Social Paws

Social Paws Helen Motteram BSc (Hons) pet behaviourist and Tristan Motteram IMDT accredited dog training. Behavioural support specialising in anxious, nervous dogs.
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Offering specialised, kind and effective training & behavioural therapy in Cheltenham & Gloucestershire. Puppy training and socialisation (1-2-1). Training for excitable dogs! Free discovery call on request

Manager and founder: Helen Motteram
Contact: [email protected]
Website: www.socialpawscheltenham.co.uk

National pet bird day! πŸ¦πŸ¦β€β¬›πŸ¦œDid you know we train birds too? That's right 'Social Paws & Claws' We also run a bird rescu...
17/09/2024

National pet bird day! πŸ¦πŸ¦β€β¬›πŸ¦œ

Did you know we train birds too? That's right 'Social Paws & Claws'

We also run a bird rescue centre and currently offer FREE advice to other rehabbers (and appreciate donations to our rescue ❀️ )

Russell's Rescue - Rescue and family.

Glen's Feathered Encounters - therapy and training.

Flock with Helen - advice for other pet pros, rehabbers and bird carers PLUS collaboration and community.

So let's celebrate our bird friends.

Here's some of our friends in the photos.

Collaboration and community
a big shout out to:

The Parrot Lady, Vale Vets Dursley, Madra Veterinary Clinic, Woodlands Vets, Medivet Cheltenham, Flappy Inky Feathers, Echo Trick Duck Excellent Adventures, Wings West, The Local Answer Magazine, Local Noticeboard, Wing and a Prayer.

Feel free to tag any bird friendly professionals in the comments too!

Happy heavenly birthday Nanny ❀️I'm sure you and Sally are having the best of times and looking down on us.You inspired ...
13/09/2024

Happy heavenly birthday Nanny ❀️

I'm sure you and Sally are having the best of times and looking down on us.

You inspired me so much and gave me the confidence to start my own business and be myself.

We miss you and Sally so much 🌈πŸ₯²πŸΎ

Happy Gotcha Day Millie! 🐱
12/09/2024

Happy Gotcha Day Millie! 🐱

Yesterday our Founder Helen Motteram Flock with Helen was proud to do a talk at Vale Referrals Vale Vets Dursley Many of...
05/09/2024

Yesterday our Founder Helen Motteram Flock with Helen was proud to do a talk at Vale Referrals Vale Vets Dursley

Many of you know that Helen also runs a bird rescue Russell's Rescue and an international membership for Pet Professionals Pet Professional Network.

Helen is a huge fan of collaboration and also sharing her knowledge.

Remember here at Social Paws we also rehabilitate birds and dogs too!

Thanks for having us πŸΎπŸΆπŸ¦β€β¬›πŸ–€

Just a normal Sunday, running dressed as a dalmation and Cruella De Vil...Thanks for the support Cheltenham, you were in...
01/09/2024

Just a normal Sunday, running dressed as a dalmation and Cruella De Vil...

Thanks for the support Cheltenham, you were incredible! πŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΆπŸƒβ€β™‚οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Is your dog anxious? ❀️🐢"HELP my dog has a MELTDOWN everytime it sees another dog!""My new rescue dog is struggling to s...
27/08/2024

Is your dog anxious? ❀️🐢

"HELP my dog has a MELTDOWN everytime it sees another dog!"

"My new rescue dog is struggling to settle in"

"We no longer invite visitors around"

You feel like you've tried everything. You are close to giving up. Don't despair!

Here's 5 reasons why training is NOT working and how we CAN make it work for YOU!

1. There aren't enough management strategies in place

Management techniques are some 'coping strategies' to get you out of a sticky situation or refocus your dog's energy and attention to something else.

My favourite technique is the emergency u-turn. Practice first in a non distracting environment. Turn 90 degrees with an excitable 'this way' and reward your dog heavily. It needs to become an instant, reflex action. As you do so you can launch a handful of sausages in the path of the incoming dog. This will add as a temporary distraction to give you time to get away.

