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"倾听"是建立亲子关系的重要渠道
< Parenting Talk >
Episode 24
‘𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴’ 𝗶𝘀 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁-𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽
Traditional parents don't listen to their children and don't allow children to have the space to express themselves
But, 'Listening' is more important than 'speaking' in communication
Elly always listens to her children's ideas rather than denying them.
She pays attention when listening to her children so that she can understand her children's ideas and opinions.
She gives space to children to express their feelings, talks about topics that they are interested in, gives them the freedom to express themselves.
𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙠𝙚𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩-𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙢𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣
𝙋𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙬𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙖𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚❤️
《育儿•谈》
Episode 24
“ #倾听” #是建立亲子关系的重要渠道
传统父母所呈现的态度里只有“我说,你听”。
“说”不是沟通的重点,“听”才是沟通的主要元素。
Elly 从不急于否定孩子,她是一个愿意倾听孩子心声的好妈妈。
她是一位全神贯注的倾听者,也尝试换位思考,去接纳孩子的观点与想法。
她提供孩子表达感受的时间和空间、聊孩子感兴趣的话题,还给予孩子适当的自主空间。
#亲子沟通•在于用心
#用心倾听•用爱表达
Elly 共勉之💕
#学费👉🏻爸妈资助 #生活费👉🏻自行负责‼️
《育儿•谈》
Episode 21
#孩子出国留学,
#学费👉🏻爸妈资助
#生活费👉🏻自行负责‼️
Elly 坦言,
要孩子自行赚取出国留学的生活费,心里难免会心疼孩子吃苦.....
她心里明白一个道理:
“不经一番寒彻骨,
焉得梅花扑鼻香”。
每个孩子都必须经过一番磨练,才会越发稳重与成长!
Elly在灌输孩子储蓄的概念上,有自己的一套见解。当中孩子们都非常的认同与接受她的理财观念。
孩子们感恩爸爸妈妈创新的家庭教育,一步一脚印地把他们拉扯大。
思维创新的父母,
造就了3个适应能力强的幸福孩子......💕
创造机会, 让孩子“赚取额外的零花钱”
《育儿•谈》
Episode 20
#创造机会,
#让孩子“赚取额外的零花钱”!🤑
打从孩子小学阶段,
Elly已经开始灌输孩子“经商之道”!
三个宝贝在Pasar Malam开拓自己的小本生意,当中的乐趣与检讨,让夫妻俩乐在其中。
孩子从实践活动中,领悟到什么叫“本钱、盈利、净赚、行销策略”等生意技巧。
对于Elly灌输孩子的金钱观念与方法,大家的想法不一,有褒也有贬。
#Elly相信在育儿过程,
#每一位父母都是各施各法。
#世上没有绝对完美的方法,
#更加没有绝对完美的教育。
#世上也没有完美的小孩,
#因为我们都是不完美的父母。
Elly所走过的每一步,_ 合适与否,乐于分享给大家做参考❣️
"Parenting Talk"
Episode 20
𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗸𝗶𝗱𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝘁𝗼 "𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗲𝘅𝘁𝗿𝗮 𝗽𝗼𝗰𝗸𝗲𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆"! 🤑
Since elementary school stage,
Elly has started teaching her children "about business"!
Her three darlings ran a small business in the local night market (pasar malam). Elly and her husband enjoyed watching how the children had fun and reflected own the day.
From the practical activities, the children understand the concept of business such as "capital, profit, net profit, and marketing strategy".
There has been contradictory views on Elly’s method of teaching the children about finance.
𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙣 𝙨𝙤, 𝙀𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨, 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙜𝙮.
𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙬𝙖𝙮,
𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚
想要 vs 需要 |育儿谈之理财篇
《育儿•谈》
Episode 17
#如何教孩子“理财”❓
💰你不理财,财不理你💰
💰会“理”才有“财”😅
💁🏻♀️Elly坦言,教孩子理财很简单,就从“想要”和“需要”开始......
在理财教育的概念上,两者最明显的差异是——“想要”是由孩子负责,“需要”则是由父母负责。
孩子每次要买东西之前,先让他们想一想那是“想要”还是“需要”,以训练他们的金钱思维。
父母从小培养孩子建立收入、储蓄和消费的理财习惯。应当“有了钱先存,存够了才花”的理财概念。
“一分耕耘,一分收获”,金钱并非从天而降。
孩子必须明白金钱的重要性,而它却也不是万能的。
人人都说“富不过三代”,倘若孩子不需要经过努力就轻易得到财富,金山银山都会倒。
#父母趁早灌输孩子对金钱的概念、培养孩子驾驭金钱、创造金钱能力、控制欲望的能力,让孩子受益一辈子......🥰
Elly 共勉之💕
"Parenting•Talk"
Episode 17
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 “𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁"❓
💰If you don’t manage your finance, then you’ll not be able to control it💰
"Wealth" can only be achieved by "management" 😅
💁🏻♀️𝗘𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲, 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 "𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀" 𝗮𝗻𝗱 "𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀"...
In the concept of financial education, the most obvious difference between the two is that the child is responsible for the "wants", and the parent is responsible for the "needs".
Every time chil
孩子学不会,还是父母教不会?有没有其他因素?
"Parenting•Talk"
Episode 12
𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 🆚 𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁
Impatient parents,
Can't teach good children, do you agree? 🙋🏻♀️
There are thousands kinds of parents in the world,
Different parents have different ways of education.
A good family education is inseparable from "love, companionship and patience."
Today we will talk about “patience”.
