
03/12/2023
“Singaporeans still think that the best support comes from the family,” Prof Feng said. “Even though they have no friends, they think that as long as they have children taking care of them, they are happy. This does not only happen here but also in Hong Kong, Korea, Japan and even India.”
But this is not always true. Family members may be too busy with their own lives and ignore seniors at home; they also tend to be over-protective, stifling the elderly person with their love and concern.
“There was this older woman who declined to go out simply because she was so afraid of falling and becoming a burden to her son,” Prof Koh said. “There was another who was happy to see our researchers, but was afraid that her daughter-in-law would see her talking to strangers... a case of a family member being over-protective in case the elderly got cheated.”
Those who live with family may also have high expectations of support from household members, and develop feelings of social disconnection when this expectation is not met, Prof Feng added.
The study, therefore, found that older adults who are socially isolated and in poor health are more likely to be what Prof Koh referred to as “family restricted”. These seniors face barriers to access to non-family support providers, such as befriending activities with extended members of the community that could fill the gaps and keep them connected to society.
People with lower education, depression and limitations in instrumental activities of daily living that hinder a person’s ability to live independently in the community are far more likely to experience social disconnection, even if they do not live alone.
The study found that those without formal education are almost three times as likely to be lonely compared with those with secondary education.
https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/all-the-lonely-people-tackling-social-isolation-among-older-singaporeans?fbclid=IwAR0wYkHVZKXC1BezpTOgasJNTUYEUsE8cO3MqYdltIA_0t0n42Bq0eamaIc
With Singapore set to attain “super-aged” status in 2026, loneliness will become a real threat. Read more at straitstimes.com.