2. You may find yourself getting too close to another dog or person

Often it's difficult to read our dog's body language, my advice - start further than you think you need to be. Take your time. Start from a long distance from another dog or person and feed your dog as it sees the dog or person. This helps the dog associate it with good things. Remember time and distance is your friend and start in areas where you can predict another dog. My favourite areas are an open field with a boundary/fence or near a vets car park.

3. Your dog doesn't have enough time to calm back down

At the start of any therapy I advice a break from walking if your dog is becoming stressed on walks. It's likely that your dog needs time to calm down, but with this can you need to ensure the dog is still getting enough mental and physical stimulation. My favourite game is the 'find it' game where I throw food on the floor and the dog uses it nose to snuffle around for it. Why not go beyond the bowl and use some of the food from a bowl to encourage your dog to forage for its food.

4. You try to do too much (it's ok to take a break or do things in small chunks)

Training shouldn't be a chore and should easily fit around your daily routine. Break down training into small simple tasks. Perhaps a focus exercise as you boil the kettle or an enrichment game as you do the ironing.

5. You find yourself moving on too quickly from the foundations

You need a strong, stable foundation to build upon. If your dog is already pulling as soon as you walk out the door or doesn't check in with you on a walk, it's likely it's all too much soon. Go back to the foundations. Start indoors. Away from distractions. Practice some simple exercises such as a touch or look at me.

WE OFFER A HELPING HAND OR TWO 🫢

If you would like more information on our one to one behavioural assessments, comment below, send message below or get in touch with myself or Tristan on:

[email protected]

Let's have an informal chat on how I can help you take back control of your walks.

Helen Motteram, BSc (Hons
Tristan Motteram, IMDT

*Vet recommended, kind and ethical dog training and behavioural therapy.

Thanks for reading,
Helen Motteram

*We work on Vet referral and request a recent check up to rule out any pain issues.

It can be so heartbreaking not to be able to walk your best friend...Gail came to me to seek support when her four legge...
21/08/2024

It can be so heartbreaking not to be able to walk your best friend...

Gail came to me to seek support when her four legged companion was becoming terribly anxious on his walks.

On my first visit he struggled to even walk out of the door and was reactive to many passing by.

We worked on gradual introductions to the outside, using outlets and enrichment such as cones to create a positive association and give him a job to do.

The results were remarkable, whilst he still has a long way to go after 5 sessions we were able to get to the local park!

It was an absolute joy to see him able to meet other dogs again and play.

🐾🐾🐾

Here's what Gail had to say:

Helen has been simply wonderful giving me help and advice with my anxious 18 month dog. He suddenly refused to go for walks out on a lead, and when i managed to get him out for a short walk he barked and lunged at almost everyone he saw.

Helen has given me advice and exercises to stop him barking which has given me back the confidence to encourage him to walk out on a lead.

We still have a way to go, but things are improving rapidly and we are no longer forced to take him everywhere in the car!
Thank you Helen for all your help and encouragement and very best of luck with your Corvid rescues.

🐾🐾🐾

Thank you Gail, it was an absolute pleasure supporting you both and I hope to see you walking around our local area again very soon!

Helen Motteram

'A family business, where kindness speaks volumes'

Specialising in working with anxious dogs and rescues πŸ–€πŸΎπŸΆπŸ¦β€β¬›

Happy international cat day 🐱Let's see your feline friends!Thanks to Canine First Aid Workshops - UK - Rachel Bean RVN f...
08/08/2024

Happy international cat day 🐱

Let's see your feline friends!

Thanks to Canine First Aid Workshops - UK - Rachel Bean RVN for this incredible photo out in Cyprus.

We are proud to be supporting this INCREDIBLE event! It starts later this month, so don't miss out ❀️🐾
05/08/2024

We are proud to be supporting this INCREDIBLE event! It starts later this month, so don't miss out ❀️🐾

Come and join us in celebrating life together.

