21/11/2024
🇮🇹 The Italian Way: An Italian-style Birthday
Italian-style birthdays are renowned for their warmth, delicious food, lively atmosphere, and emphasis on spending quality time with loved ones. In this guide, we'll walk you through the essential elements to throw a memorable Italian-style birthday celebration.
🎂 La Torta in Faccia: In certain regions of Italy, particularly in southern regions like Sicily and Calabria, it’s a playful tradition to smash a piece of birthday cake into the birthday person’s face. This lighthearted gesture is believed to bring good luck and laughter, symbolizing a wish for abundance and joy in the coming year.
🌜 La Vigilia di Compleanno: The night before a birthday, known as “la vigilia di compleanno,” holds special significance in Italian culture. It is often celebrated with a festive dinner attended by family and close friends, setting the stage for the main birthday celebration the following day.
🤑 Your birthday, your treat: In Italy, the birthday person usually pays for the celebration. If you invite friends for dinner or drinks, you’re expected to cover the bill. Many people prefer home celebrations to save money. At work, the birthday person brings treats to share.
🫂 No big bashes: Unlike other cultures, extravagant parties are less common. Italians often celebrate with intimate gatherings of close family and friends.
How to Say “Happy Birthday” in Italian?
👉 Buon compleanno! (Formal and most used)
👉 Tanti auguri di buon compleanno! (Formal with added wishes)
👉 Feliz compleanno! (Informal and borrowed from Spanish)
👉 Happy Birthday! (English is widely understood)
Birthday Gift Etiquette
✅ Do’s in Gifting
- Consider bringing a thoughtful gift, such as a bottle of fine wine, artisanal chocolates, or a bouquet of fresh flowers.
- Consider practical gifts like gift cards, experiences, or homemade items.
- Wrap your gift nicely, presentation matters in Italy.
❌ Don’ts in Gifting
- It’s not considered polite to show how much you’ve spent on a gift. Make sure to remove or cover the sticker price to avoid any embarrassment or awkwardness.
- Don’t arrive empty-handed.