We live in a world that constantly demands our attention, and it leaves our minds on high alert, our bodies tense, and our nervous systems in overdrive.
Containment offers a way out.
B**M has a powerful element of containment that creates space to let go of control, silence the hypervigilance, and fully feel the safety of being held in the moment.
True surrender is the joy of letting go and sinking into your own pleasure, trusting the connection, finding freedom, and discovering the bliss of being fully present. 💃
If you’re curious and want to explore intimacy, connection, and the art of letting go, then follow me on this journey into more profound pleasure and self-discovery.
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🌬️ When was the last time you paused and connected with your breath?
Breath is so much more than just air- it’s life force, it’s spirit, and it’s the key to our awakening.
Combined with sound and movement, it’s a gateway to transformation, helping us break free from the static routines that keep us feeling stuck.
Instead of reacting to life on autopilot, imagine pausing, breathing deeply, letting out a sound, and moving your body.
Suddenly, you’re not just living; you’re feeling alive.
It’s not complicated. These simple practices help us shift from a state of “just getting by” to one of vibrant presence.
Next time you feel tense or disconnected, try it: Take a breath, move your body, and let out a sound. Then, ask yourself: “What does my spirit need right now?”
It’s incredible how much shifts when we allow ourselves to tune in. 💓
To dive deeper into this conversation, I invite you to listen in as I connect with Diamond Michael Scott on the “Great Books, Great Voices” podcast: https://chocolatetaoist.substack.com/p/bringing-love-and-intimacy-into-2025
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The first two chakras hold so much of our early life story. 🌍✨
The root chakra, tied to safety and security, carries the imprints of our survival: the fears, uncertainties, and energies surrounding us at birth.
Then comes the sacral chakra, the home of pleasure and pain. It's here that memories of joy, fear, and discomfort are stored—shaped by the cultural narratives and experiences of our upbringing.
That’s why when we approach intimacy and pleasure, it’s not always enjoyable.
But here’s the beauty: by exploring and honoring these energies, we can begin to release what no longer serves us and step into the fullness of our pleasure. 💖
My book, S*x & Happiness: The Ta***ic Laws of Intimacy, offers insights for navigating these deep spaces within yourself.
Grab your copy by visiting https://bit.ly/lauriehandlers-books.
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“You think you're coming here for esoteric s*x, but it’s so much more.”
Intimacy doesn’t just happen on the surface; it requires a full unraveling.
You’ll uncover moments of profound ecstasy, but first, you’ll face a truth that shatters the ego, opens the heart, and awakens the spirit.
When you embrace the full depth of what’s possible, intimacy transforms into a pathway to your most authentic self.
A heartfelt thank you to Layla Martin for having Michael (Extraordinary Lovers) and me on This Ta***ic Life. Even though we recorded this episode a few months ago, its message is as powerful as ever.
🎧 Listen to the full episode on Spotify or YouTube:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5pKY51qskSZK46KrVwnitm?si=01275ecd1d874816
YouTube: https://youtu.be/xsT5qRVVskk?si=BxHEr9Y95nMNU3WZ
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If there’s one word to describe my S*x & Happiness Apprentice Program, it’s juicy. 🍑
Participants often share how it not only changed their professional lives but also profoundly shifted their personal growth, relationships, and self-discovery.
This isn’t just about learning techniques—it’s about discovering the depths of who you are.
It’s a cocoon for transformation, equipping you with the confidence, clarity, and tools to step into your power as a coach, facilitator, and human being.
The Ta***ic Laws of Intimacy and hands-on coaching and facilitation techniques have been combined, and every element is designed to help you step into your full power with clarity, confidence, and authenticity.
What makes it so juicy? It’s the realness, the rawness, and the depth we explore together. We laugh, we release, we grow—and by the end, you’re ready to take what you’ve learned out into the world to inspire and empower others.
What would stepping into your “juiciest self” look like? I'd love to hear your vision in the comments! 💬
If you’re ready to learn, lead, and ignite transformation in the lives of others, I invite you to join me on this extraordinary journey. 🌟
Apply for the 2025 cohort today! https://lauriehandlers.com/2025apprentice
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S*xual empowerment is about freedom, choice, and rediscovering the truth of who we are.