August is all about celebrating the lives we share with our pets.

PART ONE is a competition - share some +R education and upload it to our platform for voting
PART TWO is a three-day virtual event with 67 academic sessions.

Register for one or both. Your choice! https://www.petprofessionalguild.com/webinars-events/webinars/celebrating-life-together-a-pet-approved-event/

Today is National Dog Photography Day! So let's see your photos of your best friend 🐾Here's Prince, we will never forget...
26/07/2024

Today is National Dog Photography Day! So let's see your photos of your best friend 🐾

Here's Prince, we will never forget you πŸ’• despite being a big boy he was a softy at heart. Over the years I worked with him he came so far, excelling in confidence. Prince also taught me so much 😌

thanks to Fur & Fables

We have set up a little new venture follow us at Glen's Feathered Encounters...An opportunity to provide community outre...
24/07/2024

We have set up a little new venture follow us at Glen's Feathered Encounters...

An opportunity to provide community outreach, education and therapy & training.

Yes that's right, it's not only dogs and cats we help but birds too! And our new venture helps educate and support the public with these wonderful bird friends.

Education | Therapy | Bird Experiences

In memory of Glen πŸ¦β€β¬›πŸ¦–πŸŒˆ

A chance to learn about our feathered friends, meet us in person or simply follow our page for bird enrichment and training advice.

OUR STORY

On international crow and raven day a beautiful bird came into our lives: Glen the Rescue Raven.

He was cheeky, determined and brought us so much joy.

Sadly his life was cut short by a nasty infection. The vets battled to save his life.

We set up this venture to help keep his memory alive.

OUR AIMS

To help enrich the lives of our beautiful feathered friends, but also to educate others. The birds welfare also comes first, so training can take months sometimes years before they are ready to become our 'therapy birds'.

OUR EXPERIENCES

Our experiences and guest speaking helps fund our rescue but we will be set up as our own private business with insurance and a licence. For now we are offering online talks and advice.

OUR AMBASSADOR BIRDS

Woody

Our first Ambassador bird is Woody who's currently in training. Woody is a young crow that cannot be released due to disabilities.

OUR RESCUE BIRDS

We have many rescue birds but many are unsuitable to venture outside. Many live in aviaries and our home. They are our family.

We hope you enjoy our page and a reminder of how we can help you:

πŸ¦β€β¬› Rescue and rehabilitation (as part of Russell's Rescue)

πŸ¦β€β¬› Private bird training and behavioural support (BSc Hons animal and behaviour)

πŸ¦β€β¬› Enrichment and training support for zoos and farms

πŸ¦β€β¬› Encounters (bird experiences) coming soon

πŸ¦β€β¬› In person talks, webinars

πŸ¦β€β¬› Support system for other rehabbers and advice

HOW TO CONTACT US

For bird rescue, educational experiences, advice or training please contact -

Telephone, Helen Motteram: 07554427857
Email: [email protected]

Helen, Tristan & Glen πŸ¦β€β¬›πŸ¦–πŸŒˆ

Growing up I dreamt of the 'perfect' dog ❀️🐢One I could take on long walks βœ”οΈTo family events βœ”οΈOne I could introduce to...
18/07/2024

Growing up I dreamt of the 'perfect' dog ❀️🐢

One I could take on long walks βœ”οΈ

To family events βœ”οΈ

One I could introduce to all my friends βœ”οΈ

When you find out you don't have the 'perfect' dog you almost mourn for what you could of had.

It may sound clichΓ©, but Sally, Joseph and all my other companions over the years were perfect for me.

They had their quirks.

We still had the best relationship despite not being able to do everything with them.

And over time we were able to work on their issues so life could be more enjoyable for both of us.

But if Joseph needed to miss a walk, or I couldn't attend that family event, It wasn't the end of the world!

For those who know me well, I no longer have my own dog companions due to running my bird rescue. However I have my friends Bramble and Willow ❀️

But the same applies to my companion birds and cat Millie.

