Aye Do Ceremonies

02/03/2025

Congratulations to Nathan & Petra after saying “Aye Do” at Piperdam yesterday ❤️

24/02/2025

An absolutely brilliant day on Saturday celebrating with Cameron & Rachel ❤️

Rachel is a costume designer for Outlander so when she said she was designing her own dress, I knew it would be gorgeous and I wasn’t wrong! ❤️

21/02/2025

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14/02/2025

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Don’t just get wed
Naw!.Say “Aye Do!”

14/02/2025

Happy Valentine’s Day to lovers everywhere! ❤️

29/01/2025

Beautiful words from Holly & Daniel, and it was a very beautiful ceremony but a large part of that was down to how present and in the moment H & D were with each other ❤️

This is undoubtedly the biggest factor as to whether a ceremony will have all the feels, or fall a bit flat 😍

I can, and will do everything else to make sure it’s relaxed, fun, guest inclusive, meaningful and flows from start to finish, but I cannot wave a magic wand and bring you two into the moment. You need to do that, and so you need to practice by envisioning your ceremony and what you want it to look like.

Imagine yourselves standing together, surrounded by your loved ones. However, instead of thinking of it in an uncomfortable way, as if it’s a stage performance where everyone is staring at you expecting you to entertain them, think of it as if each and every person is holding you, hugging you, honouring you. They don’t know it yet (but they will when I’m finished with them!), but your guests are witnesses to one of the most beautiful, hope filled ceremonies there is 🙏 They want it to be special for you and them❤️

A ceremony has the potential to change everyone who walks through it, whether groom or guest ❤️ So if you want your guests talking about your ceremony for years to come, forget the donut wall! All you need is the love that exists between you, and all you need to do is allow that love to be present and palpable on the day😍

28/01/2025

Scottish humour 🤣

27/01/2025

How to Make Your Ceremony Unique

Alright, Aye Do'ers! Let’s talk about turning your ceremony into something uniquely yours. Sure, your vows might not go viral on TikTok (or maybe they will?!), but this is the heart of your wedding day. Let’s make it unforgettable.

Here are some tips to make sure your Ceremony is the best...

😍 Engage from the start!
When you are filling out your questionnaires, don’t just rush through them like you’re signing up for a supermarket loyalty card! Take your time, pour a glass of wine, and really think about your answers. This is where the magic begins!

💖 Dig deep into what makes you you as a couple.
What’s your secret sauce? Is it the way you argue over Netflix? Or how you battle it out over The Chase? Maybe you share a love of climbing munros, or never let a Sunday go by without a country pub lunch. It's often the wee things that make a relationship work. Let’s bring that magic into your ceremony.

🕯️ Thinking about rituals?
Rituals can add such a special touch, but let’s make sure they’re meaningful. Why are you doing it? How does it reflect your story? (And if you’re thinking, “What even is a ritual?”—don’t worry, that’s my specialty!)

👨‍👩‍👧 Think about involving family or friends.
Want your gran to do a reading or your best mate to bring the rings? Fabulous. Not sure how to involve them? No stress —that’s my job! Just give me the names, and we’ll figure out the rest.

👀 Crash some weddings.
Okay, maybe not literally, but if you get invited to a wedding, take notes! What made you go “WOW”? What made you cringe? Every experience helps shape your vision for your day.

💌 Your vows are EVERYTHING!.. and definitely not something to leave till the last minute, folks. Your vows are the beating heart of your ceremony. Put some love, thought and effort into them and if you opt for the Aye Do Vows Quiz, take your time and really think about each question.

🎶 Choose music that vibes with your ceremony.
Make sure you choose music that matches the mood of your ceremony. So if you have asked me for a fun and upbeat ceremony, then having Chopin for your Gathering Music and Supermarket Flowers at the end doesn't quite work!

🙏 Remember, your ceremony is your moment to celebrate everything you are as a couple. Let’s make it unforgettable together! 🥂

Drop me a message if you’ve got questions, ideas, or just want to chat about how to make it awesome. Your friendly Scottish celebrant is always here to help! 🥰

26/01/2025

So happy to be back in action at The Vu yesterday for Holly & Daniel’s wedding ceremony, but I have to say I’m fair looking forward to warmer days so I don’t have to walk about in a duvet! 🤣

25/01/2025

What better way to celebrate Burns Day than by officiating my first ceremony of 2025!

Yep, today I’m off to The Vu in Bathgate for the marriage ceremony of Holly & Daniel ❤️ and I have to say, I’m awfy glad it’s today and not yesterday! 💨

09/01/2025

After an email saying, [We know we're getting married in a castle with 150 guests, a fog machine , and a live llama for photos but]...

"Can you do it cheaper?"

🧐

I once heard a story about Picasso sitting in a cafe in Paris when a man came over and asked for his autograph. Picasso picked up a napkin and duly obliged, but as he handed it over he said,

"That will be 10,000 Francs"

"10,000 Francs!???" said the man. "But it only took you 10 seconds!!"

