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Love Lust or Bust is a global community where those who love to travel and travel for love can share stories of adventure, passion, and romance. Whether you're in a long-distance relationship, a couple seeking more adventure and excitement, or a solo traveler with wanderlust, share your tips and tricks and get advice from others who have been there.

12/01/2025

When I was little I rarely celebrated my birthday with friends bc there was often a snow storm, or it was so cold no one would come to my parties.

As a young girl that made me so sad.

But I'm not one to sit home and pout.

Instead, I found a way to travel to a new country every year on my birthday.

Kind of a cool plan!

7 years ago, I was alone, it was raining, but I was filled with joy bc I was in Koh Samui, Thailand on my birthday!

I had very little money, but I "splurged" on a private bungalow steps away from the ocean.

I was in heaven.

This year I spent my birthday with my partner and 1 of my closest friends, and had a really lovely time, filled with gratitude.

How do you celebrate your birthday?

06/11/2024

I didn't sleep last night.

Found myself randomly crying throughout the day today.

And then, it hit me.

It took my until just now to get that the outcome of this election triggered me far more than I'd realized.

For me, perhaps for every woman, every little girl who has ever been hurt, att*cked, abus*d, m*lested, s*xually harass*d, r*ped, had a m*n non- c*nsensually "grab her p***y", or had a man force her to give up control completely, not have control over her own body or the right to make decisions about her own body, including whether or not to allow men to touch or violat* her,

The outcome of the election has re-traumatiz*d us,

Giving us a very clear message, that not only did he win today,

But that every mis*gynist who h*tes women, wins today.

Again.

They always win.

In this country, even if he is a convict*d crimin*l, a man who is filled with sheer hatr*d toward women, a man who will incite domestic terror*st to commit treas*n,

he will simply take power and abus* whoever he wants because, he can.

He won because millions and millions of other men who support a man who rap*s and abus*s women voted for him, cheered for him, carried him back to the White House, worshipping him as their idol,

their guru who tells them to sit, stay, roll over, and attack,

is back in power.

Why did I ever believe it was going to be any different?

How did I dare to hope even for 1 second, that I would be able to breathe even for a minute?

How foolish of me to think that I, or any of us girls and women, would be able to feel even the illusion of maybe, finally, one day being safe.

He won.

They won.

They always do.

05/11/2024

Why do people say "Trump or Kamala"?

Why not "Donald or Kamala",

Or "Trump or Harris"?

Hmm?

My friend shared a post called, "Me everyday & What I post."Here is mine 😆😂.Want to share yours?
29/10/2024

My friend shared a post called, "Me everyday & What I post."

Here is mine 😆😂.

Want to share yours?

Please share your nerdy love story with me!~~~~~~~~~~~~~I love romance and love stories, but especially when it is betwe...
18/10/2024

Please share your nerdy love story with me!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I love romance and love stories, but especially when it is between 2 nerds.

I know, but hear me out.

When you watch a typical ROM com, it's usually someone like Cameron Diaz or Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant, or Matthew McConnehy, or other similar model types, and it's beautiful to watch them fall in love.

But take 2 nerdy, average, slightly flawed, gawky people who have a few issues as well.

Say, even, an older, quirky, chubby, extroverted introvert with ADHD who's passions include dressing up in Renaissance faire costumes and making fairy garden houses, and sleeping in caves in other countries.

Who can we match her with, who is going to fall head over heels in love with her and all her foibles and flaws and anxiety and dreams of owning a magical villa along the sea somewhere in Morocco?

Well, an equally quirky, nerdy, flawed, but extremely intelligent, super funny character like my man.

He tracks my flights whenever I travel, he goes crazy over blood moons and insists we eat under the stars gazing at the sky, he speaks multiple languages (including French, which I find so hot), and he can debate just about any topic under the sun.

Oh, and do not challenge him to a word duel, because his vocabulary is much, much more extensive than mine, and I like to think I am a writer.

He loves me no matter what, (mostly) ignores my craziness, and doesn't seem to care whether or not I shave my legs. Can a girl be any luckier?