Millie is getting older 🐱

Some of my birds get anxious at times πŸ¦β€β¬›

But we make the most of what we have.

When they are gone they are gone.

Make the most of EVERY and try to stop mourning for those moments you could of had. Because you are making incredible memories each day.

And whilst some days can seem relentless, incredibly challenging...

It's ok to cut that walk short βœ”οΈ

Even have a duvet day βœ”οΈ

Your dog will thank you πŸ’ž

Anxious, frustrated or shy dogs aren't purposely trying to make our life hard...They are not being 'naughty' or badly be...
13/07/2024

Anxious, frustrated or shy dogs aren't purposely trying to make our life hard...

They are not being 'naughty' or badly behaved.

They aren't trying to purposely turn their guardians lives upside down.

They are trying their best to cope, despite being scared, worried, frustrated or fearful.

🐾 Let's start thinking of it as building a dog's confidence...

Doesn't "confidence-building" sound better?

Doesn't it feel good, to know that Fido is not purposely trying to make our lives hard?

Let's think about times we may consider our anxious dog is being 'naughty' on the walk.

Were they really being naughty, or were they trying to tell us something?

Often they want to feel safe, they are struggling to cope, they'd like to feel relaxed and happy.

🐾 By understanding how our dogs think or feel, we begin to unravel the picture

"My dog is fearful of that person."

"My dog is struggling to walk near those cars."

"My dog is finding it hard to cope in a busy restaurant."

Anxiety is a normal and often healthy emotion; however, when a dog regularly feels anxious and cannot cope in everyday situations, this is no longer 'normal' and puts a burden on their physical and mental well-being.

But it's frustrating and stressful for the dog guardian too!

As a dog guardian, this makes living normally seem almost impossible!

You've stopped inviting friends around and are constantly looking over your shoulder.

🐾 How does being anxious make your dog feel?

Anxiety can lead to excessive nervousness, fear and apprehension.

This alters the way your dog behaves; from the more subtle signals, like sniffing on the ground to avoiding looking at the other dog, to lunging and barking in an attempt to often look big and scary to help create distance.

🐾 Silence is not always golden

Whilst it may seem easier to work or live with a dog that may not bark or lunge, silence is not always golden.

Just because your dog is not barking, it doesn't mean everything is okay.

🐾 Now this is where I step in...

Dogs are often unable to make less-stressful choices (or what we consider to be the 'right choices') when presented with these potential triggers.

Empowering a dog to make the right choices is not simply about training them.

It goes much deeper than this, as we have to take in the underlying emotions.

I actually don't like the word training, when it comes to anxious dogs...

This is confidence building, not dog training

Behavioural modification is not simply 'training the dog'

Thanks for reading,
Helen Motteram

Axel, you naughty dog! Don't worry, all is forgiven πŸ₯°
11/07/2024

Axel, you naughty dog!

Don't worry, all is forgiven πŸ₯°

Not "just a dog"They are a companion ❀️Our friend 🐢Our family πŸΆπŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦β€πŸ‘¦They pick us up when you are feeling down.Bring jo...
06/07/2024

Not "just a dog"

They are a companion ❀️

Our friend 🐢

Our family πŸΆπŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦β€πŸ‘¦

They pick us up when you are feeling down.

Bring joy and amazing memories to your life.

Try not to take it personally when people say it's just a dog, some people just don't understand, some people will never understand.

But you are truly blessed with having your best friend by your side and that's an INCREDIBLE feeling πŸ₯°

For the love of dogs, a celebration always.

Let's talk about judgement...One of the main reasons pet guardians do not seek help is they are worried what I will thin...
05/07/2024

Let's talk about judgement...

One of the main reasons pet guardians do not seek help is they are worried what I will think

I'm never here to judge you, my sessions are not a test of your skills.

In fact you will be relieved to hear that despite your dog's issues being terribly overwhelming or embarrassing, I've always encountered worse scenarios. That's right, doing voluntary work overseas and being on the front line of animal rescue, there's some terribly sad and challenging situations I've seen first hand.