When we shed shame, fear, and guilt, we unlock the power of pleasure and creativity - and it shifts everything…
💞 How we connect
👄 How we communicate
💃 How we show up in our lives
In my conversation with Diamond Michael Scott on a special Chocolate Taoist edition of the "Great Books, Great Voices" podcast, we ignited an embodied conversation about what it means to live fully empowered.
🎧 Catch the entire episode now: https://chocolatetaoist.substack.com/p/bringing-love-and-intimacy-into-2025
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For years, we’ve been sold a fairy tale: meet the one, fall in love, and everything else will fall into place. But life and love are more complex—and so much richer—than the stories we’re told.
In my conversation with Deb Boulanger on Life After Corporate, we explore the journey of love, purpose, and starting fresh—no matter where you are in life. 💖
Listen to the full episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or directly through this link: https://lifeaftercorporate.com/podcast/starting-a-business-later-in-life/
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S*x & Happiness Apprentice Program
One of the most exciting elements of my S*x & Happiness Apprentice Program is the Capstone Project. This isn’t just an assignment; it’s your chance to shine! 🌟
Here, you’ll create something meaningful for your community that establishes you as an expert facilitator and connects with your target audience. By reaching the right people with the right message, you’ll gain the tools to make a lasting impact and confidently step into your role.
Along the way, you’ll work with other coaching clients to hone your skills, deliver a heartfelt 30-minute online presentation to your peers, and receive valuable 360-degree feedback. This supportive process is designed to help you grow into a powerful coach and facilitator.
To ensure you’re on track, you’ll also have monthly 1:1 coaching calls to celebrate wins, tackle challenges, and keep moving forward.
This program is a nurturing container—a transformative space filled with tools and exercises to help you step into a new level in life, love, and relationships.
If this sounds like the step you’ve been waiting for, applications are open now, and spots are limited.
Are you ready? Apply here: https://lauriehandlers.com/2025apprentice.
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It’s a cosmic joke that no one’s teaching, and most men aren’t eager to learn.
True connection—real intimacy—requires just a little extra.
When men slow down, the entire dynamic shifts. It’s not just about the physical; it’s about being fully present in the moment and creating space for deeper intimacy and connection.
Let this be a reminder to pause, breathe, and truly see your partner.
Slowing down might just be the most extraordinary gift you can give to your relationship. 💫
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As we step into 2025, let’s bring intention and mindfulness into our relationships. ✨
Men, just like on the dancefloor, the same three rules apply:
1️⃣ Keep it interesting.
2️⃣ Keep her safe.
3️⃣ Make her look good.
These three things create trust, excitement, and a deeper connection in your partnership.
When you move through life with this mindset, you don’t just meet her needs, you elevate the relationship. 💫
Share your thoughts below.
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At 67, I met the love of my life. Now, at 76, I’m a newlywed.
Here’s the truth: happiness is an inside job. 💫 I couldn’t have found him without first becoming the love of my life.
It took working through my baggage, embracing my imperfections, and setting inner boundaries to meet someone who truly MET me.
My book, S*x & Happiness: It Gets Better with Age, shares the seven laws for staying juicy. It starts with self-love, self-talk, and letting go of what doesn’t serve you.
So I say, don’t give up on love. It’s never too late, and it only gets better with age. 💖
Ready to embrace your journey to love and happiness? Get your copy of my bestselling book and discover how to stay juicy wherever you are in life! https://bit.ly/lauriehandlers-books
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Join My 2025 Apprentice Program Now!
Have you ever dreamed of turning your passion into a purpose that transforms lives? For years, I did too.
Then, I leaped! 💃
What began as a two-year program has evolved into a year-long certification that meets every other week. Watching this program grow has been nothing short of incredible! 💫
This juicy certification guides participants through the powerful principles of S*x and Happiness Coaching and Facilitation.
Several of our graduates are now creating their own curricula, coaching professionally, and teaching where s*x and happiness intersect.
Knowing that the work I’ve dedicated my life to, helping people deepen intimacy and embrace pleasure, is now reaching even more people.
It fills me with so much joy!
Are you ready to leap into this transformational journey? Applications for the next apprentice program are open now! https://lauriehandlers.com/2025apprentice
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