I think I knew he was the one when I was visiting him a year or so ago,

And I asked him if I could bring him anything.

He refused.

He never asked for new Jordans or an iPhone or clothes or anything.

But when I insisted over and over, he finally, reluctantly agreed when I said,

"Are you sure there is absolutely NOTHING you wish you had that you cannot get where you live?!"

And he shyly replied, "Well...there is one thing. I have searched everywhere for years, and I have always wanted...
The Merriam Webster Collegiate Dictionary."

That's when I knew this was the nerd for me.

Do you have a nerdy love story?

Please share yours with me below!!

16/10/2024

For many years I would walk through Union SQ in NYC on my way to shop at the weekly farmers market, or for clothes at the shops along 14th st.
Sometimes I would sit in the park or near the train station entrance and listen to buskers or performers.

So many times there were protesters there with signs about Palestine that I passed.

Partly I was embarrassed because I had no idea what they were protesting about.

But partly, I just didn't care.

I was dealing with so many of my own issues, and also overwhelmed by so many people suffering around the world, and I just had no idea how I could help, or make a difference.

So I buried my head in the sand, not taking the time to learn more.

Sometimes there were only a few of them. And a few times, I would see a few around 8th Ave and 23 or 24th st, holding a Free Palestine sign, week after week.

I am ashamed to admit I never did anything, esp when we see the horrific things that are happening now.

To those of you who stood outside week after week, in the sun, rain and snow, and to those of you who post every single day now, thank you.

It's time for all of us to unite now to try to help stop this horrific genocide.

21/09/2024

WOW!
A woman in a fb group I am in just wrote this, making me cry!
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April Hope you are immensely talented even beyond the subject matter that you choose to write about I can see your talent and you could write about anything and make it engaging. You have a true unique and powerful gift that can be used and yielded anyway you want to. Much respect i will definitely be a regular reader of your blog.I wish you much success, sis. ✨

So this happened today.When you are given the green light that you.are cancer free, you ring the bell. It was an extreme...
17/09/2024

So this happened today.

When you are given the green light that you.are cancer free, you ring the bell.

It was an extremely emotional day for me.

I am beyond grateful to God that I have been given a 2nd chance at life.

There is more for me to do, be and have here on Earth.

I pray God will guide me and I will be faithful and fulfil my purpose here.


14/09/2024

Some people who are travel writers or influencers choose to stay out of political conversations on their social media.

I invite it.

I believe we can learn from each other, and open our minds up to different opinions.

I get that we are passionate about our feelings, so political discussions and debates can get heated.

However, I would like to request 2 things;

1. I invite people to share their thoughts and opinions here, but PLEASE, do so in a respectful way. No name calling. Even if you think the person sounds absolutely insane, or at the very least, uninformed or uneducated. That may be so. But if our aim is to help others to see why we feel so strongly, if we share out thoughts with them in a respectful and kind way, perhaps we CAN change minds.

2. Please, for anyone who has a strong belief about either candidate and wants to make bold statements, if at all possible, please try to share proof. Perhaps you have a link to a scholarly journal, a poll, or an article that makes you believe the way you do. But if you are going to declare statements like, "Only 1%" or "This is fake and false because..." please give your proof to back up your statements.

3. Please watch your pets. *Memes highly welcome and encouraged.

02/09/2024

Have you ever met someone while traveling?

Or met someone who was visiting your country?

You might be interested in joining our facebook group. Check for the link in the comment section.

You can ask questions, get advice, or find out if someone you are talking to might be using you for s6x money or a visa.

Join the group Love Lust or Bust.

Well, well, well. Guess she showed them.
01/09/2024

Well, well, well.

Guess she showed them.

01/09/2024

Um...

How many times did you hum along to this "I'm so mature" KillBillsong before realizing what the actual words were?

No, just me?