I'm also very open and honest, transparent about my own pet issues and how I've helped them.

I may even inject a little light humour to calm your nerves.

This is not a test and never will be.

I just want to empower you with the skills, give you hope and that bit of reassurance that WE can get through this TOGETHER.

Thanks for reading ❀️

'Where kindness speaks volumes'

We are super proud to be supporting this INCREDIBLE event and Helen is one of the speakers! Her talk is 'there's enough ...
03/07/2024

We are super proud to be supporting this INCREDIBLE event and Helen is one of the speakers!

Her talk is 'there's enough cake for everyone' highlighting the importance for community support and networking for Pet Guardians and Pet Professionals.

Register for the event and online conference and an option of a fun competition where you can submit fun activities with your pet friends.

Celebrating Life Together.
Who are you most excited to listen too.
www.PetApprovedEvent.com

How to keep your dog safe in the hot weather Dogs are very DIFFERENT from humans -  not only do they regulate their temp...
24/06/2024

How to keep your dog safe in the hot weather

Dogs are very DIFFERENT from humans - not only do they regulate their temperature differently but they also CANNOT take off their fur coat or pop shoes on their feet.

Let's talk about SWEAT!

Tierna (beautifully pictured below) has opted for a short shaded morning walk, lots of shade and avoiding the car...read more to find out why????

*Today's post is a sweaty subject, but to start off here's a quick advice list...It could help save a dog's life!

Long hot car journeys ❌
Leaving your dog in the car unsupervised ❌
Midday walks (when the temperatures rise) ❌

Early morning walks βœ”
Fresh water βœ”
Lots of shade βœ”
Cool inside areas βœ”
Late evening walks βœ”

*Remember all dogs are different, please take into account also age, size of dog and breed.

Ok so sweat, what is it? and why does it happen?

So a little about us humans...

When our bodies temperature builds up we perspire, in some humans this is very obvious. Everyone perspires, however some more so than others.

Sweating is one of the ways that our body regulates its temperature, in which the sweat glands are distributed over most of our body's surface. When our internal temperature rises the sweat provides a slick of moisture over the skin, which then begins to evaporate. As a fluid evaporates it cools, and in that way the sweat helps to lower our body temperature by essentially wrapping us in a nice cool layer.

IMPORTANT - DOGS ARE DIFFERENT!

A dog's skin is quite different and most of the dog's sweat glands are located around its foot pads.

Rather than relying upon sweat, the dog mainly relies on panting to cool down. The moisture on the tongue evaporates and the heavy breathing also allows the moist lining of their lungs to serve as a surface from which moisture can evaporate. This successfully helps the the dog to manage a significant cooling of his/her body temperature.

HOWEVER...

When put in EXTREME circumstances this mechanism can be significantly inhibited (have you ever tried to breath in a hot car with the windows closed, or panted to catch your breath after a run?!).

ALSO...

A dog also will try to cool off by dilating or expanding blood vessels in their face and ears.

This mechanism only works best if it's not too hot outside and helps to cool the dog's blood by causing it to flow closer to the surface of the skin. Add a fur coat and bare paws and you really are putting your dog in a vulnerable position.

So please, please REMEMBER just because YOU can cope in the heat doesn't mean your dog can!

Thanks for reading
Helen Motteram

As a pet behaviourist and dog trainer you'd think I have all the answersThat my own companions are perfect.Some may thin...
17/06/2024

As a pet behaviourist and dog trainer you'd think I have all the answers

That my own companions are perfect.

Some may think I'm a magician, some think It's a matter of a few sessions and their companion is 'cured'.

This is not the case.

In fact, as a pet guardian myself, I have issues from time to time.

Just like you.

But on the plus side because I've gone through similar struggles, I'm able to relate and understand to some of the issues you may be going through.

But as a pet guardian, we can also be too close to the issue.

