adventures.

We had laughs and tears.

We all embraced life together.

From the typical bearded collies barking, to the over excitement.

But the way she gazed lovingly in our eyes.

We gave her her final kiss last night, she new it was time. It breaks all our hearts ๐Ÿ’”

Our thoughts go to Gail, her loyal human and our best human friend.

Once a client, now family and friend. Bramble gave us this special bond alongside Juniper.

Hope you are playing together at the Rainbow Bridge โค๏ธ

On Friday mornings I'm lucky enough to join a running group (dog friendly)We had a beautiful morning at Ravensgate Commo...
10/01/2025

On Friday mornings I'm lucky enough to join a running group (dog friendly)

We had a beautiful morning at Ravensgate Common ๐Ÿ•โค๏ธ

Following on from our blog of dog friendly Cafes and Pubs look at this tasty selection...Almost good enough for the huma...
08/01/2025

Following on from our blog of dog friendly Cafes and Pubs look at this tasty selection...

Almost good enough for the humans ;) but I'll just settle for a glass of wine๐Ÿท

The Merryfellow Charlton Kings

Dogs are always welcome at The Merryfellow ๐Ÿพ

Delicious treats are available to buy ๐Ÿ–ค please ask staff for more details!

Sir Woofchesters

Discover Dog Friendly Cafes and Pubs in Charlton Kings ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ๐ŸพA short guide to dog friendly spots, including some of our top...
08/01/2025

Discover Dog Friendly Cafes and Pubs in Charlton Kings ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

A short guide to dog friendly spots, including some of our top picks: MooshCo, The Merryfellow and The Royal.

A guide to the best dog friendly cafes and pubs in Charlton Kings, the perfect places to spend time with your best friend.

Shortly I'll be writing a mini blog about dog friendly places in Charlton Kings! ๐ŸถAs I'm here today here's a shout out f...
08/01/2025

Shortly I'll be writing a mini blog about dog friendly places in Charlton Kings! ๐Ÿถ

As I'm here today here's a shout out for the The Royal with Tina's Happy Hounds.

"An animal's eyes have the power to speak a great language." โ€• Martin Buber
07/01/2025

"An animal's eyes have the power to speak a great language." โ€• Martin Buber

TIPS TO HELP KEEP YOUR PETS SAFE DURING  NEW YEAR'S EVE ๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽ†New year's eve is seen as a time of celebration...But when it...
31/12/2024

TIPS TO HELP KEEP YOUR PETS SAFE DURING NEW YEAR'S EVE ๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽ†

New year's eve is seen as a time of celebration...

But when it comes to anxious dogs or pets in general FIREWORKS SUCK!

If you have a rescue dog or a dog who has experienced a recent trauma, they may be particularly sensitive, as too small animals and birds ๐Ÿ•๐Ÿค๐Ÿ

So here's a few tips to be prepared this weekend to help keep your best friend safe and calm:

1. Provide a safe place

If you have a quiet room, or crate your dog feels safe in, turn down the lights, provide them with their favourite blanket and help get them relaxed a few hours prior to the night drawing in. Remember if your dog does not want to be confined to one space leave the crate open and drape with a sheet or blanket.

Cats may benefit from a small desk to hide under and small animals may need to be brought in from their outside hutch.

2. Early walks

Some people think it's ok to let fireworks off before dark. It's advised not to take your dog for a walk after midday and remember if your dog has already experienced fireworks in a particular area going back to the same area may bring back the anxiety.

3. Keep inside

Make sure your dog has toileted earlier and where possible bring cats and small animals inside. Rabbits are particularly vulnerable. Get your cats in nice and early, settling them in and providing multiple litter trays.

4. Enrichment

Provide your pet with an alternative outlet to keep anxiety at bay. A nice filled Kong or puzzle game, perhaps a simple game of 'find it' throwing a tasty treat on the floor. Be prepared to spend more time with them and supervise.

5. Music

Music can help block out some of the noise and certain types have been proven to have a calming effect. You can also turn up the TV.

6. Reassure

It's ok to pet and reassure your dog. If you can stay in on fireworks night to keep your dog or pets company or have a friend or family member pet sit.

Further support

I always advise seeking further advice from a behaviourist working closely with a vet. They will work with you on a behavioural modification programme and in certain cases vets can recommend drugs/therapy/holistic remedies to help calm your dog.

Preparation/management and control is the key and remember fireworks can have an effect on your pet's behaviour for many days after.

Thanks for reading,
Helen Motteram, BSc

DOGS CAN CONTINUE TO FEEL TIRED, STRESSED AND CONFUSED EVEN AFTER THE FESTIVITIES โค๏ธ๐ŸถStress can soon tire the body and a...
28/12/2024

DOGS CAN CONTINUE TO FEEL TIRED, STRESSED AND CONFUSED EVEN AFTER THE FESTIVITIES โค๏ธ๐Ÿถ

Stress can soon tire the body and affect behaviour this can last for days...

I really enjoy Christmas - spending time with family and friends. But even I get tired, stressed and confused.

