08/17/2013
I just wanted for everyone to see this ....
#2 of 8
7/6/07
Banana731
You can ask about her experience/training, what she will do for you, etc. And really I think a big part of choosing a doula is finding someone you click with, whose attitude about birth compliments your own. Certification just means a doula has had a little training(like a weekend course), read some books, and attended a at least a couple of births, you can find out if she meets those qualifications for your self. The certification process can be done over a couple of years, so she may be trained and just not done with the paperework yet, so you can ask about that too. Just because someone is certified doesn't mean that she is the right doula for you, so I think the most important thing is to talk to her, meet with her, and go with what you feel.
#3 of 8
7/7/07
DoomaYula
For example, Pam England (or is it someone else famous in the birthing world? but I'm pretty sure it's her) is an uncertified doula. Some doulas don't want to get certified.
#4 of 8
7/7/07
momuveight2B
Feeling that she is right for you is the most important thing, open communication and trust. You should feel like you can tell her anything, ask any question and be totally supported. Being certified doesn't help if you don't feel in sync.
#5 of 8
7/8/07
mb05
Thanks so much for your thoughts, Ladies!
I think I'm a little Obsessive Compulsive on this subject (pls forgive! I really think it's all these crazy pregnancy hormones, too)....if it came down to two doulas that you really clicked with, etc., etc. and one was certified and the other wasn't, which would you choose? I'm guessing it would be a money thing...???
#6 of 8
7/8/07
Individuation
Quote:
Originally Posted by mb05
if it came down to two doulas that you really clicked with, etc., etc. and one was certified and the other wasn't, which would you choose? I'm guessing it would be a money thing...???
I'd choose the one I liked the best, or the one who seemed like she had more free time around the time of my birth. I'd lean towards the non-certified one, but that's just me.
#7 of 8
7/13/07
vrclay
I think the most important things in choosing a doula is a "good fit" as far a philosophy.
#8 of 8
7/14/07
Grace24
We just chose one who is getting certified right before my birth so I will be her first paying client...but I'd have chosen her whether she was certified or not because: 1) she's obviously passionate about it, 2) she's been far more caring and attentive than anyone I asked and we haven't even met yet, and We just feel like a good fit. So just ask questions and see who feels right...I think it's important to feel like they really care about you from the start, and if they're available to answer your questions when you need them.