We need a second pair of eyes.

But often feel embarrassed to ask for help.

Trust me, we aren't here to judge you.

I've worked relentlessly with my own companions, some days I've wanted to give up...

From my anxious dog Sally.

To my little old man Joseph.

To separation anxiety with Russell.

To extreme trauma with Glen the rescue raven.

But a incident several years ago reminded me that sometimes they have a relapse.

Things can go backwards instead of forwards.

That is why I'm so grateful to have so many connections. Those I can turn on for extra support.

Plus remember I don't have all the answers and it's ok to ask for help.

That doesn't make me a bad behaviourist.

In fact I'm human just like you but hope with my experiences, my knowledge, my understanding I can inspire hope and help give you that support you are truly looking for.

Thanks for reading,
Helen

Many of you may know we had a new feathered friend come into our life...He sadly passed away leaving our hearts again br...
11/06/2024

Many of you may know we had a new feathered friend come into our life...

He sadly passed away leaving our hearts again broken.

We run Social Paws to not only support incredible Guardians like you but to also help our rescue.

Thanks for supporting our local family run business and our rescue work, because without it we could not continue ❀️

We so grateful for all the support you've given, first through losing Russell Crow and Pip, then Glen the rescue raven ...

❀️ We will continue

We are continuing our work but having to refer on some birds (who need more space and some pigeons as they can't go with the corvids) and cross network with amazing rescues. This is because we only have space at the moment for 2 more birds if urgent and no where else to go and their needs can be met here.

❀️ Our fundraiser

We are carrying on our fundraiser so we can continue to pay the vet bills, food and hopefully an aviary now later this year. Perhaps this will also give space for another rescue raven in the future. Glen has said his bed area will be kept available. He's kept his favourite toys there too!

Here's the link:

https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/Aviaryandvetbills

❀️ A little new venture

In the meantime we are setting up a new venture 'Glen's feathered encounters' which is a chance for us to do public speaking, appear at events and take some of our people friendly birds out and about. This will be another way to fund our sanctuary and spend more time with our birds. We want his legacy to continue and although he won't be on our arm, he will always be with us in spirit.

❀️ We have a full time job too

At present we run our animal behaviour business Social Paws, this extends to helping other rescues with advice and birds, cats and dogs for behavioural therapy. So give us a shout if you have any bird related questions or need to chat about your dog or cat. Our family run business helps also fund our rescue.

❀️ Link to fundraiser

Many of you have asked if we still have the fundraiser going. Yes we do and will be keeping it going now until later this year. Our own funds have been completely depleted so we really appreciate all of your support and sharing our work.

Here's the link:

https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/Aviaryandvetbills

❀️ THANK YOU

We are so grateful for all your support and will be working hard these next few months to help many of the critical birds in our need.

Helen, Tristan, GlenπŸ¦β€β¬›πŸ¦–πŸŒˆ & Russell πŸ¦β€β¬›πŸŒˆ

HONK & PARP!

Growing up I always felt a little bit different I often felt anxious in new social situations. I was a creature of habit...
28/05/2024

Growing up I always felt a little bit different

I often felt anxious in new social situations. I was a creature of habit, I thrived on routine and structure, feeling overly sensitive when I travelled somewhere new πŸ˜“

I began to see the world a little differently, take note of not only people's behaviour, but particularly dog's behaviour and the similarities to how I was feeling πŸ’•

Then I met Sally. Sally was a friendly, happy dog, but after a dog attack and intensive surgery she was never quite the same again.

Becoming too much βœ”

Myself and Sally shared similar feelings. I understood when she needed space, I could see when things were becoming too much.

As I walked Sally, I often felt tense on the lead, a sudden urge to avoid certain areas. It's almost as if we were in symmetry and at times I blamed myself for fuelling her anxiety.

All you want is a stress free walk βœ”

You want a stress free walk, you want to invite visitors around. But the lead goes tight, you become frantic as the visitors arrive.