Now let's imagine our pet friends - boxes out, visitors, humans rushing around, all these tempting smells, all these new strange 'gifts' in the house ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ

The festivities may be ending, but for our dogs, in fact all our pets, the added stress, the excitement or the confusion can last for days.

๐Ÿพ Let's talk about stress

When Fidoโ€™s body is placed under stress Hormones are released called glucocorticoids and a โ€˜feedback loopโ€™ is created.

That means once the hormones are released and reach a particular concentration level, these hormones will โ€“ at the same time โ€“ stop the factors that stimulate its release, and this helps the body to regulate itself (Hanne, 2015).

However, when a dog is placed under prolonged stress, for example the hustle and bustle of the festive period this feedback loop can break down.

So what happens next?

When a dog is not given enough time to recover from the triggers or get away from what is causing the stress while the body may learn to โ€˜copeโ€™, at a certain point, the body will start to tire and exhaustion can set in (Hanne, 2015).

Just imagine how long the build up to Christmas lasts, for some families it starts at the end of November! Given the added stressful events - halloween, bonfire night. It all becomes far too much ๐Ÿ‘ปโš ๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฅ

A dog that faces prolonged periods of stress is likely to encounter various physiological and psychological problems.

Many which can result in behavioural issues, or a sudden change in character.

This can include:

โ€“ High blood pressure
โ€“ Chronic diarrhoea
โ€“ Frequent urination
(Often I get extra enquiries in January about this)
โ€“ Mood change including an increase in aggressive behaviours
โ€“ Interference with learning and memory (which often looks like a confused dog).

๐Ÿพ So let's talk about trigger stacking

I compare trigger stacking to a kettle, one which doesn't automatically switch off and then eventually has to boil over ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ

The interactions our dog has has had over the festive period including visitors, strange gifts, a change in routine may prolong stress.

Trigger stacking is defined as โ€˜Stress accumulating due to exposure of multiple triggers, either simultaneously or close enough in time that the dogโ€™s reactivity has not returned to normal' (Grisha Stewart, BAT 2.0).

This can have an effect on their behaviour especially on walks..

Your dog seems out of character? ๐Ÿค”

Pulling on lead when they are usually calm?

They've never once barked at next door neighbour's cat ๐Ÿฑ๐Ÿฑ๐Ÿฑ but today they did?

๐Ÿพ Let's talk about cortisol (a stress hormone)

Cortisol typically takes around 60 minutes to drop its level of concentration by half (Weirzman, et al). But when a dog is faced by lots of stimuli that he is sensitive to the negative feedback loop breaks down, cortisol continues to be released and up to four times as much cortisol as normal can be present.

This can take several days to dissipate. Way after the festivities have ended.

Go back to the boiling kettle analogy and consider what could be happening inside the dogโ€™s body and mind...

The events which he or she finds stressful in the same week as other stressors, what seems worrying behaviour is likely to escalate โ€“ making the period after Christmas a very confusing time.

๐Ÿพ What can you do to help?

Give your dog time to decompress, to calm down, shorter walks with minimal stressors. Increase enrichment inside instead and minimise visitors for the next few days.

Remember they aren't being naughty or bad, they are often just overwhelmed.

Manage the environment, prepare, a good routine and structure.

Just think how you feel. Bloated, tired, confused.

Now think about your dog.

Just slow things down for the next few days. Your dog will thank you.

Thanks for reading,
Helen Motteram BSc (Hons)

Today Tristan drove with Gail to pick up her new pup โค๏ธAs you may know we see Willow, Bramble and of course Gail as part...
27/12/2024

Today Tristan drove with Gail to pick up her new pup โค๏ธ

As you may know we see Willow, Bramble and of course Gail as part of the Social Paws family.

This new addition will be a warm welcome especially by Willow, who's playful and younger.

Gail is so proud ๐Ÿฅฐ

23/12/2024

5 years ago I started the festive season with an incredible opportunity!

I absolutely loved being on BBC Breakfast talking all about how to reduce pet stress at Christmas. Thanks to Rachel Spencer and all my blogging โค๏ธ

December the 21st - it's ok to cut a walk short Let's face it, sometimes things don't go to plan. Walks can become overw...
21/12/2024

December the 21st - it's ok to cut a walk short

Let's face it, sometimes things don't go to plan. Walks can become overwhelming, perhaps too many squirrels or the park is full with other dogs.

Don't give yourself or your best friend unnecessary stress, it's ok to just go home โค๏ธ

Helen & Tristan

'A family business, where kindness speaks volumes'

December the 20th - come rain, snow or shine make the walk about your best friend! It's like a dog's daily social media ...
20/12/2024

December the 20th - come rain, snow or shine make the walk about your best friend!

It's like a dog's daily social media and the act of sniffing I so fulfilling.

I always say who's walk is it anyway? Make sure it's enjoyable for both of you! โค๏ธ

So next time you see a lamppost, give your dog a few minutes to check their notifications ๐Ÿ•

Helen & Tristan,

'A family business, where kindness speaks volumes'

Ready for my Christmas lunch meet up! ๐Ÿถ๐ŸŽ…
19/12/2024

Ready for my Christmas lunch meet up! ๐Ÿถ๐ŸŽ…

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