24/12/2021
𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐚𝐬 𝐄𝐯𝐞
In a few hours, my family and I will start to celebrate Christmas. It will be my 10th Christmas Eve in Poland. Having collected these experiences, I’d like to tell you a bit about family traditions which are pretty common in Poland.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 (𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐨𝐟 𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫)
At Christmas Eve, you have at least 12 meat-free dishes and we receive presents from the star. The presents have to be bought and the food has to be prepared with some of the dishes being extremely labour-intense. And last but not least, the house has to be cleaned and decorated. My poor mamusia (mother-in-law) was working hard for days in a row to get things done. Luckily, we are able to order most of the traditional Christmas Eve dishes nowadays giving more peace to mamusia and supporting our local restaurants at the same time.
𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐤𝐲
We have to wait until the first star appears in the sky before sitting down at the table. This tradition commemorates the Star of Bethlehem. To be honest, we cheat a bit with this tradition usually starting the dinner between 4 and 5 pm.
𝐒𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐩ł𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐤
At the start of our meal, we say a prayer followed by, in my opinion, the most personal part of the evening. We start to share the Opłatek which is an unleavened wafer made of flour and water decorated with a religious image. Every family member and guest gets one and then shares pieces of it with everyone else. This is accompanied by exchanges of good wishes for the upcoming year. This tradition is linked to the breaking of bread at the Last Supper.
𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐞, 𝐰𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐭𝐲 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞
One spot at the table is left empty. As many Poles, we set one extra place in case a person down on luck should show up and ask for shelter. So far it hasn’t happened. Nevertheless, the tradition requires that lone strangers should be taken in and treated as family members. There is enough food anyway!
𝐇𝐚𝐲 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐡
As a way of remembering that, according to the Bible, the newborn Jesus was put in a crib to rest, hay is placed under the tablecloth. It should also bring good luck and prosperity for the upcoming year.
𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬!
Our kids are overly excited today. They know that they will receive presents from the Star after dinner. In my part of Poland, the tradition dictates that the star provides presents to kids and grownups.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝟏𝟐 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞
I am sorry, I am not the biggest fan of the traditional Polish Christmas Eve dishes. Still, I will eat from every dish to secure good luck throughout the upcoming year. And in case there are more than 12 dishes on the table… we will try them all for additional good luck.
𝐈 𝐭𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐰𝐨 𝐝𝐨𝐠𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐚𝐭
No I am not under the influence - no alcohol is allowed during Christmas Eve anyway. According to an old Polish legend, animals are granted the gift of speech on Christmas Eve as a reward for their role in welcoming Jesus on Earth. We will give some Opłatek to the dogs and afterwards, I will try to get some words out of them. So far, I have failed, maybe better luck tonight.
I wish you all a Merry Christmas!
Martin