However I knew that this shared sense of insecurity and fear could be used to help overcome her issues. Plus managing situations to give more predictability really helped.

But today is not about blaming yourself βœ”

It's about using your insight, your understanding, the emotions that drive the behaviour, to help your dog.

Special people find special dogs.

You can help each other.

But first we need to understand the why.

In previous blogs, I've talked about confidence building, rather than training βœ”

I've talked about distance and time.

You see negative emotions can't simply be trained away. But with your commitment, your understanding and your forward thinking, you can make a difference.

Practice relaxing the lead in a quiet area away from dogs.

Talk, even sing as you walk your dog.

Have fun, weave around the park bench, run through the long grass.

Make light out of the more challenging situations.

Breath.

Breath again.

It's ok to cut a walk short if your anxiety is rising. It's ok to take a break βœ”

Your dog will thank you.

Thanks for reading,
Helen

Some dogs are on a lead for a reason While your dog may be friendly, not all other dogs want to say hello.Some dogs need...
22/05/2024

Some dogs are on a lead for a reason

While your dog may be friendly, not all other dogs want to say hello.

Some dogs need space because they are old, young, in training, are anxious, recovering from an operation or simply don't want to be approached.

If you see a dog on lead, please don't actively approach unless you've asked consent. Or give them a helping hand by popping your dog back on lead if you feel they are going to run over.

Thank you, it could mean a real difference to our day β™‘

Why I DON'T ask my anxious dog to "sit and stay" in many situations...Ever felt trapped? In a situation in which you fel...
16/05/2024

Why I DON'T ask my anxious dog to "sit and stay" in many situations...

Ever felt trapped? In a situation in which you felt vulnerable and had lost control? ❀️

Imagine someone walking or running towards you, someone you knew who was going to threaten, scare you, or even cause you harm.

Your options are limited: you could shut down and simply hope they didn't come too close, quickly jerk to avoid a head-on collision, or with enough warning turn and walk the other way.

Many of us want to avoid conflict and will choose to move the other way. Some of us may try to protect ourselves.

Let's now think about Fido, who's anxious, scared of other dogs, they are happily walking with their guardian, and low and behold, another unknown dog is approaching them.

They could get them to sit and wait, keep them focused on them. This keeps them distracted away from the other dog? (And sometimes yes this is the only option if limited space).

But this distraction or focus is sometimes not enough, they want to feel safe, have an escape route, a choice. Be able to cope.

But feeling safe is about having options - by asking them to sit and wait I've taken away that option. They are in 'flight' mode and wants to get away.

They want to create distance from the said scary dog, so they feel less vulnerable, less stuck 'in the moment'.

My best advice - where possible, keep moving βœ…οΈ

Now for every situation, this doesn't always work, especially if you caught up in an alleyway or turn a blind corner...

However, there are some great emergency strategies like the find it game or emergency to turn:

Sprinkle some food over the floor, this can help act as an outlet, the dog can focus on the ground, keeping their attention. Or a quick u-turn moving 90 degrees to offer an escape route.

But where possible, especially in the early stages of building your dog's confidence, avoid situations where they feel 'confined'.

Distance is your friend βœ…οΈ

I like to create an arc, moving parallel away from the other dog. By creating distance, significant space between us, Fido feels less conflicted.

They can now relax, feel less pressurised. They have been given the option. The option to move away.

In fact, in many circumstances their lunging or barking is a cry for help: they've done all they possibly can to help communicate to us and the other dog, that they need distance.

A sniff on the floor, a freeze, avoiding eye contact.

Ever had someone walk head-on and you felt compelled to get out your phone or fiddle with your hair?

These are like our coping strategies, your dog is also trying to cope.

So to conclude - a sit and stay in some situations acts as an incompatible behaviour, it's hard to lunge and sit at the same time. It's also sometimes our only option.

But try to where possible to avoid these situations, give your dog space.

Empower your dog to make the right choices, before they have to bark or lunge.