😆 🤣 😂

For the uninitiated;

… I'm still a fan even though I was salty
H*te to see you with some other broad, know you happy
H*te to see you happy if I'm not the one driving
… I'm so mature, I'm so mature
I'm so mature, I got me a therapist to tell me there's other m*n
I don't want none, I just want you
If I can't have you, no one should
I might
… I might k* ill my ex, not the best idea
His new girlfriend's next, how'd I get here?
I might * my ex, I still love him though
Rather be in jail than alone
… I get the sense that it's a lost cause
I get the sense that you might really love her
The text gon' be evidence, this text is evidence
I tried to ration with you, no m**ders or cr*mes of passion, but damn
… You was out of reach
You was at the farmer's market with your perfect peach
Now I'm in the basement, planning home invasion
Now you laying face-down, got me singing over a beat
… I'm so mature, I'm so mature
I'm so mature, I got me a therapist to tell me there's other m*n
I don't want none, I just want you
If I can't have you, no one will
(I might)
… I might * my ex, not the best idea
His new girlfriend's next, how'd I get here?
I might * my ex, I still love him though
Rather be injail than alone
… I did it all for love (love)
I did it all on no dr*gs (dr*gs)
I did all of this sober
I did it all for us, oh
… I did it all for love (love)
I did it all of this on no dr*gs (dr*gs)
I did all of this sober
Don't you know I did it all for us? (I'll *your ass tonight)
… Uh, I just * my ex (my ex)
Not the best idea (idea)
* his girlfriend next, how'd I get here?
I just * my ex (my ex)
I still love him, though (I do)
Rather be in Hell than alone

22/08/2024

I'm embarrassed to admit I used to judge women who walked around without wearing a bra.

But secretly, I was just jealous because they didn't have to, they were bouncing around, all perky.

Now, since I had breast cancer surgery...

I'm one of those women 😆.

A nice lunch in Union Sq. Park Today (NYC). Do you have a nice park near you to have lunch or rest and enjoy nature duri...
22/08/2024

A nice lunch in Union Sq. Park Today (NYC).

Do you have a nice park near you to have lunch or rest and enjoy nature during the day?

18/08/2024

Omg omg the Original Naked Palatte by Urban Decay is back?! For YEARS AND YEARS, I, and many other customers, have been begging for the Original palette to return.

😭 😭 😭

Ok how does this relate to travel? Easy.

The Original palette has day looks and evening smokey eyes, so I don't need to bring several different shadows, this is everything in 1 compact case.

And no I am not being sponsored by Urban Decay.

I've just been in love with this palette over 10 (20?) Years. Yay!

18/08/2024

For a minute,

Just a minute, I thought about how much I would gain if The Orange One got elected after hearing him talk about how pro-bitcoin and crypto he is.

I thought about how much I would profit if he kept his promised.

My dreams of one day buying a home felt a little more attainable, even after an accident caused me to stop working. Even after the pandemic affected me, and so many others, Financially.

But I saw Spike Lee's film, "NYC Epicenters".

I wasn't here in the NYC when so many horrific things went down in the US in 2020/2022.

The pandemic, Black Lives Matter, and so many other other the film.

But AS.i watched the film, I remeembered.

Spike showed all of the things the former president did and said.

During callmuch of the pandemic I was stuck.in a secluded house in a desert.

This election is going to be
A big one.

So please think long and hard before you vote-

But make sure you vote!.

17/08/2024

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When I was little I rarely celebrated my birthday with friends bc there was often a snow storm, or it was so cold no one would come to my parties. As a young girl that made me so sad. But I'm not one to sit home and pout. Instead, I found a way to travel to a new country every year on my birthday. Kind of a cool plan! 7 years ago, I was alone, it was raining, but I was filled with joy bc I was in Koh Samui, Thailand on my birthday! I had very little money, but I "splurged" on a private bungalow steps away from the ocean. I was in heaven. This year I spent my birthday with my partner and 1 of my closest friends, and had a really lovely time, filled with gratitude. How do you celebrate your birthday?

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Love Lust or Bust; A guide to romance & travel...with a bit of scandal! Love Lust or Bust is a global community where those who love to travel and travel for love can share stories of adventure, passion, and romance. Whether you're in a long-distance relationship, a couple seeking more adventure and excitement, or a solo traveler with wanderlust, share your tips and tricks and get advice from others who have been there. www.LoveLustorBust.com