03/07/2022
I didn’t want to add to the noise of the world.
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I didn’t want to add to the selfcenteredness.*
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I didn’t want to play in the ‘me, me, me’ show on social media.
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And also, I got overwhelmed.
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Overwhelmed by the loving but many dm’s I was getting at that time from people wanting help, advice or coaching on x, y or z. Or just share their stories with me.
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And because the people-pleaser in me was still much alive, she felt guilt for not being able to respond and give everyone what they need and deserve (and often so lovingly asked for).
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I shared this with you, and you listened. I received a lot less dm’s, and I began a healing journey of healing the people-pleaser in me.
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Thank you for listening. I felt like I could breathe again, and heal.
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One year forward, I’m much more grounded in my own energy. A cycle has been completed. It feels great. ❤️
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𝘈𝘯𝘥 I also feel like I lost touch with my community a little bit.
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I’ve been focusing on my community inside my paid containers and it feels wonderful to show up there.
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I now want to open myself again, for you. I want to hear what you feel and think and what’s moving in your inner world ❤️
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I cannot offer full coaching in my dm’s, but I may be able to listen or point you in the right direction to find what you’re looking for.
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Often, you are the answer to your own question. ;-) But with so much going on in the world today, it can be difficult to see (or feel) with clarity. And sometimes we just need a loving hand that points us in the right direction.
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So my dm’s are open again. I want to thank you all for respecting the boundary I communicated about a year ago. I needed it. And it makes me value all of you here even more.
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You are amazing.
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May you be as kind to yourself as others, respect your own boundaries as much as you respected mine and may you have the courage to ask for what you need from someone.
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Dear Instagram community,
I love you ❤️
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*although I have something to say about selfcenteredness: watch for my next post ✨