Thanks for reading,
Helen Motteram

Now and then ❀️🌈I walk the beautiful Nelly who's guardians used to have Prince as their loyal companion.When Prince pass...
11/05/2024

Now and then ❀️🌈

I walk the beautiful Nelly who's guardians used to have Prince as their loyal companion.

When Prince passed suddenly quite a few years ago now we were all left with a huge hole in our hearts.

When Nelly came along she had the same cheeky personality as Prince πŸ˜„

I miss not walking and training Prince but know he's here by our sides.

1-2-1 rehabilitation & training walks with the gorgeous Nelly - so she gets more individual attention ❀️Nelly can only w...
10/05/2024

1-2-1 rehabilitation & training walks with the gorgeous Nelly - so she gets more individual attention ❀️

Nelly can only walk short distances but loves people and lots of sniffs. Quality not quantity.

Good boy Teddy, more calm and confident after our 2 month support programme ❀️This is Teddy, the most adorable face. But...
29/04/2024

Good boy Teddy, more calm and confident after our 2 month support programme ❀️

This is Teddy, the most adorable face. But he can be quite a sensitive boy at times.

During the two months we focused on:

βœ…οΈ Visitors coming in
βœ…οΈ Helping him be happy around the traffic lights/busy road
βœ…οΈ Confidence building with some dogs
βœ…οΈ Recall off lead

Teddy can now go off lead in his more local area for periods of time, enjoying time with his friends and playing with his toys.

His confidence in general has improved.

Well done Teddy!

A perfect end to a incredible week, a big thanks to Nelly our stooge/helper dog ❀️The session went well and Nelly is so ...
26/04/2024

A perfect end to a incredible week, a big thanks to Nelly our stooge/helper dog ❀️

The session went well and Nelly is so brilliant at helping 🐾

Helen & Tristan

'A family business, where kindness speaks volumes'

Solo 1-2-1 rehabilitation walks with Nelly 😍I still remember the first dog I walked over 20 years ago. His name was Bust...
24/04/2024

Solo 1-2-1 rehabilitation walks with Nelly 😍

I still remember the first dog I walked over 20 years ago. His name was Buster ❀️

Since then and as far as I can remember I've always been passionate about helping dogs 🐢

Dog walking...

It's more than 'simply walking dogs' it's peace of mind, enrichment, tailor made to suit the dog's needs.

Dog training...

Let's call it more confidence building and real life skills. Lots of positive experiences.
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An opportunity ⬇️⬇️⬇️

In May we still have 4 slots available in Charlton Kings/Leckhampton for solo walks or 1-2-1 rehabilitation and training walks.

PLUS 2 spaces on our bespoke behavioural support programme βœ…οΈ

Accredited | Insured | Ethical | Specialists with anxious or nervous dogs πŸ•

For more details hit the message button or email: [email protected]

'A family business, where kindness speaks volumes'

Helen & Tristan

Lucho a small dog with a BIG personality! Lucho has been benefiting from our 1-2-1 training walks in a combo with coachi...
17/04/2024

Lucho a small dog with a BIG personality!

Lucho has been benefiting from our 1-2-1 training walks in a combo with coaching his Guardian.

A typical monthly programme looks like this:

Confidence building and slowing down in local area βœ…οΈ

Stooge work with Oscar our helper dog βœ…οΈ

Training walks with the trainer to build his confidence βœ…οΈ

Work with the long line and engagement βœ…οΈ

This week was the 1-2-1 walk with the trainer. We practised slowing down, parallel walking close to calm dogs on leads and waiting for me.

Lucho finds it hard to simply do nothing, so I was incredibly surprised when he was able to take a moment by the bench.

We also got close to an older on lead dog and his tail was nice and happy.

The only thing which sets him back is when dogs run up to him :( he gets scared. So please if you see a dog on the lead please give them space and call your dog back. We really appreciate it ❀️

If you need support with your best friend please contact us on:

[email protected]

'A family business, where kindness speaks volumes'

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