01/06/2025
M O N D A Y M A N T R A✨
“A hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles.” ~ Christopher Reeve
I watched a Christopher Reeve documentary over the weekend and was particularly struck by how much I resonated with his desire to please and to do. I also resonated strongly with his belief that while we are told where our limits exist, we are allowed to challenge those beliefs… to stretch our limits, and grow our capacity. I resonated strongly with his ambition.
However, in my personal journey, it took me decades to realize how in many ways this ambition was fueled by a desire to somehow elevate my worth, and to bypass emotions that I was afraid to process…
Simply put “self help,” was my avoidance strategy.
The story of my past became louder than my present.
Perhaps shifting the definition of “hero,” into something softer, something less pressurized, less BOLD, we might all be able to love ourselves better…
Exactly. As. We. Are.
Not because of what we were able to endure, or how much we persevered, but because we continued showing up. Period.
Because yes, heroes endure and persevere through extraordinary obstacles that they are faced with… some of them. And other heroes show up more quietly, softly, and with stillness. Some heroes choose to not endure… they surrender instead. And that is equally heroic.
But enduring, persevering, or surrendering for the sake of elevating our worth (to become a hero) in any way, isn’t the key…
Because you, no matter what you’ve been through, no matter whether you chose to move forward, or stay still… are infinitely worthy exactly as you are.
Step forward into the experience of your life with creativity and playful curiosity because you are alive and you can.
Period.
De-pressurize your existence in a way that allows for more play… more peace… more freedom.
As my Dad always said “life is good to dance with, not a fight.”
Let 2025 be your dance… and remember that it’s okay to dance quietly, dance softly, dance peacefully.
Love you,
Kev