"No" said Picasso "It took me 40 years"

Here's my tuppence worth...

What Starbucks really sells: Not coffee. Rituals.
What Airbnb really sells: Not homes. Experiences.
What Spotify really sells: Not music. Moods.
What Coca-Cola really sells: Not soda. Nostalgia.
What IKEA really sells: Not furniture. Possibilities.

And what do I sell?

Not just a ceremony.

Instead I sell a moment in time, one that feels effortless for you but is crafted with care and intention. It’s not just about reading words from a book — it’s about creating a space where everyone feels present, connected, and part of something extraordinary.

And I bring much much more than just a script. I bring years of training, continuous learning, countless hours of reading, workshops, research, travelling around Scotland looking for the best ceremony spots, always trying to bring more value and a deeper experience and a deep commitment to perfecting my craft.

I bring zen when your nerves take over, fun when the moment calls for it, banter when your guests feel like haggling, and calm when emotions run high. I’m there to hold the space, to guide you and everyone there through the experience —grounded, relaxed, and ready to handle anything that comes my way.

It’s about weaving your story into something timeless, blending fun, warmth, and a touch of Scottish tradition to create something meaningful. Whether it’s incorporating ancient rituals or finding the perfect words to share your journey, I craft a ceremony that feels uniquely yours.

It’s also about the details most people don’t even notice —reading the energy of the room, adjusting the tone as we go, or stepping in to save the moment when something doesn’t go as planned. It’s about being flexible, responsive, and fully present.

In other words, your ceremony sets the tone for your entire day, making sure your guests are relaxed, engaged, and ready to celebrate one of the most important moments of your life.

What I sell isn’t a product or a quick service. It’s a feeling. A moment. A memory you’ll carry with you forever ❤️

03/01/2025

Alright, my fabulous 2025 couples! Let’s have a wee chat about your big day! 🎉💍

By now, you’re probably knee-deep in Pinterest boards and wedding checklists. The dress, the invites, the flowers, the seating plan—it's all very exciting, isn’t it? But before you get completely lost in the whirlwind of table runners and playlists, I want to gently nudge you to think about something that often gets overlooked in the excitement: your Aye Do Ceremony.

I know I keep saying it, but the ceremony isn’t just the "bit before the party." It’s the whole reason for the party! It's where the magic happens, promises are made, and the life you’re building together is celebrated in words, rituals, and emotions. Everything else — the champagne toasts, the dancing, the confetti cannons — is a celebration of what happens in those sacred minutes when you stand together and say, “Aye Do"

Now, I get it — thinking about readings, vows, or rituals might not feel as Instagram-worthy as centrepieces or dress fittings. But trust me, when you give your ceremony the attention it deserves, it will transform your day, because you’re creating a moment that’s uniquely and unapologetically YOU — a moment that’s alive with meaning and joy, and one that lingers long after the last Proclaimers song plays!

To help you along the way, I’ll be sharing a series of posts diving into the different elements of your ceremony — what they are, why they matter, and how to make them your own. From vows that’ll make you laugh and cry to rituals that bring all the feels, we’ll cover it all. So stay tuned and get ready to think about your ceremony in a whole new way!

Happy New Year from your fun-loving, slightly nosy Scottish celebrant!

❤️

02/01/2025

“If you don’t have a ceilidh at the end of the night, you’re not actually married.” 🤣🤣

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24/12/2024

As I reflect on this incredible year, my heart is filled with gratitude and awe. Back in February, I began a journey I never expected—being diagnosed with cancer turned my world upside down. But here I am, on the other side of chemotherapy, with radiotherapy on the horizon in the new year, feeling stronger, hopeful, and immensely thankful. 💕

To all my beautiful 2024 couples: you’ve been my light. Your trust in me to create and celebrate your special ceremonies has been a gift beyond words. Each "Aye do" I've witnessed, every love story I’ve had the honour to tell, has deepened my connection to the universal life-force that weaves us all together.

Thank you for your kindness, your patience, and your unwavering acceptance of me—bald head and all! You’ve shown me that love truly knows no bounds, and I’m endlessly grateful for the joy, laughter, and magic you’ve shared with me.

As we step into this holiday season, I’m reminded of the beauty of connection and community. Thank you for being part of mine. Wishing you and your loved ones a Christmas full of warmth, wonder, and love.

Here’s to health, hope, and happiness in the new year! 🌟

30/11/2024

Well, there it is! The last Aye Do ceremony of 2024!! 😍😍😍

Neil (the Groom) is my decorator, so when he was planning his wedding and asked me to be his Celebrant, I said I’d do it in return for getting my kitchen decorated 🤣🤣🤣

WinWin! 🤣🤣

27/11/2024

27/11/2024

Playing 'Mr & Mrs' in your ceremony 🤣

If you want to bring a bit of fun and laughter into your ceremony, you could include a fun element such as playing 'Mr & Mrs'.