Patience = not losing control of emotions, not verbally hurting, not using violence
𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 = 𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗿𝗶𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱'𝘀 𝗯𝗮𝗱 𝗵𝗮𝗯𝗶𝘁𝘀/𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗼𝗿, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝟮𝟭 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲
𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 = 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄 (𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝗼𝗿 𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿)
Many times, parents need to self-examine:
💡Is it that the kid who can’t learn, or I can’t teach it ❓
💡Was I hurrying through the process and used an adult’s perspective to measure the child’s learning progress ❓
💡Am I too demanding and have high expectations ❓
Being patient with a child is not just to tolerate the child's words and deeds, but to help him learn and grow in a more efficient way.
However, if you occasionally encounter extreme anger and madness, and completely lose patience, as long as you don't say or make irreparable harm to your child's mind and body, don't be too guilty.
Parents can also try and practice repeatedly to keep themselves in control:
❤️Take a deep breath, count to ten, and calm down first.
❤️Leave the scene and separate temporarily.
Parents can show dis
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"Parenting•Talk"
Episode 11
𝗛𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲 🆚 𝗦𝗼𝗳𝘁𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲
𝗛𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲 ➖ knowledge and skills
𝗦𝗼𝗳𝘁𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲➖Emotional intelligence, morality, stress resistance, leadership, independence, self-control, interpersonal skills...
🤷🏻♂️ 𝗜𝗻 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱’𝘀 𝗲𝗱𝘂𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁?
💁🏻♀️ Most people will say that both are equally important 😬
🧑🏻🏫 𝗜𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁?
🔺Yes, important.
🔺But parents shouldn’t be too “careful” or “picky” on the gains and losses of scores.
🔺Scores are only a short-term gain. It is wise to look at the growth of the child in his life.
🧑🏻🏫 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝗳𝘁𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲?
🔺More important...
🔺It needs long-term and long-lasting training
🔺It is mainly cultivated through parents' words and deeds, love and companionship in life
In real life, children that have good software tend to integrate easier, and children with only hardware are more likely to be rejected.
[𝗦𝗼𝗳𝘁𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲] is currently the most needed values in the society.
𝟴𝟬% 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻'𝘀 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗳𝘁𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝟮𝟬% 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲. (𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗛𝗮𝗿𝘃𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝗨𝗻𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁)
𝗘𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗳
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#让你孩子快速认识字汇 #轻松爱上华文 💕
#宝贝不为教而教
#因为我们希望孩子由衷的爱上学习
与孩子的约定 · 君子一言既出,驷马难追 | 育儿·谈
《育儿•谈》
Episode 10
#与孩子的“约定”, #最好言出必行‼️
孩童的单纯如同一张白纸,
他们对父母所说的话深信不疑。对于外人对父母的批评或质疑,孩子甚至会第一个站出来维护自己的父母。
#Elly与孩子们从小开始约法三章。
#任何与孩子的约定,夫妻俩会在约定时间兑现承诺。
若真的有突发状况而违反约定,他们会先向孩子道歉,再解释事情的真相,从不欺骗孩子。
他们坚信对孩子一次又一次“爽约”或“敷衍了事”,孩子顿时的失望、无助、情绪失控,甚至开始困惑与质疑这个世界的真实性等......
以上种种将造成孩子心理上的伤害,影响甚远!
#“君子一言既出,驷马难追”。
#父母遵守与孩子的约定,将决定能否把孩子培养成一个言而有信、对社会和生活负责的人。
Elly 共勉之💕
"Parenting•Talk"
Episode 10
"𝘼𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙢𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨" 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙,𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙗𝙚 𝙠𝙚𝙥𝙩‼️ ️
The innocence of a child is like a blank sheet of paper,
They believed in what their parents said. If there encounter criticism or doubts from outsiders towards their parents, children will even be the first to stand up for their parents.
𝗘𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗶𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝗴𝗲. 𝗔𝗻𝘆 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗶𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲.
𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝘁𝗵
孩子追明星、追Youtuber❗️怎么办❓有影响吗❓
《育儿•谈》
Episode 9
#陪孩子一起✨追星✨……
追星,
似乎是各年龄层都会有的美好回忆!
孩子有追星梦时,
父母岂不能断然制止或剥夺孩子喜欢的权利,
而必须表示支持与陪伴孩子一起去追星......?🤩
🤔倘若孩子是过分沉迷于追星,那么凡事事出必有因。
❓缺乏父母的关爱
❓缺乏父母的陪伴
❓心灵空虚
孩子的追星对象有:歌星、明星、卡通、动漫人物等。
追星的时期短暂或悠久,因人而异!
追星是一场家庭拉锯战,
父母引导得当,追星可以激励孩子积极向上;相反的,终将成了彼此之间的隔阂与代沟。
#尤其在青春期的孩子,对偶像的崇拜犹如心中完美自我的一种现实投射。父母一旦批评孩子的偶像,如同是在打击孩子。
#Elly放宽心,做三位孩子追星路上志同道合的战友,引导孩子找到追星的目标和学习的平衡点,最终成就更好的自己❗️
"Parenting•Talk"
Episode 9
𝗕𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻✨𝗮𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿✨……
Admiring a star,
It seems to be a fond memory of all ages!
When a child has a star that s/he adores,
Parents will not be able to stop or deprive their children of their right to admire, perhaps it is better to show your support and accompany them through the journey...? 🤩
🤔 If the child is addicted to a star, then we shall trace back, everything happens for a reason.
❓ Lack of parental care
❓ Lack of parental company
❓ Emptiness of the mental health
The potential “stars” for the children to admire include: singers, celebrities, cartoons, cartoon characters, etc.
The period of this admiration could be short or long, and varies from person to person!
Admiring a star is a family tug of war.
Parents that provide proper guidance can encourage their children to be positive. On to